There's a huge huge difference between having a romance story and "shipping"
Shipping is fan made theories about who's boning or going to bone. Romance is Romance
Shipping is just on the level of waifu-ism to me, and I think it gets a huge pass among regular media consumers as being harmless, but it fucks with a community like ive never seen before. The drama also lasts forever.
But still, even if romances are done poorly, then that's just horrid writing, which is pretty par for the course for Naruto. (I dont mind people enjoying Naruto even though I absolutely loathe it) Like, Kishimoto is a terrible writer, do you honestly think he'd be able to do romances well? He can barely write a functioning plot
I think it's time for you to turn in your otaku card.
Im not an otaku, as I just kind of like animation and comics. Im stuck with anime because western action animation has been in a free fall for years. I also don't really like western action shows comedy, which is fucking awful most of the time. I do intend to watch it at some point though, but I generally watch anime with my gf, and she never really seemed interested in watching it.