Halycon said:
I don't think I've met anyone the OP's described, except for the "azn pride" kids in high school. And it wasn't really even that they were actually proud of their heritage, just clique mentality.
I'm referring to mostly the people who objectify/fetishize Asian culture.
The line of difference between interest and objectification is how one treats the culture.
If you have an interest, you explore that interest, focus on some aspect of the culture for your own satisfaction. Where objectification becomes an issues is where you think you can acquire the culture. Which is a different than normal interest and cultural immersion.
Yeah, I suppose the most overt example is that raging weeaboo.
The title of the thread was changed, I was just curious about what it was that some non-Asians found SO much better about western culture. As someone raised between two cultures, I take a more a la carte. I take what I like from each one, and criticize what I don't like. But I just don't see that there are things that are so incredibly desirable/or makes them superior, one way or the other. Not where I would completely discard one cultural identity for the other.
Example: Winter Olympics. I'm not cheering for South Korea in the Olympics. My personal perception of South Korean speed skating team is that they cheat, in individual events, they team skate. I know the whole "you're not trying if you're not cheating" thing. I just don't care for it. And Kim Yu Na, I just don't care about women's figure skating.
In the World Cup, I'll cheer for both Korea and the US.
What I see in the people I wonder about is this weird.....gushing, and just bizzare ass behavior. Like at a party a couple weeks ago, met this dude, and he spoke to me in Mandarin.
Guy: *something in Mandarin*
Me: Uhm...I don't speak Chinese.
Guy: Oh, well its not Chinese, its Mandarin. Sorry for assuming, you just look so Mandarin.
Me: Uh...
Guy: And my Japanese isn't so good.
Me: Well, I actually look really Korean.
Guy: Who told you that? Not at all.
Me: Yeah.....uhm, nice meeting you, I'm gonna get a beer.
*10 minutes later*
Guy: So, do you watch anime?
The whole night was like that, I came to the party with a friend, an Asian women, and he was pretty much creepier with her and spent all night trying to get us to talk about Asian things.
I think if I had Asian female friends share stories, they'd paint a much clearer picture from.
I don't think I explained it well. Just, there's just a feeling that I get...like, you're not just generally curious/interested and plain creepy.
Gah, I'm gonna get banned again.
Oh, those AzN PrYdE kids are stupid.