360 got slowed WAY down through the years. It got so clunky and I saw the spinning circle so often that I rarely ever wanted to do anything with it other than play the current game in the drive. Even bringing up pins or recent takes awhile on 360. I think you have some rose colored glasses about 360, honestly. X1 is SO much faster to swap and load things, no matter what it is.
I think you just don't like talking to Kinect, which is understandable. But I think you'll get used to it. And I'm sure MS will try to add more controller based features. Things will change - just look at the Blades as opposed to NXE v2. That's the same exact box as 2005.
No, I get that the 360 became a bog. It was super slow. But comparing XB1 to PS4, it's not even close how much easier it is to navigate the PS4.
However, the XB1 obviously has a feature advantage, so I'm willing to deal with that. The snap feature is great, and I've probably put more time on my XB1 simply because it has those extra features, but I can't ignore that I'd away the dang tiles for something more simple in a heartbeat.