Times you have read into sexual/romantic advances incorrectly

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We've all been there. Reading the signs and thinking that everything is smooth sailings. You go to make the move and wham. Get denied. Now you are wondering what the hell just happened. Feeling awkward and embarrassed and you just want to get out of the situation you put yourself in.

In high school, I remember watching Lord of the Rings in the theater with this girl I really liked. She leaned into me and I put my arms around her. A few minutes later I go in for a kiss and she pulled back and asked me "What are you doing?" I really couldn't respond at all, pulled back and just slouched in my chair, wanting the movie to finish so I can just go home. The movie ended and I said my goodbyes and walked off as fast as I could. I remember us having a conversation later that night but even then, I was still in shock. The good news was that she went to a different school so I didn't have to see her everyday. Still, that moment sucked lol.
You shall not make a pass
 
And how old are you?
17. I know it isn't an excuse not to understand certain things like this. I don't mind getting told how it is from older people, that way I'll learn and maybe enter my adult years with a little more experience. I'm just saying that's how it is now, at my present age.
 
17. I know it isn't an excuse not to understand certain things like this. I don't mind getting told how it is from older people, that way I'll learn and maybe enter my adult years with a little more experience. I'm just saying that's how it is now, at my present age.

You shouldn't feel the need to excuse yourself. You presented your opinion in an absolutely inoffensive manner.
 
17. I know it isn't an excuse not to understand certain things like this. I don't mind getting told how it is from older people, that way I'll learn and maybe enter my adult years with a little more experience. I'm just saying that's how it is now, at my present age.

Stay the course your attitude is much more grown up then people who are claiming to be married or getting married.
 
17. I know it isn't an excuse not to understand certain things like this. I don't mind getting told how it is from older people, that way I'll learn and maybe enter my adult years with a little more experience. I'm just saying that's how it is now, at my present age.

Yeah. I hope it stays that way. The best you can do is to be open with girls and let them know what you want out of a relationship with them. If you really only want to hook up with a chick, it's OK that you feel that way but don't get suckered into putting up with all their shit unless you decide you actually like them as a person.

That's essentially what I did. I didn't want to hear about the drama between a girl and her boyfriend and I didn't want my friend to disappear for months because they have a new boyfriend.
 
Are you single? I'm just wondering because you seem to have it all figured out.

I currently have a girlfriend and I'm also good friends with a few ex girlfriends and certainly have never broken up with or been broken up with on bad terms. I'm certainly not an expert but do feel I'm emotionally mature and have been around the block a few times.
 
I turned down sex with the girl of my dreams - the most beautiful women I've ever laid eyes on - while in bed with her because I had no idea what she meant when she said, "Are you sure you want to do this?". I just wasn't thinking clearly.

One of my life's regrets. She was absolutely the one that got away. She's a model now...I can't bare to look at her professional photos even though they're readily available on the internet. ;_;
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This one hurt me GAF, this one hurt me.
 
Girl at work the other day walked up to the counter, smiled at me and looked right at me, and told me "she just wanted to introduce herself" before giggling and walking off.

What would you guys say that qualifies? Note, she was a customer I'd only seen once before and previously helped, but this time she didn't need anything. 0.o I've never had a situation at work where I felt that I was hit on before now, at least not by anyone my own age.
 
Girl at work the other day walked up to the counter, smiled at me and looked right at me, and told me "she just wanted to introduce herself" before giggling and walking off.

What would you guys say that qualifies? Note, she was a customer I'd only seen once before and previously helped, but this time she didn't need anything. 0.o I've never had a situation at work where I felt that I was hit on before now, at least not by anyone my own age.

Catching fish in a barrel. If I were you I would make some small talk if you see her again in there, provided you find her attractive and what not.
 
Catching fish in a barrel. If I were you I would make some small talk if you see her again in there, provided you find her attractive and what not.

Well...I dunno. She looks kind of young, I think I remember her buying cigarettes once, but still I don't wanna go for someone who's only 18.

She's alright looking, I guess. Kind of "chubby", but more so due to her choice of belly-shirt more than actually being that fat, and she's got an odd cut on her neck that looks like a knife slash. I don't wanna sound mean or anything or "above it all", but she doesn't seem like someone I'd be interested in dating.
 
Girl at work the other day walked up to the counter, smiled at me and looked right at me, and told me "she just wanted to introduce herself" before giggling and walking off.

What would you guys say that qualifies? Note, she was a customer I'd only seen once before and previously helped, but this time she didn't need anything. 0.o I've never had a situation at work where I felt that I was hit on before now, at least not by anyone my own age.

See this is the problem with hitting on people at work.
 
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