The difference is that I'm not being criticized for liking cute loli characters! But yeah, I see where you're coming from now. I was just abstracting it more because I wanted to turn my eyes away from the harsh truth, but there isn't really much of a difference between the obsession and the otaku criticism thing.[Wasurenagumo]
I'm working from the angle of The Evil Demon Seductress here, except taken to the logical extreme of what you do when otaku tastes keep on leaning towards the younger. I think we agreed last time we had this discussion in here that this is a story that has been repeated a lot in anime, but every time the female character gets lolier!Mizuki would be the real 2D woman who's obviously interested in the main dude but gets ignored for the fantastic fake construct.
What's the difference? lol
(For the record, I never liked loli spider girl! I liked the picture Nafe was using of
slightly older-looking spider girl