So black-gaf or African gaf.
Has this ever happened to you?
I just got offered a marriage proposal ( as in, marry my daughter please), and this isn't the first time either.
My answer?
I just laugh it off and tell them to talk to my mom about it. "That end of the business is handled by my mom".
My mom talks to me, in a way where she's implying I should get married.
Actually, my mother told me just a few days ago that if I haven't settled down by the time I'm 23 ( that's 1.5 to 2 years from now), she will 'force' me to marry.
So black-gaf, I might not be in the game for long any more.