I'm going back to a regular forehand grip
I played this one guy who was pretty good (our match went to a decider, but we couldn't finish..but he forfeited so technically, I won) and my weird grip definitely hinders me when I play a decent player. I could feel it.
The day I was complaining about that tennis coach for losing that match: I'm just going to pretend that that match didn't happen and try again. I've been hitting the wall and I've found that I have more control when I have a tighter grip as opposed to a loose grip....which was probably my problem that fateful day
I've been unable to get any practice with a real person because my hitting partner cancelled on me TWICE this week >_<
I have a match tomorrow against someone who I think is REALLY good and I may get my ass beat. So that, combined with the fact that I have ZERO practice using the FH, probably won't make things any easier for me. But I have vowed that no matter how the match goes, I am going to stick with the FH and completely abandon my previous one. I'm on a 5-match win streak so losing won't be so bad (if that happens) =p
EDIT: Also, I found that I can get more serve speed if 1) I direct my ball toss slightly in front of me instead of almost above me and 2) if I aim with the right side of the racket face instead of the center. It seems like my body auto-corrects because I was able to hit the perfect serve down the T (deuce court) for the first time....AND was able to hit a perfect out-wide serve. Right on the line. On PURPOSE! lol
I accidentally discovered this when I was practicing my serve. Also, I notice that a lot of club players have some weird ass service motions @_@. I just modeled my serve after what I saw on TV.
(but who am I to judge after having had a stupid FH? lol)