It's been a trying few weeks and I do hope everyone involved here can learn about the direction everybody would like to pull in and not just a handful and definitely not turn this thread into an even more insular community than it looks from the outside.
As someone who is new to SteamGAF and GAF in general (I literally steam-chatted Stump during the Steam sale about getting my 7 year old account finally approved and he helped me like a boss.) I never once saw SteamGAF as being insular when I was lurking, and it was SteamGAF's awesomeness that led me to actually send an inquiry to Stump... Furthermore everyone has been extremely welcoming to me and other new people. Even people who have Junior Member status aren't looked down upon here like they are, often, on the rest of the forum.
I do see your point, but I think SteamGAF is one of the more welcoming places on GAF, and I think part of that comes from the fact that we do share jokes, anecdotes about life and other things with each other. Although I do see your point about things getting out of control--there should be a happy medium.
Just my $.02