Ok, i was responding to the dude who claimed (or at least i interpreted his post as a claim) that it's unlikely that i would find all men unattractive because i should be conditioned to know what an attractive man looks like by now. And i agree with one of his premises - i am conditioned to know what an attractive man looks like.
But i'm still not attracted.
And why is their perceived good looks of any importance in your second scenario? Can't it be nice for them even if they are ugly looking men?
That these hollywood hunks who are kissing on screen are good looking doesn't change anything for me personally. They could just as well be "ugly gorillas" kissing for all i would care.
Cuz there was a dude in here that was like, men are fucking hideous, as if saying only pretty people are acceptable to kiss in public :<
As for my stance,
here's what I said earlier. And more
things.
Look, base line is no one is making anyone watching sex. Of whatever kinds.
For me, the struggle is more about how samesex people are not accepted in the mainstream sphere. Inwardly, a lot of people remain on the side of: "I am cool with the gays, but two men kissing in my field of vision grosses me out."
Like I said, instead of going: "Oh, its just two consenting adults showing love for each other. That's nice for them."
That difference, that inner repulsion at samesex couples, makes me sad. As if we are 'deformed' and 'wrong' and therefore must be minimised.. even erased, from the public's field of vision.
