i actually like the series as a whole, surprisingly my biggest problem actually wasn't shinji, but more how the last few episodes and ending (both show and movie) really just went completely off the rails with next to no explanation about anything.
the pure coolness of the angels and actual plot of the show had me far more interested than the characters introspection, and the ending seemed to throw away the plot to focus entirely on the phychodrama. i can see why and how some people would have preferred that, but not me.
also, if my skeleton is stuck here, then who will be keeping tabs on my skin! think of all the villainous acts it might commit!