Yes, my wife was told it takes 2 weeks before the dairy leaves your system.
I meant more the 'smacking' latching issue, but I'm definitely counting down the days until that 2 week mark!
Got a question for ya ParentGaf.
My daughter, Mia...
And here I thought I'd picked a fairly uncommon name for mine.
I feel like GAF is producing an attractive next generation overall. GOOD JOB, EVERYONE.
This thread almost makes me want to have another one, so please everyone keep posting about how sleepless you are. It helps.
I had a lot of trouble BFing in general, but that was because my milk production wasn't up to snuff. However, because we weren't sure what was going on, I tried a lot of things, and the nipple shields helped (the little silicone covers that make nipples more like bottle nipples, I guess). Kind of a pain in the ass (or in the tit), and not an optimal solution for many reasons, but maybe something to try? It did help with getting a better latch.
Haha. We've yet to see how Mia will turn out once she fills out. She kinda looks like a cross-eyed Jabba these days. In fact, I had to get her passport photos for our move to England and because a one month old can't really hold their head straight for prolonged periods and are still learning to focus, her pictures came out...special. Like, she ate another baby and did hard drugs special.
For the BF issue, after looking a lot online, I think the latching issue is related to hyperlactation. My milk recently started spraying, we've had a few greenish diapers, that smacking/clicking latching issue, the horrible gassiness, and the constant feeding all point to the let down being too strong and her getting too much of that foremilk. It sounds plausible, anyway. Trying new positions and a bit of block feeding to correct it. Can't hurt anyway. Will look into the nipple shields if it persists, though.
Have you also tried those gel things? They don't help with latching, but you're supposed to refrigerate them and put them on after feeding for some cooling relief.
I think my son just hit his 2-week growth spurt. He's hungry like every hour. And since it takes about an hour to feed him anyway, it's like non-stop.
I haven't heard of gel things, but I've gotten past the cracked/bleeding/pain part, so I think I'm good. Would have loved those the first three weeks, though. ;_;
I feel ya on the feeding thing. I wish I could guarantee it gets more drawn out between feeds, and it does for many, but I'm still in the 'every hour' boat at 5 weeks. Still better than the every 30 minute cluster feeds!
You might find some help through the
La Leche League site. Logan's latching problems weren't solved until we had his tongue and lip ties surgically revised.
We were told the same. We were also told soy contains a similar problematic protein, so both dairy and soy should be avoided.
Thanks, yo~ Checked it out and it's definitely given me a lot of food for thought. Sad about the soy, though. My husband went on a huge hunt for milk alternatives for my latte and came back with a bunch of varieties of soy to try...
For what it's worth, my first child was a nightmare to breastfeed and went through various phases of not latching on properly. My wife tried all sorts of techniques and my child went through an entirely random sequence of finding new ways to not latch properly and get upset. We'd think we'd nailed it and then a week later there'd be some new issue.
We had to use a bottle to "top him up" since he was losing weight. We went to exclusively bottle feeding after about a month. Health workers were worse than useless, with advice that came down to "Keep trying, stay positive, you'll get there eventually". Nope.
Then we had our second and despite doing everything exactly the same, she has exclusively breastfed with no problems and will not accept anything else at all (this is getting to be a problem as she needs to be weened).
When people say that all kids are different, it's not just a wishy-washy pleasantry.
Sorry you guys had such trouble. This whole breastfeeding thing seems ridiculously complicated, painful, and problematic. It's no wonder a large number of mothers give up and switch to formula. The whole guilt/ "Keep trying, stay positive, you'll get there eventually" stuff really stokes my grill. (<--did you see the whole Jamie Oliver twitter blow-up about this the other day?)
Anyway, thanks for sharing. I'm remaining positive that I'll find a solution, but I'll switch to formula if I have to and screw the naysayers. Good luck on your second mini!