I didn't mean "give us EEA without freedom and we will leave and we promise not to block anything".
I meant "here, we have been partners for a long time, there are many things we've benefited from and here are things that you benefited from (we buy your products, etc), now our country voted to leave the EU, let's work something that makes sense for everybody? for example, we agree to give up being able to participate in forming out various regulations and basically demote to EEA, adopting your regulations as they come, but since we are buying so much of your products, etc, are a big destination for workers from all over the EU, we'd like to not only be able to participate in the single market but also put some limits onto the amount of people who come into the country".
I don't think this is all that unreasonable. Yes, other countries in EEA don't have this, but the UK is bigger than them.