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Zaptruder

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Seeing as how large an issue this was during the election, and how the results turned out; I think it's safe to say that there's a large amount of understanding about the issue, from both sides.

I'd like for this topic to serve as an open forum towards helping people understand what exactly it is that causes homosexuality and what homosexuals have to face because of it.

Although fear of homosexuals is quite understandable, I find it depressing just the lack of compassion there is in people willing to understand the issue. Even though it's easy to deride the lack of compassion in people for been hellbent against homosexuals, coming to terms with such an issue without a deep examination of it can be difficult. I figure it's best to start practicing what you preach.

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Just to let you know where I'm coming from: I'm personally not homosexual... in fact was fairly homophobic up until a few years ago; having taken psychology, giving me a better understanding of the way humans operate.

Although I'd like to think that society has taken great strides towards reducing open prejudice towards homosexuality, I think the election has made it abundantly clear that the way people feel is a far cry from the things people say in public, in real life.

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What I know about it:

Compared to strangers (about a 10% chance), blood siblings that have slightly higher chance of both been homosexual (about 14%).

A fraternal (dizygotic) twin has a slightly higher chance (or maybe the same; the difference is quite small) than a sibling of homosexuality if one is already a homosexual.
An identical (monozygotic) twin has the highest chance of homosexuality if his/her sibling is already one. (~38%)

A single biological parent that expresses homosexuality raises the chance significantly of homosexuality in the offspring. With two biological parents that express it, the chance is much higher; on par with a person that has a homosexual monozygotic twin (~37%)

A child of homosexual adoptive parents has a chance of homosexuality on par with strangers (~13%).

A non-blood related sibling (adoptive child) will have equal chance as a stranger of been a homosexual, if a sibling is one.

These figures are as best as I can recall from my lost textbooks. If you can provide better ones and sources for them, it would help alot.


From that, it's very fair to say that genetics can be a large part of the issue with homosexuality. Disentangling environmental effects from genetics can be difficult; short of studying disparately (in different homes) brought up MZ twins, which can be a difficult task given the very small available sample size and population. And even then, the genes have an expressive effect on their environment. But the difference among the given conditions are large enough that it's safe to say that there's a definite gene effect.

But given the numbers for similar environment conditions (siblings, adoptive parents, etc), it's clear that 'environment' has little effect on homosexuality.

The largest factor involved in determining a homosexual would be unique chance factors, with some individuals having a higher predisposition towards having the trait triggered.

But this is an oversimplified analysis of the numbers; homosexuality isn't a switch which turns on and off. As much as some people would like to simplify it down to this, it would be doing a great diservice to everyone, even themselves. As with many genetically inheritable traits, there are varying degrees; as with schizophrenia - although there's a baseline for clinical schizophrenia, there's a large amount of evidence for those traits to be expressed to milder degrees in their shared biological relations.

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What I think

If homosexuality is indeed a genetic 'problem', it is one that has a particularly devastating bearing on the individual marked by it; not because of a deficiency in them, but rather because of the deficiency in society to accept or even tolerate them. This is unique among most (probably all) genetic problems.

Moreover, it doesn't serve us in the long term to continually pressure homosexuality into 'straightness'; if we allow people to pair off as per their natural desire... the marked inability to reproduce would filter out and eventually finish off the genetic trait. Even with recessive genes, which aren't expressed, but carry the genetic code to be expressed in later generations, the trait will eventually doom itself, due to its low rate of natural genetic survival. But this is given the collarary that people stick with long term manogamy, as is with the case of marriages.
It's true that in the future (or even currently; for the use of one parent's genetic material) that there maybe avenues to combine the genetic material of both homosexual parents for an offspring, the limitations are quite prohibitive; with high financial cost been a large factor. In terms of total effect, it still wouldn't be a huge issue.
What would be more dangerous would be to allow an erosion of civil liberties, recognition of and a movement towards equality and a culture that breeds contempt for compassion and understanding.

Even if homosexuality is something of a choice, and something that will stick with us for as long as we're humans, from a personal stand point, apart from some trivial disagreement about the hotness of booty, they no more negatively or postively effect the way I live my life. I don't find it necessary to infringe upon their rights as people of an equal merit and status in society.

A popular idea about homophobes is that in some ways, they're more predisposed to homosexuality than a person that can healthily accept that these people do exist and not as anything but people with different sexual choices; as they're 'closer to the sun' so to speak, they engage in strong cognitive strategies that include heavy bias against the target group... like a reverse cognitive dissonance so to speak; trying to shift behaviour towards attitude.

what I've expressed on the issue is far from a comprehensive discussion of the issue, but I do hope that it can serve as something of a 'starter guide' and a jump off point for discussion.

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Though I admire the effort, I cannot concieve the notion that this thread will do more good than harm.

Truth is, I don't expect this thread to convert anyone from their views, been that these somewhat emotional issues that have been deeply ingrained into people. Any attempt to change that would understandably be met with fierce reaction and deep polarization (at least initially)... but I hope that this can act as a seed for breaking down that intolerance and illogic that often surrounds such strongly polarized views; when a person of sound mind reads enough or is exposed to enough sound arguments, it is my faith, that they'll come around. On the otherhand, every sound argument and exposure along a person's mental development part on an issue will help push them along.
 

BuddyC

Member
Though I admire the effort, I cannot concieve the notion that this thread will do more good than harm.
 

Mason

Member
Well I'm going to bed, but I'll respond tomorrow. Hopefully there will be a nice discussion going by then.
 

Zaptruder

Banned
BuddyChrist83 said:
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Though I admire the effort, I cannot concieve the notion that this thread will do more good than harm.

What's the worse that could happen? The whole issue is already painted quite black and white.
 

shoplifter

Member
An identical (monozygotic) twin has the highest chance of homosexuality if his/her sibling is already one. (~38%)

Someone who is a geneticist please explain why this is not 100% (that is, if we're going for the 'it's genetic' argument). I never really got into Biology. Also, would this not prove that homosexuality isn't always caused by genetics, rather a possible other factor (chemical imbalance in the womb, etc) while the fetus is in it's developmental stage?

I'm not saying it's not genetic, but from what I remember of my admittedly little more than AP biology background, were it genetic (aside from a possible mutation) both siblings should be homosexual.
 

BuddyC

Member
Zaptruder said:
What's the worse that could happen? The whole issue is already painted quite black and white.
It's abundantly clear you have much more faith in humanity than I.
 

xexex

Banned
the problem for homosexuals in the U.S. is, the U.S. was founded as a Christian nation. it's never going to be easy for homos in this country, even if some ultra liberal like Kerry becomes president.
 

shoplifter

Member
xexex said:
the problem for homosexuals in the U.S. is, the U.S. was founded as a Christian nation. it's never going to be easy for homos in this country, even if some ultra liberal like Kerry becomes president.

many of the founders were deists and we were certainly not founded as a 'christian nation', that's all i'm going into on that one. but yes, it really pisses me off to see the lengths that falwell and co. will go to in order to trample on the rights and dignity of one of my best friends.

edit: also, I'm sure that those bonobos are abominations in the eyes of the lord.
 
It's my personal take, as someone who has homosexual family members, that some of them are born that way and some of them choose to be that way. Either way I believe they deserve the same rights, including marriage, as everyone else.

Just because you are born/or choose to love someone of the same sex(or both sexes) doesn't make you inhuman. Yet our leaders and rednecks go around treating them in inhumane ways. What really pisses me off is all these people saying their religion tells them to hate gays. The Apostles Creed says "love thy neighbor" not "love thy neighbor only if he or she is straight".

These ways of thought must be challenged...even if it means liberals lose governmental power. We can not turn our backs on the GLBT community. EVER. To do so is to turn your back on humanity.
 

Zaptruder

Banned
shoplifter said:
Someone who is a geneticist please explain why this is not 100% (that it, if we're going for the 'it's genetic' argument). I never really got into Biology. Also, would this not prove that homosexuality isn't caused by genetics, rather a possible other factor (chemical imbalance in the womb, etc) while the fetus is in it's developmental stage?

I'm not saying it's not genetic, but from what I remember of my little more than AP biology background, we it genetic both siblings should be homosexual.

I'm not clear as to why some genetic traits (such as eyes, hands, feet, etc) are almost always expressed, while other genetic inheritables are certainly more nebulous (such as height, intelligence, genetic disorder, etc.); but the idea that both biological parents been gay (possible to have a gay and lesbian parentage; the outward expression of homosexuality can come at a later date) produces a chance that is nearly on par with the chance of a MZ twin been gay... marks this as an issue that is relatively independent of womb environment.
 

Dilbert

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xexex said:
the problem for homosexuals in the U.S. is, the U.S. was founded as a Christian nation. it's never going to be easy for homos in this country, even if some ultra liberal like Kerry becomes president.
"Homos?" "Ultra-liberal?" <SIGH>

The idea that this country cannot change meaningfully from its origins hundreds of years ago is flat wrong.
 

borghe

Loves the Greater Toronto Area
so if homosexuality is a biological condition, then how come a homosexual twin only has a 38% chance of their sibling also being homosexual.

I look at it the same as animals. In a VERY small minority of animals there exhibits some traits of bisexuality, or probably more appropriately described as indiscriminate sexual preference. This same occurence most likely happens in humans as well.

What I will contend however is that I believe MANY cases of homosexuality ARE driven by a conscious choice or at least not some physical predisposition.

Basically I believe both cases exist, though I also believe, judging by every other mammal on the earth who looks at the opposite sex for one purpose only, that the actual number of cases of people who are genetically predisposed to it are significantly less than they would have us believe.
 

Zaptruder

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Hmmm... I can only deal with the lack of information surrounding the issue by making this thread. I can't deal with the lack of willingness to understand... at least not now.
 

etiolate

Banned
I would just like to say that I have seen few words in my life more misused and poorly applied than the term 'homophobe'.

People can disagree with the act, find it wrong or not and have it nothing to do with being afraid of homosexuals. Respect people's religious beliefs.
 
shoplifter said:
Someone who is a geneticist please explain why this is not 100% (that is, if we're going for the 'it's genetic' argument). I never really got into Biology. Also, would this not prove that homosexuality isn't always caused by genetics, rather a possible other factor (chemical imbalance in the womb, etc) while the fetus is in it's developmental stage?

I'm not saying it's not genetic, but from what I remember of my admittedly little more than AP biology background, were it genetic (aside from a possible mutation) both siblings should be homosexual.

It doesn't have to be on or off like eye or hair color. It could be a genetic predisposition. Someone can have factors that would make them more likely to be homosexual but environmental factors may push it further.

I tend to think it is genetic since there are physical differences between a brain from a homosexual and one from a heterosexual. I suspect that people who believe they chose to be homosexual are actually more bisexual but have a tendency to be more homosexual and are more comfortable with that.
 

Zaptruder

Banned
borghe said:
so if homosexuality is a biological condition, then how come a homosexual twin only has a 38% chance of their sibling also being homosexual.

I look at it the same as animals. In a VERY small minority of animals there exhibits some traits of bisexuality, or probably more appropriately described as indiscriminate sexual preference. This same occurence most likely happens in humans as well.

What I will contend however is that I believe MANY cases of homosexuality ARE driven by a conscious choice or at least not some physical predisposition.

Basically I believe both cases exist, though I also believe, judging by every other mammal on the earth who looks at the opposite sex for one purpose only, that the actual number of cases of people who are genetically predisposed to it are significantly less than they would have us believe.

I think like genetically linked disorders like schizophrenia, there's not necessary a 100% chance of the effect occuring, but that they're alot of triggers to the issue. Some of that amount can be accounted for 'choice'... but that's a shallow view; I can't really imagine much of the population choosing to be heavily discriminated against if they can help it. But some choices can be easier for some people than others; again, stressing that homosexuality isn't a switch but a spectrum.
 

shoplifter

Member
The Shadow said:
It doesn't have to be on or off like eye or hair color. It could be a genetic predisposition. Someone can have factors that would make them more likely to be homosexual but environmental factors may push it further.


OK, that's what I was figuring. Something like the predispostion for addictions and the like. Thanks for clearing it up.


\/\/\/\/ Sexual preference isn't necessarily an on/off idea. There are people who are 50/50 bisexual, and people who are further along the homo/hetero axis from there. I'm not really sure why I wasn't thinking that way from the beginning because I always bring that up with people I know.
 

borghe

Loves the Greater Toronto Area
The Shadow said:
It doesn't have to be on or off like eye or hair color. It could be a genetic predisposition. Someone can have factors that would make them more likely to be homosexual but environmental factors may push it further.
except for the fact that it IS on/off. you either like members of the same sex or you don't. how the hell could you calculate that someone was exactly 32.5% on their weay to homosexuality, and how the hell could that be genetic?

it's not like it's a blood type or a bone makeup that "could" lead to a condition later on.
 
I skimmed but here's my brief thoughts, more from a biological basis.

-There may be some sort of genetic basis for homosexuality. Just speaking from personal experience, one of my friends told me that there was never any cognitive function that went off in his head that made him "choose" one way or the other. The most stirring quote he ever told me was, "Why would I CHOOSE to feel this way?"

That being said, it's impossible to state that there is a "gay" gene of any sort, and that variability of the expression in addition to things in the environment may not have caused it. Only a very select few things are as simple as Pea Pod genetics.

As an aside, it IS true that there is differing structures of the brain b/t males and females. However, in transexuals (i.e. males that believe to be females trapped in a man's body, and vice-versa) the brain structure looks very very similar to that of the structure for females. It's kinda interesting to see this. Admittedly, there's flaws in the fact that the test can only be done Post-hoc after somebody grows up and knows that they're transexual, but it's still a bit interesting.

(if anyone's interesting, I think the studies were done by Kruijver, Zhou, and quite a few others.)

Sociologically, homophobia has roots in several places. I'm not really gonna touch on it, but we have a looooong way to go before there's no more bigotry against it.
 

Hitokage

Setec Astronomer
Ok, pulling out the "america was founded to be christian" lie is derailment. Start another thread.

shoplifter: Genetics is not absolute when it comes to psychology. A gene can make you predisposed for a trait, but the actual expression of that gene may end up either amplifying or repressing the trait. Environmental factors may also mitigate matters, and how everything really adds up is still not totally understood. However, the fact that it's not 0% and increases with sharing of DNA is definitely on the side of "genetically influenced" rather than "mere choice".

except for the fact that it IS on/off. you either like members of the same sex or you don't. how the hell could you calculate that someone was exactly 32.5% on their weay to homosexuality, and how the hell could that be genetic?
Ever heard of bisexuality? Barring those who do it for attention, there's more grey area that you might think. BTW, eye color isn't on/off. My eyes have shifted between blue and green throughout my life, and some people have mixed color in their iris.
 
borghe said:
except for the fact that it IS on/off. you either like members of the same sex or you don't. how the hell could you calculate that someone was exactly 32.5% on their weay to homosexuality, and how the hell could that be genetic?

it's not like it's a blood type or a bone makeup that "could" lead to a condition later on.

Um, that's BS. What about bisexuals? It's certainly not on/off for them. Most of the homoesexuals I know have always given a percentage of how gay/straight they are. A lesbian I know says she's 90% gay/10% straight. Another gay guy says he's more 85% gay/15% straight.

It's not on or off.
 

Zaptruder

Banned
borghe said:
except for the fact that it IS on/off. you either like members of the same sex or you don't. how the hell could you calculate that someone was exactly 32.5% on their weay to homosexuality, and how the hell could that be genetic?

it's not like it's a blood type or a bone makeup that "could" lead to a condition later on.

But it isn't.

Case in point: Bisexuals.

Or would you like to deny their existence?
 
fuckin fa........ntastic discussion! ;) This will be a contention point for a long time.

I think that if it could be presented to the 'homophobes' in such a way as you said (to paraphrase)

"They'll 'breed' themselves out eventually"

That they might get it, but then again, people are violent and stupid.

Sigh
 

Mumbles

Member
etiolate said:
People can disagree with the act, find it wrong or not and have it nothing to do with being afraid of homosexuals. Respect people's religious beliefs.

But voting to make gay marriages illegal is clearly not respecting other's religion, since some religious groups will happily marry gay couples.

So should we accuse the people who vote against gay marriage of being disrespectful of the beliefs of others? Or can we just cut the crap, and call them bigots? That's pretty much what the word was made for, after all.
 

etiolate

Banned
There isn't a 'gay gene'. Some studies have shown some genes that could be associated with homosexual human beings, but no gene that 'causes' homosexuality. Behavioral gene ideas are iffy and the research done on a 'gay gene' seems to never be without some sort of political agenda tied to it.

But voting to make gay marriages illegal is clearly not respecting other's religion, since some religious groups will happily marry gay couples.

So should we accuse the people who vote against gay marriage of being disrespectful of the beliefs of others? Or can we just cut the crap, and call them bigots? That's pretty much what the word was made for, after all.

I don't think the goverment should put its hands on gay marriage either way. Banning it? no. Mandating it? no. My fear is a gay couple deciding they want to be married in a church, the church rejecting them and a huge lawsuit ensuing. A legalized gay marriage would be their basis to say they are being denied services due to their sexual orientation, but you still have seperation of church and state. The goverment should not be going into churches and saying "you have to allow gay marriages" just as much as churches should not be making the goverment "get rid of all dem homos".

And pretty much what the word bigot was made for? I think you are demonstrating what words like bigot and homophobe are being used for now. Fighting hate with more hate.
 
etiolate said:
I don't think the goverment should put its hands on gay marriage either way. Banning it? no. Mandating it? no. My fear is a gay couple deciding they want to be married in a church, the church rejecting them and a huge lawsuit ensuing. A legalized gay marriage would be their basis to say they are being denied services due to their sexual orientation, but you still have seperation of church and state. The goverment should not be going into churches and saying "you have to allow gay marriages" just as much as churches should not be making the goverment "get rid of all dem homos".

It's not like that. No one is forcing any churches to do weddings. What we are talking about are civil marriages and the benefits. Look at current wedding policy. The government doesn't have a say on how weddings are done. They can't make the Catholic church marry two non-Catholics for the heck of it.

And pretty much what the word bigot was made for? I think you are demonstrating what words like bigot and homophobe are being used for now. Fighting hate with more hate.

I think Marilyn vos Savant put it well:

"When a person is claustrophobic (afraid of enclosed spaces) or arachnophobic (afraid of spiders), others realize that the phobia is not rational, but they still treat the afflicted person with respect. But people who are homophobic (afraid of homosexuals) are ridiculed and loathed. Shouldn’t all phobic people be recognized as victims of their fears?
—John Danzeiser, Albuquerque, N.M.

If you believe that true homophobia exists, sure. And it probably does, at least in a small number of people. But I think the term was made up to annoy the sort of heterosexual who is mindlessly contemptuous—not fearful—of all gay people. And it works! So don’t go treating them so gently, John. They don’t deserve it."
 

Hitokage

Setec Astronomer
etiolate said:
I don't think the goverment should put its hands on gay marriage either way. Banning it? no. Mandating it? no. My fear is a gay couple deciding they want to be married in a church, the church rejecting them and a huge lawsuit ensuing. A legalized gay marriage would be their basis to say they are being denied services due to their sexual orientation, but you still have seperation of church and state. The goverment should not be going into churches and saying "you have to allow gay marriages" just as much as churches should not be making the goverment "get rid of all dem homos".
No no no no NO. Allowing gay marriage to be legal would IN NO WAY affect how religions marry. It only means that if a church chooses on their own to marry two gay people, that marriage would be considered legally binding. If somebody can't find a church, then there's always the courthouse(atheists can get married too, you know). Again, the issue is ENTIRELY about marriages as viewed by GOVERNMENT AND LAW, NOT RELIGION.
 

Goreomedy

Console Market Analyst
etiolate said:
I would just like to say that I have seen few words in my life more misused and poorly applied than the term 'homophobe'.

People can disagree with the act, find it wrong or not and have it nothing to do with being afraid of homosexuals. Respect people's religious beliefs.

"The act." Do you understand how offensive I find it when someone reduces the love I have for my partner of 6 years to a genital activity? You get no respect from me.
 

etiolate

Banned
It's not like that. No one is forcing any churches to do weddings. What we are talking about are civil marriages and the benefits. Look at current wedding policy. The government doesn't have a say on how weddings are done. They can't make the Catholic church marry two non-Catholics for the heck of it.

I don't have problems with civil unions, I think it would be great for heterosexual couples as well.

Of course the goverment shouldn't and doesn't have a say on how weddings are done, but with the power of lawyers and the age of 'hate crimes', I worry if it will get outright stupid.
 

shoplifter

Member
etiolate said:
I don't think the goverment should put its hands on gay marriage either way. Banning it? no. Mandating it? no. My fear is a gay couple deciding they want to be married in a church, the church rejecting them and a huge lawsuit ensuing. A legalized gay marriage would be their basis to say they are being denied services due to their sexual orientation, but you still have seperation of church and state.


Please explain how a religious organization could be sued for doing something they clearly (as a private group) are not compelled to do. Gays can easily go to city hall to be married if they don't wish for/can't find a church that will marry them. No homosexual is asking for religious recognition of their marriage. All they want is legal recognition.

And you have just proved that you have no concept of how this 'gay marriage' thing actually works when you claim that

The goverment should not be going into churches and saying "you have to allow gay marriages" just as much as churches should not be making the goverment "get rid of all dem homos".

BECAUSE THEY'RE FUCKING NOT. No church has to recognize a gay marriage. Please realize that

secular marriage =/= religious marriage

The fundies are just playing a game of semantics. It's quite amazing to me how many people can't separate the two concepts.

I find this whole issue hilarious, as I and my wife were married by a gay 'minister'. Well...he was ordained online by a church that obviously didn't care what his orientation was. :lol

The word 'god' nor any religious rhetoric was involved in my ceremony. I don't give a fuck if the church recognizes it religiously, as I'm an agnostic bordering on atheism.
 
etiolate said:
I don't have problems with civil unions, I think it would be great for heterosexual couples as well.

Of course the goverment shouldn't and doesn't have a say on how weddings are done, but with the power of lawyers and the age of 'hate crimes', I worry if it will get outright stupid.

I would have no idea why a gay couple would want to get married at some place they aren't welcome. It's already hard enough for them to stay in churches that denounce homosexuality.
 

maharg

idspispopd
Actually there's a pretty reasonable way to approximate 'how bisexual' someone is. Take the number of male partners they've had, divide it by the number of partners they've had overall, and you have how externally straight a woman is or gay a man is. Obviously, it's an approximation and only accounts for an external view of them. And a complete shift and a claim of feeling wrong in every relationship before a certain point obviously shifts the balance considerably.

Internally, people who are bisexual can almost always approximate how much so they might be based simply on a ratio of attraction rather than partners. It's really not uncommon for someone who identifies as bisexual to be able to indicate some kind of ratio.

I've known women who identified as gay and married men. 3 of them in fact. Maybe they switched, maybe they were bisexual somewhere in the 90% gay range, who knows. Point is, it can actually be pretty fluid and it's not unreasonable for it to be measured to some degree.
 

Ill Saint

Member
Biological or not, what's it matter? Who is anyone to tell someone else who they should love, and restrict their ability to love that person when there is NO harm being done?

People shouldn't need to live in a society that forces so many of them to struggle with this "issue" of "sexuality". I have never understood the need to understand, so to speak.




Sexuality "doesn’t exist apart from a relationship to political structures, requirements, laws, and regulations that have a primary importance for it" (Foucault).
 

Hitokage

Setec Astronomer
Of course the goverment shouldn't and doesn't have a say on how weddings are done, but with the power of lawyers and the age of 'hate crimes', I worry if it will get outright stupid.
I'll bite because it's relevant. The difference between a normal crime and a hate crime is like the difference between second and first degree murder or the difference between a random bombing and terrorism... and we all hate terrorism, don't we.
 

shoplifter

Member
Ill Saint said:
Biological or not, what's it matter? Who is anyone to tell someone else who they should love, and restrict their ability to love that person when there is NO harm being done?

To me, it doesn't matter. One of the happiest days of my life is when my friend finally felt comfortable enough with himself to come out. All people (murderers and rapists aside imo) are deserving of respect and dignity.

Let me say though, that I don't think it's a -normal- condition. Don't take that sentence as me saying 'not a natural condition' because something causes it to occur, and it's not a conscious choice 90% or more of homosexuals make. I do believe that a small portion may choose, whether to rebel against the norm, family, whatever, but it's not a significant portion of homosexuals. In my mind, those really aren't homosexuals, they're straights having homo sex.

The interest in finding a reason for many, is to combat the religious right's assertions that it's an 'abomination unto god'. If it can be proved that it's a naturally occurring phenomenon, that argument goes out the window (...because then the only explanation is that God made them that way...), and it (hopefully) makes it much easier for some people to accept it.
 
Ill Saint said:
Biological or not, what's it matter? Who is anyone to tell someone else who they should love, and restrict their ability to love that person when there is NO harm being done?

People shouldn't need to live in a society that forces so many of them to struggle with this "issue" of "sexuality". I have never understood the need to understand, so to speak.

Sexuality "doesn’t exist apart from a relationship to political structures, requirements, laws, and regulations that have a primary importance for it" (Foucault).
Co-Sign. What people do in their bedrooms is none of our bussines.
 

Hitokage

Setec Astronomer
The interest in finding a reason for many, is to combat the religious right's assertions that it's an 'abomination unto god'. If it can be proved that it's a naturally occurring phenomenon, that argument goes out the window (...because then the only explanation is that God made them that way...), and it (hopefully) makes it much easier for some people to accept it.
When they feel that God forbids homosexuality, they MUST believe it's 100% choice, or otherwise God would be punishing people for something they did not have control over.
 

shoplifter

Member
Hitokage said:
When they feel that God forbids homosexuality, they MUST believe it's 100% choice, or otherwise God would be punishing people for something they did not have control over.

Yeah, that's kind of where I was going with that. :)
 
Its definately not my thing, but I have no problem with homosexuality. People are free to do whatever they wish with whoever they wish.

I do have a problem with trying to equate this type of relationship to the sacrament of holy matrimony.
 

3phemeral

Member
Hitokage said:
When they feel that God forbids homosexuality, they MUST believe it's 100% choice, or otherwise God would be punishing people for something they did not have control over.


I wouldn't put it past them to think otherwise. I've been told that even in the light of information that could possibly link homosexuality to genetics, they'd still consider it a "choice" because even if you're gay, you "choose" to live the lifestyle that you'd be genetically predisposed to living. That God is so powerful that he transcends all that is biological -- and that if you really want to change, God will change you -- even at the cellular level.

Sometimes I have no hope for this world.
 

shoplifter

Member
siamesedreamer said:
I do have a problem with trying to equate this type of relationship to the sacrament of holy matrimony.


Which again, no one is fucking trying to do. How hard is it to understand?

religious marriage =/= secular marriage


I'm so fucking tired of this that I'm really going to do the ballot initiative next fall to change all instances of marriage in public code in Ohio to 'civil unions'.

Then the government can't have any say in 'the sacrament of holy matrimony'. Churches should be happy about that.
 

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siamesedreamer said:
Its definately not my thing, but I have no problem with homosexuality. People are free to do whatever they wish with whoever they wish.

I do have a problem with trying to equate this type of relationship to the sacrament of holy matrimony.

So, are you for civil unions?
 
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