Do NOT apologize for being wordy, dammit! Your post was a delicious read; it transported me to the magical land of everyone's childhood and the things we hold dear to our heart. It made me remember my own story with Phantasy Star, and, through the feelings it evoked, tempted me to do the same as you, so that others might enjoy my story as well.
Phantasy Star 2 was my first ever JRPG. If you think the US was starved of JRPGs back in the days, you would loathe to live in Spain! I don't think we actually had any JRPGs officially released there until late into the late 90's. Heck, the first Final Fantasy released here was FF7. Of course, no Phantasy Star game was ever released here until Online. Fortunately, me and my friends frequented a shop that sold and rented imported games. I honestly can't remember what was it that drew me to Phantasy Star 2, but I can say without a hint of exaggeration that renting it was something that changed my life.
Although I was familiar with the concept of pen-and-paper RPGs, I simply was not prepared for a game like that, on so many levels. Even from the simple things like the concept that you could not simply go straight to the dungeon you were sent to and expect to finish it on your first try. Yes, it is ironic to mention this now that you CAN do that in modern RPGs, but of course, back then, you were expected to level up for a bit first.
Then, of course, the story. Phantasy Star 2 may have a barebones story for today's standards, but coming out of the 8-bit era without having touched anything resembling an RPG, it was downright wordy. I was freaking shocked with Nei's death. I mean, killing off a playable character in the middle of the story? Who the hell does that? This also meant an additional barrier for me, who had never played a game in English with so much text (my native language being, of course, Spanish). To this day, I credit a large part of my English proficiency to all those JRPGs I played as a child, especially Final Fantasies.
Also, the lenght. It seemed to go on and on, forever. Back then it felt like I simply could not hold the entirety of the game in my head; it was mindblowing to think about all that had happened, everywhere that I had been to, by the game's end. Not surprising, considering that the most expansive I had played by then was probably Super Mario Bros 2. It just felt amazing that a single game could hold such a large, detailed world, with so many things happening in it.
I was simply so enthralled with this game, that I kept extending and extending the rental. And, when I finally finished it, I bought their rental and only copy. I still have it, of course
. I would experience these feelings anew (the story and characterization, the overwhelming expansiveness) when playing another game: Final Fantasy II US (IV). The story repeated itself, with me extending the rental of this import until finishing it, then buying it.
Later on, I rented Phantasy Star III, but was extremely let down. I don't think I ever got past the first generation. I would have to play them side by side to understand exactly what was it that put me off almost instantly, but very possibly the medieval setting, already done to death, didn't help. I also didn't feel anything from the characters.
When Phantasy Star IV came around, I actually bought it outright. I loved the hell of it; it's a masterpiece that can proudly sit among the best the SNES had to offer.
Phantasy Star Online was my first online game ever, and again, I was blown away. At the time flat-rate internet was not exactly common in my country; I seem to actually remember getting a plan where we got flat-rate internet after 18:00 when I already had the game. I actually imported the Japanese version and played with Japanese people; they showered me with stuff and were so courteous!
That's pretty much my last interaction with the series, over 12 years ago. I'll probably get burned at the stake in this thread, but the successive PSO iterations have felt to me like they've not moved on with the times (or perhaps it's simply that online gaming has exploded and something as simple as PSO doesn't satisfy me anymore). I would dearly, dearly want a new offline, classic Phantasy Star; however, considering how I've loathe the direction other series have taken (Final Fantasy being the most obvious example), perhaps its memory is best left undisturbed.