I didn't mean that as you were implying you wanted an apology. It was just an example.I don't imply, I state. I never stated anything about wanting an apology. I'm explaining to those who somehow missed all of high school (If you're American) where police/American racial prejudice "comes from" as in it was always here. The country was literally build on it and it's ingrained into American life/culture.
The idea that oh civil rights happened 50 years ago, now everything is equal! Is the delusion of idiots who feign intelligence (You know them as republicans). That's not how it works/worked/will ever work. Much like you can't fix 20 years of political fuckery in 8, you can't undo 280+ years of oppression/marginalization/fucketry in 50 years. It'll take just as long to undo it as it did to fuck it all up. Doubly so when you realize that during that entire time, black people in the US entered the race 50 laps behind white people. It has always been an utterly dumb, romanticized notion that 50 years of progress totes makes up for 250+ years of fuckery and it's a notion that people of privileged position tout like a platinum trumpet when they feel uncomfortable or "tried" about talking about race in the US.
And it's not like the day those Civil Rights laws were passed everything was peachy afterwards. It's not like one day before the laws were passed we had colored signs, lynchings, beatings, waterhosing, rape, murder, mass discrimination. Then the day after said laws were passed, we all held hands and sang kumba-fucking-ya and shit and everyone who was racist suddenly weren't and no longer acted in a way to continue to marginalize blacks.
Or to take it a step back further. It's not like the day after slavery was abolished, it was all peaches and roses and blacks and whites were walking down the street with each other holding hands, singing "good morning" and clicking their heels, sitting in classrooms with each other getting the same quality education as one another, working the same jobs for the same pay.
People tend to forget that slaves weren't allowed to read/be taught how to read and write nor did they earn wages. So when slavery ended...what do people think happened? Blacks threw up their caps and went out and bought land and boom equality? That the south was like "well we lost, let's build them schools and help them be equal to us!"
As for the rest, I appreciate the explanation. My apologies for misinterpreting your intent.
Yes it takes time to heal from things.
My only point is that it isn't something that should be used against people living now. As a history lesson to learn from sure. However grudges carried across generations won't help anyone (which I know you weren't implying or stating).