Basically. The community went from, "These games are actually really awesome, but kind of obtuse. Let me help you get started so you can enjoy them," to "You aren't supposed to be able to find things, casual, git gud or git gone."
The original community was about people coming together to help each other: to figure out the nearly indecipherable lore, to puzzle through the poorly-documented mechanics, or just to help new players figure out where to go when one of the worst examples of early level design in a game funneled thousands of hopeless would-be players into Skeleton Holocaust Zone and would have otherwise caused them to drop the game in frustration.
The modern community is all about telling people off for wanting to experience the games in anything but the most adverse conditions and trying to make everything harder than it has to be.
I think it's a lot of why I can't see myself ever forgetting why I loved Dark Souls 1. It was just as much the mechanics and level design as it was that little community we had.
Popularity begets erosion, but it does hurt to have stuff like the Dark Souls 1 "PREPARE TO DIE" marketing to trace back to the new prevailing, cancerous community that grew out of a kind, genuine community of people who just loved the games.
It's hard to communicate how special it was, even for the short amount of time I got to be a part of it.
maybe my memory does suck. I swear they reassembled in the graveyard. Or do they just put themselves together to spawn?
I don't know. I retract my 'everything short of blah' comment, I suppose, but I still don't think it's that bad. You're right that the path is not shaft-of-light obvious... maybe I overestimate people.
Also I kinda think finding your way to go is part of the challenge of souls games... but maybe that's a little too shitty for a new player who's just come out of the Asylum.
If you hit them with a heavy weapon, their poise break (iirc it's poise break) deassembles them, but they come back together. The health bar goes down normally, and if you actually depelete it, they stop "re forming"
It's very confusing for new people. Though actually now that I think about it, they may be patched.
I also definitely agree with Imperfect on showing where the path to the Burg is, I went deep into New Londo and into the Catacombs before I found the *path* to the burg, my first time.