I'm just so glad I'm no longer in college...though to be honest, I think sometimes not everyone needs to be pushed to go to college. Trade schools might be better off for others.
This. And trades earn you lots of cash here. One of my friends went to school for plumbing and he earns more money a year than some of my friends in nursing or engineering (depends on what field they're in, though). Another one went to school to be an electrician and he has lots of job security. Additionally, we have private institutions like Herzing, Everest, Trillium, etc. Their programs typically last for 1-2 years with an internship and then you can work afterwards as you have certification. I know lots of people who ended up doing that after they realized college/uni wasn't for them and they're working full-time now. It's also much cheaper than a college diploma/uni degree.
So no, school isn't for everyone at all. It's certainly beneficial to go to school to get a piece of paper, but not every school is going to give you a piece of paper + an internship that'll let you get some job experience. Hell, I know a few people who went to the military college or just straight-up joined the military right out of high school, and they're pretty damn successful (though some don't like that they move often). Some went on to take on apprenticeships instead. Point is, they're out of school and they're working already... and they have no loans to pay off because the military supported them throughout school. But the military option isn't for everyone either.
Oh, and Canada separates Colleges from Universities. Universities are where you go to pursue
degrees, and you generally have less hands-on opportunities. In my... 7 years of going to university, I can say that they moreso prepare you for something in academia. Colleges offer more hands-on courses, and they let people pursue
diplomas or certificates... but they're more career-oriented than academically-focused.
Additionally, Ontario high schools offer different branches depending on if you want to pursue college, trades, apprenticeships, or university. There are courses designed for people who want to go right into the workplace/apprenticeships right after high school, courses designed specifically for people who want to go to college, and courses designed specifically for people who want to go to university. So I took (Uni English, Uni Religion (Catholic school; had to take religion for 4 years), Uni Calculus, Uni Chem, Uni Bio, Uni Physics, Uni Stats, Uni Discrete, etc.). Certain classes were only available to each branch. Some classes were for both types of students. Some classes were open to all three types of students. I didn't like the segregation much, since a lot of my friends were in the college-level classes, but it kind of ensured that things weren't too hard for everyone. Plus everyone has to take the same standardized tests in the form of the literacy test and the math test.
Honestly, if I'd known so many years ago that I didn't want to be a doctor (and that I wasn't going to be able to be a speech-language pathologist), I would have gone to college for something and then would've been working earlier + got job experience. My current university is a combination of uni+college, and I love the hands-on approach very much.
I kind of feel bad for some of my buddies in the Ph.D. program because they still don't know wtf they want to do and are just going to school still because they have nothing else to do! At the end, they're going to have lots of loans to pay back, but employment in academia isn't a sure-fire thing at all. Not from what I heard. One of my friends used to teach at the university I graduated from, and he ended up moving several times because getting tenure/having stable employment is difficult in academia. This guy has a family to support now, so it's kind of a shame for him to constantly move.
I
was offered by my uncle to stay with him in Brooklyn if I chose to go to New York for school two years ago, but I'd have to get relicensed if I came back to Canada to work. I heard American schools are a little more relaxed than ours in terms of requirements, and that's something I would've liked, tbh.