The difference, of course, being that if you, as someone who likes ADS, decides not to buy a game that doesn't have it, you've got dozens of options every year, at least a couple of which are likely to slot into whatever other stylistic preferences you might have.
Whereas for those people who hate ADS, it is basically a gift from heaven if there are three credible non-ADS games in a two-year period, and if those games fail to appeal to you for any reason besides ADS, you pretty much just suck it up and don't play any games in this genre for another couple years.