So there I was on FB, minding my business while looking at Kevin Harts' pictures when...I saw "it". "It" being the familiar two words I see/hear all too often coming from black women.
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Also [URL="http://www.neogaf.com/forum/showthread.php?t=449059"]this [/URL]ScOULaris thread gets me thinking...is MvC the fried chicken of videogames? I keep seeing that it's a "black" thing while I always assumed everyone liked it, regardless of race![/QUOTE]
There is one point in this subject that isn't brought up enough; the fact that there are many white women who are drawn to black men. I get this impression that amongst the criticism of these black men is a misconception that they are chasing/targeting another ethnic group, a misconception that ignores the above fact. You'll find many reasons from people as to why black men, for example, date white women or light skin women, reasons ranging from attraction to personality, but I've also come across similar rhetoric from white women in why they prefer black men over others, often for similar reasons. Once you consider there is a similar psychology, regardless of whether its influenced by environment or media, and thus a mutual attraction then I think it puts a different perspective on it.
There is a video on YouTube (I'm struggling to find it at the moment) of a talk show where interracial dating is discussed and in it were white women with their black male partners speaking of their experiences with men from both races. Their point was that black men were better lovers physically and emotionally. The host then went to the audience and asked a white male to respond and he offered that he's never had any complaints from former lovers as to his performances, for example, in bed. A white woman in the audience shook her head in disapproval, and when the mic was given to her, she responded - in agreement with the couple on stage - that black men are better in bed. I imagine a few white men watching this were agitated by what they were witnessing and it reminded me of those videos of black women expressing their bewilderment of the sight of black men with white women and all that it suggested.