Oh hells yeah, just got past my crash point.
Use something called PowerISO. Its a disc mounter and virtual drive system.
http://www.poweriso.com/download.htm
Install and then right click on the dvd in My Computer and say "Make Image File' using the power iso menu. Extract to ISO. On both of my dvd drives it hasnt crashed yet. Im at 66% right now after always crashing at 50%.
Cool thing about this is that you can then mount the iso as a virtual disc, essentially treating it just as a DVD. Cross my fingers it doesnt crash!
^ I'd say two simultaneous posts finding the solution is pretty badass.