Max i can tolerate in semi realistic but not that realistic setting is kill bill movies, that was crazy enough to not take itself seriously but kinda set in modern day society w/o magic, u still had martial arts training on way above realistic lvl tho

Keep in mind kiddo beatrice never had/used physical advantage vs even avg looking males, she mostly used her katana, like 90%+ of fighttime.
TLDR Female protag used her skill/technique/quick thinking outside the box, not physical strenght advantage/durability like for example abby used multiple times in tlou2(which was crazy immersion breaking).
From actual games- game isnt out yet but maybe ghost of yotei, hard to say as of yet tho.