But it's the same if you only have 1 gb to "play". I mean it doesn't matter at all. The os memory doesn't change anything.
Would you rather have 1.5GB total RAM with 512MB used for the OS or 2GB with 1GB used for the OS? Obviously the second option leaves much more room for future increases in gaming RAM. So having 2GB is certainly a positive thing and most definitely make a difference.
Exceeding DX10.1 should be expected
Of course, reasonable people did expect it.