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The Black Culture Thread

justjohn

Member
Advance_Alarm said:
relevent to MLK day, so many either casual or actual bitter racists at my job. "nigga day, a dark day in history, etc". the worst was someone saying "we should kill 6 more so that we have the rest of the week off". i could only smh
Either this is a lie or you're the worst black man in history? How the fuck do you let people say stuff like this at your job and let them get away with it?
 

LosDaddie

Banned
SSJ1Goku said:
I'll probably regret this but whatever :lol :

http://www.blogtalkradio.com/juiceradio/2011/01/03/why-are-black-women-alone
My argument got a little muddle because I got too damn emotional, I need to practice my Kap Fu

EDIT: Here is some comm that SWP did about that show:

http://www.generation-x.net/viewVideo.php?video_id=5156&title=SISSY_BOI&vpkey=

I won't be doing any more blogtalk shows because they piss me off. I honestly did not think that problems in the black community were that bad, but that show and a few before it had me shocked.

I listened to most of that. Lots of anger there.



Advance_Alarm said:
relevent to MLK day, so many either casual or actual bitter racists at my job. "nigga day, a dark day in history, etc". the worst was someone saying "we should kill 6 more so that we have the rest of the week off". i could only smh

Nothing that extreme at my office, but I heard at least a couple times that Lincoln should get his own day too....and that the only reason there's an MLK Day is because of white guilt from liberals.
 
No way any of you guys work in corporate, talk like that wouldn't fly for a second. I had a guy get fired from my last job just for making comments about slavery after a female coworker said she was from Alabama.
 

LosDaddie

Banned
MWS Natural said:
No way any of you guys work in corporate, talk like that wouldn't fly for a second. I had a guy get fired from my last job just for making comments about slavery after a female coworker said she was from Alabama.

I work for an engineering firm. Bashing Democrats and liberals is an almost daily occurrence here.
 
Advance_Alarm said:
relevent to MLK day, so many either casual or actual bitter racists at my job. "nigga day, a dark day in history, etc". the worst was someone saying "we should kill 6 more so that we have the rest of the week off". i could only smh

You file complaints - plural - on that shit.

Then you strut around like you have an 8 foot dick, like "lol I'm black and you can't touch me motherfuckers". It makes them angry...it makes it funnier.

I've never heard anything like that at jobs I've worked at. Nobody will even make any comment that could be interpreted as offensive to blacks, especially when I'm around.

On that note, has anyone experienced being the black guy that answers for all blacks? Like if someone wants to "ask a black person", they come to you? Or if they're about to make some comment, they ask you if it's okay? That shit is such lulz.
 

dskillzhtown

keep your strippers out of my American football
captmcblack said:
On that note, has anyone experienced being the black guy that answers for all blacks? Like if someone wants to "ask a black person", they come to you? Or if they're about to make some comment, they ask you if it's okay? That shit is such lulz.

I remember this white chick at work got that booty bop or whatever to make her ass look bigger. She comes up to me and asks how it looks. She didn't ask anyone else, but asked me because she thought I was a "booty expert", her words.
 

JGS

Banned
Well context is important and if he is the only black guy amongst a thousand white racist then I might keep my mouth shut until I get to a news crew and attorney.

I was assuming he worked at an auto plant & I've definitely heard stories of off color humor (To put it mildly) & little action from the admins.
 

Imm0rt4l

Member
Advance_Alarm said:
relevent to MLK day, so many either casual or actual bitter racists at my job. "nigga day, a dark day in history, etc". the worst was someone saying "we should kill 6 more so that we have the rest of the week off". i could only smh
Are you black? Did you say anything?
 
Its a sports bar restaurant that is owned by an ex drug task force cop from Houston (aka doesn't like black people) and managed by a Tea partier. Of the 3 black people there I'm the only one without a criminal record, the others were in for attempted murder and armed robbery. Of course they both are unmarried with children from different women, one's latest conquest was getting an escort pregnant and letting her move in with him, she stole his 800$ rent and went to Miami (I should mention he is subletting the apartment from someone because he couldn't pass a credit check). The other and the girl currently pregnant by him smoke 2 packs a day. I only got hired because I'm friends with the manager's son, and he's known me since I was little so "I'm one of the okay ones".

Like I said casual racism is the norm. Welfare jokes, "don't lose your spot as a house nigger" jokes. There is a board in the bathroom where you can support your team (war eagle, go noles, etc) that is erased every week or immediately if something offensive is on it. Someone wrote "how much does it cost to get a nigger to play for auburn" and it stayed on the board for 2 months before taken down (everyone in the area is an alabama fan so I am sure they agreed with it).

So there is no HR department for me to "file a complaint". Should I go to the BBB or DOJ? I doubt any of you would risk your job to try and white knight in real life when there is no framework set up to support whistleblowers like HR or a corporate office.
 

dskillzhtown

keep your strippers out of my American football
Advance_Alarm said:
Its a sports bar restaurant that is owned by an ex drug task force cop from Houston (aka doesn't like black people) and managed by a Tea partier. Of the 3 black people there I'm the only one without a criminal record, the others were in for attempted murder and armed robbery. Of course they both are unmarried with children from different women, one's latest conquest was getting an escort pregnant and letting her move in with him, she stole his 800$ rent and went to Miami (I should mention he is subletting the apartment from someone because he couldn't pass a credit check). The other and the girl currently pregnant by him smoke 2 packs a day. I only got hired because I'm friends with the manager's son, and he's known me since I was little so "I'm one of the okay ones".

Like I said casual racism is the norm. Welfare jokes, "don't lose your spot as a house nigger" jokes. There is a board in the bathroom where you can support your team (war eagle, go noles, etc) that is erased every week or immediately if something offensive is on it. Someone wrote "how much does it cost to get a nigger to play for auburn" and it stayed on the board for 2 months before taken down (everyone in the area is an alabama fan so I am sure they agreed with it).

So there is no HR department for me to "file a complaint". Should I go to the BBB or DOJ? I doubt any of you would risk your job to try and white knight in real life when there is no framework set up to support whistleblowers like HR or a corporate office.


You can't find another sports bar to work at?

And another thing, you say your friends with the manager's son. You can't talk to him about this shit or does he make racist jokes too and you just nod? And another thing, just because someone is from Houston doesn't make them an automatic racist. WTF kind of bullshit is that?

Seems to me you are in a position in which you are getting disrespected and just taking it. If you just sit there and take it, then the people making the jokes are going to think it is okay. Actually you should have more self-respect than to put up with that shit. Unless that is the only sports bar in the city and you can't find another job.
 

Preble

Member
That's crazy Advance_Alarm. I don't know how I'd react to that.


Anyways just got a haircut/shape up from some kid who just graduated high school. It looks pretty good, but now I'm kinda regretting it cause it's cold outside. Still I couldn't deal with those naps.
 

Ovid

Member
Advance_Alarm said:
relevent to MLK day, so many either casual or actual bitter racists at my job. "nigga day, a dark day in history, etc". the worst was someone saying "we should kill 6 more so that we have the rest of the week off". i could only smh
WTF??? I would file a compliant.

Advance_Alarm said:
Its a sports bar restaurant that is owned by an ex drug task force cop from Houston (aka doesn't like black people) and managed by a Tea partier. Of the 3 black people there I'm the only one without a criminal record, the others were in for attempted murder and armed robbery. Of course they both are unmarried with children from different women, one's latest conquest was getting an escort pregnant and letting her move in with him, she stole his 800$ rent and went to Miami (I should mention he is subletting the apartment from someone because he couldn't pass a credit check). The other and the girl currently pregnant by him smoke 2 packs a day. I only got hired because I'm friends with the manager's son, and he's known me since I was little so "I'm one of the okay ones".
EDIT: Didn't read this post...forget it.
 
Advance_Alarm said:
Its a sports bar restaurant that is owned by an ex drug task force cop from Houston (aka doesn't like black people) and managed by a Tea partier. Of the 3 black people there I'm the only one without a criminal record, the others were in for attempted murder and armed robbery. Of course they both are unmarried with children from different women, one's latest conquest was getting an escort pregnant and letting her move in with him, she stole his 800$ rent and went to Miami (I should mention he is subletting the apartment from someone because he couldn't pass a credit check). The other and the girl currently pregnant by him smoke 2 packs a day. I only got hired because I'm friends with the manager's son, and he's known me since I was little so "I'm one of the okay ones".

Like I said casual racism is the norm. Welfare jokes, "don't lose your spot as a house nigger" jokes. There is a board in the bathroom where you can support your team (war eagle, go noles, etc) that is erased every week or immediately if something offensive is on it. Someone wrote "how much does it cost to get a nigger to play for auburn" and it stayed on the board for 2 months before taken down (everyone in the area is an alabama fan so I am sure they agreed with it).

So there is no HR department for me to "file a complaint". Should I go to the BBB or DOJ? I doubt any of you would risk your job to try and white knight in real life when there is no framework set up to support whistleblowers like HR or a corporate office.
Never once through all of this didyou didn't think, "Hey let me get a camera and tape recorder to make a record off all of this" Really?? Just from the thing you named you have a lawsuit on your hands any lawyer would salivate at.

1. Start taking pictures/recording the racism as the job.
2. Go to the manager/owner and tell him how the racism in the work place is making you feel uncomfortable.
3. If nothing changes go speak with a lawyer.

captmcblack said:
Like if someone wants to "ask a black person", they come to you? Or if they're about to make some comment, they ask you if it's okay? That shit is such lulz.
I'm the only black person in my entire company (2 offices w/60 people) but outside of one or two times that come to mind no one here has been ignorant enough to come at me like this. But then my company does have a good percentage of younger people around my age (22-28) so that may make a difference.

LosDaddie said:
I work for an engineering firm. Bashing Democrats and liberals is an almost daily occurrence here.
Politics bashing is one thing..racism is another. I would never work in an environment where I let people talk to me any kind of way.
 
MWS Natural said:
Politics bashing is one thing..racism is another. I would never work in an environment where I let people talk to me any kind of way.
indeed. I know times are tight and all, but self respect would keep me from going to that place anymore.

sorry you have to put up with that, Advance.
 

Ducarmel

Member
Advance_Alarm said:
Like I said casual racism is the norm. Welfare jokes, "don't lose your spot as a house nigger" jokes. There is a board in the bathroom where you can support your team (war eagle, go noles, etc) that is erased every week or immediately if something offensive is on it. Someone wrote "how much does it cost to get a nigger to play for auburn" and it stayed on the board for 2 months before taken down (everyone in the area is an alabama fan so I am sure they agreed with it).
Its only the norm if you give it back and everybody laughs with you! Do you give it back? Seems like they are making fun of you like you don't matter at all to them!

I have to admit when I was in the Navy and superiors were not around the racist, sexist, cultural bashing would just fly out everybody mouths, of course it is only fun and games when everybody does it, we would immediately stop if somebody was clearly not comfortable with the jokes

MWS Natural said:
Politics bashing is one thing..racism is another. I would never work in an environment where I let people talk to me any kind of way.
I get what you are saying the work place should be first considered professional and joking around should not make people uncomfortable. I guess in the Navy it was easier for some if not most to get along better when we joked about our stupid differences and stereotypes and get it out of the way.
 

BeEatNU

WORLDSTAAAAAAR
justjohn said:
Either this is a lie or you're the worst black man in history? How the fuck do you let people say stuff like this at your job and let them get away with it?

fa real.

take care of it the legit way.
 

Imm0rt4l

Member
Ducarmel said:
Its only the norm if you give it back and everybody laughs with you! Do you give it back? Seems like they are making fun of you like you don't matter at all to them!

I have to admit when I was in the Navy and superiors were not around the racist, sexist, cultural bashing would just fly out everybody mouths, of course it is only fun and games when everybody does it, we would immediately stop if somebody was clearly not comfortable with the jokes


I get what you are saying the work place should be first considered professional and joking around should not make people uncomfortable. I guess in the Navy it was easier for some if not most to get along better when we joked about our stupid differences and stereotypes and get it out of the way.


Shit, they out right called him a 'house nigger'. Unless he doesn't mind being regarded as the local Tom, he should definitely leave. I'm a 'field negro'
 
LosDaddie said:
True, but sometimes they go together though, especially here in the South.
I have lived in the south for the past 10 years. Like I said previously I've never let anyone talk to me any kind of way. Not saying I'm going to go all, "when keep it real goes wrong" and lose my job but you have to have some kind of self-respect not to let people speak to you like that. Your example may be a bit more complicated but at the other guys job they straight up racist right to his face...come on son.
 

justjohn

Member
Advance alarm, dude like they said, play this well and you might get pad for this. You clearly have no self respect so why not at least get some money from this humiliation?
 
I've waited all my life for a white guy to say nigger in front of me in a disrespectful manner, and this dude just shrugs it off like it didn't happen. Fuck it, I'm going to watch Rosewood.
 
Big Baybee said:
I've waited all my life for a white guy to say nigger in front of me in a disrespectful manner, and this dude just shrugs it off like it didn't happen. Fuck it, I'm going to watch Rosewood.

LOL "I wish a ngga would!!"
 

Parallax

best seen in the classic "Shadow of the Beast"
Big Baybee said:
I've waited all my life for a white guy to say nigger in front of me in a disrespectful manner, and this dude just shrugs it off like it didn't happen. Fuck it, I'm going to watch Rosewood.

you want to be filled with rage?
 

Imm0rt4l

Member
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I'm just gonna leave this here.
 

MThanded

I Was There! Official L Receiver 2/12/2016
Whats going in here? Is this where the black people hang out? If so, I need to pop in more often.
 

Tokubetsu

Member
SonnyBoy said:
Good, she needed to lose that weight. All those years of hawtness wasted, but late than never I guess. lol

She's still got some hotness time ahead of her, she's only 25 and who knows, some women only get better with time.
 
To all my LA GAF (and other GAF that know who this is):

If Michaela Pereira ever slimmed down back to her Tech TV days...it would be over as far as I'm concerned.
 

Nameless

Member
So now we can finally ask the trillion $ question. With +20 years on their side, Rudy or Olivia?

Honestly, I'm not sure I'd put either over Denise in her prime.
 
Nameless said:
So now we can finally ask the trillion $ question. With +20 years on their side, Rudy or Olivia?

Honestly, I'm not sure I'd put either over Denise in her prime.
Rudy easily. I used to be too shook to talk to her when I seen her on campus though lol.
 
Nameless said:
So now we can finally ask the trillion $ question. With +20 years on their side, Rudy or Olivia?

Honestly, I'm not sure I'd put either over Denise in her prime.

Hilary in her prime > Denise in her prime by a nose.

Yeah, I said it.
 

Ducarmel

Member
Nameless said:
So now we can finally ask the trillion $ question. With +20 years on their side, Rudy or Olivia?

Honestly, I'm not sure I'd put either over Denise in her prime.
Keshia is consistent with her hotness. She is a safe pick.

Raven while sometimes she looks really hot. But when she blows up with her weight its hard not go for Keshia. Still when she is on point with her look I would choose her.
 
Denise Huxtable - more specifically, Lisa Bonet - is the woman who has been my biggest crush since I was a child. She represented pretty much everything I like in a woman figure/bodywise, hair style, sense of humor, etc.


...at least, her character did.

She always seemed like the kind of girl that would discuss Kafka with you on the way to a kegger, get wasted and let you hit in the closet, go back home with you, and wake you up with a hot french vanilla coffee, a tightly rolled joint of kush, and a bj.


In conclusion, prime Denise is the perfect woman.

Also, Rudy is the safe pick, but Olivia has more potential for greatness. See those pics above? That's a great base to work with now. A little more tone, some pilates and shit...it's a wrap.
 
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