Any recommendations for a beginners (first) Dslr?
You wanted a recommendation; here's the good news: every DSLR is good; now here's the bad news: every DSLR is good.
Given that presumably you'd like to enjoy your new camera and use it a lot, the only really good way to decide between all of the ones you can possibly buy is to hold them in your hand and fuck around with all the strange controls and see what feels good and what feels awkward.
There's a bit more to it than that ...
First thing to realise is that you're not so much buying a camera as buying into a lens system. Camera bodies lose value far faster than lenses do and your lenses will likely outlast any camera body you get. So you will get more bang for your buck going cheapskate on the body to start with - I'd suggest buying used (from a reputable source) as there are bargains to be had and you will lose less if you don't take to it. Look around for (say) Nikon 3100, Canon T2i, maybe the Canon Rebel XS.
Main thing in picking a lens system is how easily you can come by lenses to buy/borrow/rent - a few of my friends swear by Pentax but for me the ready secondhand market points to Nikon or Canon. If you have friends or family who are keen photographers, then get what make they have got - that way they will stay friends (some of the brand rivalry gets a bit toxic on occasions) and lend you stuff like lenses and advice.
It's still important to do what CrudeDiatribe said and try the camera out in your hands - the smaller Canon bodies aren't all that great for people with big hands for example. Not so as to go overboard with being able to reach all the buttons (chances are you will not need to use more than 25% of them) but for general comfort and feel. Again, for example, the midrange Canons (yes I shoot Canon) don't, for me, handle right or hang around the neck right unless you bung a battery grip on the bottom, which I did.
So. Pick your lens system first (if there's anything to influence it, if not, toss a coin between Nikon and Canon). Then go try out some camera bodies and see what's available used. Buy something cheap and reliable and don't go megapixel-happy - anything more than 10 is probably OK for starters.
As for starter lenses, I'd be tempted to go for two: get a decent superzoom like the Tamron 18-270 with image stabilisation and also a basic 50mm f/1.8 prime (only about £100/$100).
That way you get to experiment with a big range of focal lengths without the hassle of changing lenses, you get to appreciate the difference between having and not having image stabilisation and the difference in image quality(+) and technique required(-) with a non-stabilised prime lens.
Don't get too tempted by deals with kit lenses (however many they offer). If you take off you'll find you outgrow them fast and they have little used value.
(p.s. of course, this isn't what I did myself - it's what I
should have done!)