Can check out http://acc.sosi.kr/, but it hasn't been updated in awhile now unfortunately =/Deadly said:Anyone have a site an snsd iphone theme website or something? Looking for Yuri/Taeyeon/Tiffany especially =(
Can check out http://acc.sosi.kr/, but it hasn't been updated in awhile now unfortunately =/Deadly said:Anyone have a site an snsd iphone theme website or something? Looking for Yuri/Taeyeon/Tiffany especially =(
Never forget.Ashhong said:Angles, diet, etc etc. Once they come back to performing they will be perfect again. Guaranteed.
Dice said:Does glasses-fetish-gaf like Eunjung?
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FxnPy8PvVaE
I personally like her lips... and eyes... and everything.
lol damn i've been reading it as captyamamoto all this time.CaptYamato said:It's Tiffany and you added a "yo" to my name lol.
Dice said:I like the Taeyeon pics. I was looking for more for my Genie post.
Edit: LOL
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rJz7rEc9ec4
Poor fan has no clue why she laughed at their loving call.
smurfx said:lol damn i've been reading it as captyamamoto all this time.
Oppa is what a girl calls an older guy. She should have said eonni.CaptYamato said:Why did she laugh?
Dice said:T-ara megapost. Enjoy.
Dice said:Edit: LOL
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rJz7rEc9ec4
Poor fan has no clue why she laughed at their loving call.
Dice said:Oppa is what a girl calls an older guy. She should have said eonni.
That should be common knowledge in this thread. How much Korean education do we need to give?
Salazar said:
Dice said:Eunjung
Salazar said:
Dice said:Oppa is what a girl calls an older guy. She should have said eonni.
That should be common knowledge in this thread. How much Korean education do we need to give?
No. The attitude around them may loosen or the meaning broaden (for instance, girls call their boyfriend oppa as a cute thing, like "sweetie") but those terms are here to stay.tubgirlsplumber said:Is stuff like this going away - I mean calling your boyf a brother and honorifics and polite terms and all that.
The word "theatrics" doesn't come off very understanding or nice. I recommend not using that word when speaking to any Koreans about it.There are some comparisons in the English language and western culture - not so much stuff like oppa, but using formal terms to elders etc and to some degree today people prefer being called 'sir' by a stranger. But this is pretty minimal to non-existent these days and is nothing compared to the theatrics of Korean practise.
I'm wondering as time goes on that there will be less use of formal language to elders etc?
Dice said:No. The attitude around them may loosen or the meaning broaden (for instance, girls call their boyfriend oppa as a cute thing, like "sweetie") but those terms are here to stay.
The word "theatrics" doesn't come off very understanding or nice. I recommend not using that word when speaking to any Koreans about it.
There is evidence that some of it is getting a bit looser with the influence of the internet where you don't know if someone you're talking to is older or younger than you, male or female, what sort of job or position in society they have, etc. However, this translating into everyday life of the culture is an entirely different matter. It's much different than the western culture. Trust me, I can tell by you asking this that you have no idea how strongly Confucian models are tied to the Korean identity or how strong the grip of that is. If it does go away, it won't be in our lifetime.
It's not like you are thinking.Ok this is just language use we are talking about but, you just get the vibe that you are prejudged by what you are and not who you are.
Niks said:wow
Can someone link me to this performance on youtube?
Ashhong said:Jihae's outfit here is hot hot hot. Love the big sweater/seemingly no pants look
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6tShC94jKps
Niks said:wow
Can someone link me to this performance on youtube?
Dice said:Taeyeon looks so good in that second pic. That is probably how she looks in person.
4minute is coming back.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C5oS9K9SjCY
Jihyun rubs herself with baby oil every morning.
Dice said:It's not like you are thinking.
First of all, what I mean by social status is in a sense of real seniority and authority over you. If a person has been doing your job longer, you give them proper respect. If someone is a cop or a judge or your boss, you give them respect, etc. It's not that you go and treat people like garbage because they don't make as much money as you or something. I'm sure some do, as every society manifests that sort of prejudice, but it is in other ways most of the time.
Secondly, tied with the honor is a role. Younger ones respect and listen to older ones, and the older ones care after and advise the younger ones. A friend of mine is the oldest in her group of (Korean girl) friends, and she has often talked to me about the pressures on her from that. Same for seniority in a field of work, or some other way that a person would function as a teacher to you. Family has order as well but more intimacy, and generally with peers you are pretty friendly and as a distinct generation you learn to function together well, guided by the older generation and guiding the younger.
It is different, and it does have drawbacks but it also has many benefits, which you can plainly see in the rapid progress Korea has been making and (if you share life within the culture) a clearly visible warmth and strong bond of community in different groups within the larger community. It can be abused, but that doesn't mean that it always is or that it should be discontinued because of those abuses. Is it old? Yes. Is it archaic? I'd say that is a poor characterization of it based on false equivocations you are making to the vapid and vain pleasantries of our culture.
I would also ask if you think it is even possible to be judged for "who you are" in general society? Do you think that happens elsewhere? If so, how? I don't think it does because I don't think you can. It takes time and investment to know what a person is really like, and most social interactions aren't on that level. I think a system that automatically grants each individual their generally earned measures of both dignity and responsibility is a very good thing to have in place as a starting point for new relationships.
Dice said:Cool, I'm still learning about Korean history. You could say my sources are biased, being mostly Korean.