I missed a heck of a thing last night, didn't I?
Billy, the only wisdom I can offer up comes out of the movie Dogma. When Bethany is told she's a distant relative of Jesus she freaks the fuck out. Rightfully so. But the Metatron tells her, don't redefine who you are. She doesn't stop being who she was, she's still Bethany, just with that bit of extra data thrown in.
Point is, you're still Billychu. Always have been, always will be. You're just aware, now, of a little more about what being Billychu entails. You don't have to change anything that you don't want to change, you don't have to do anything you don't want to do. Yes, you're trans, but you still get to define what that means for yourself on your own terms. Make sure you never forget that.
....Not that it means much, though, because all the good advice was taken! *angryfist*
Billy, the only wisdom I can offer up comes out of the movie Dogma. When Bethany is told she's a distant relative of Jesus she freaks the fuck out. Rightfully so. But the Metatron tells her, don't redefine who you are. She doesn't stop being who she was, she's still Bethany, just with that bit of extra data thrown in.
Point is, you're still Billychu. Always have been, always will be. You're just aware, now, of a little more about what being Billychu entails. You don't have to change anything that you don't want to change, you don't have to do anything you don't want to do. Yes, you're trans, but you still get to define what that means for yourself on your own terms. Make sure you never forget that.
....Not that it means much, though, because all the good advice was taken! *angryfist*