You're very wrong. It has been a decade since "Gotta Catch 'em All" was removed as the franchise tagline. Training a Pokemon isn't about grinding. It's about building them a certain way. My Slowking was actually bred and even levelled / EVed by my friend. Love the guy. Been using him for 2 years. I know a lot of people who are particularly fond of certain Pokemon they've used and none of it has to do with the breeding process or EVing process. The memories they have are of the battles they've had with it.But I think Pokemon is about acquiring the tools. What's the franchise tagline? Gotta catch 'em all, right? Pokemon isnt just about battling because then you'd just be able to select pokemon from a character select screen. That takes away from what makes the franchise what it is. It's not Showdown, and I don't want it to be. I have no connection with my digital creatures in Showdown because I just selected stats and moves and didnt really have to put in any effort. When I win with my BW2 pokemon, I know that there's hundreds of hours behind those wins. EV training, egg hatching, and practice battling. When it comes together, that's what makes Pokemon what it is. At least that's how I see it. If I'm wrong, I don't want to be right.
I think it's hard to judge this unless you've had both simulator and live tournament practice.