So...I caught my girlfriend cheating on me.

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jorma

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Shitty situation all around, but...

Why would you really beat the guy up? He didn't cheat on you, and he has zero obligations to you. I understand the frustration and the anger when catching her cheating, where he gets the short stick because you're not allowed to hit girls.

But to go home, leave the dog and then go back to unleash violence? Not really ok.
 
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Whitebison

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Thanks guys, you're helping me a lot because with the different hour zone in Spain I couldn't talk with any of my friends :S
 
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Tobe

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perra de mierda, encuentra al tipo y sacale la puta madre. ok en verdad no pero dile la vida a tu ex.

sorry about your situation tho fuck cheating girfriends.
 
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Whitebison

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maquiladora said:
This.
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As I said it was for the heat of the moment...I know it was a bad decision, and the fact that when I came back they were still standing there was not helping...

I asked my ex-gf later and the guy knew she was in a relationship, I know that the first scumbag is my ex-gf but man...you don't date girls in relationships.
 
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params7

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Move on, this relationship isn't worth it. Go back to Spain where you at least feel at home. Change of environment will do wonders for you. No matter what, do not go back to her. You will never be able to have a normal, trusting relationship with that girl again.
 
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Fred-87

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Whitebison said:
As I said it was for the heat of the moment...I know it was a bad decision, and the fact that when I came back they were still standing there was not helping...

I asked my ex-gf later and the guy knew she was in a relationship, I know that the first scumbag is my ex-gf but man...you don't date girls in relationships.
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I would beat him up if i know that he knows that your in relationship. thats not cool. I respect you can control yourself now.
 
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Vampirolol

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Whitebison said:
I know I'll fight the guy and crush him [...]
So then I took my dog to the house and go back to that street in full berserk mode to beat the guy, as I showed up at the corner the guy gets in the car and goes away in a second.
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I got my face broken and risked to lose an eye because of something like this. He was an ex-boyfriend but you know, he THOUGHT that she was cheating him with me earlier. Anyway it's the human nature, you are saying this but you didn't attack him like a psycho, I respect this and I'm sorry for you!
 
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Whitebison

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Gustav said:
So what happens with the girl now? Does she live with you?
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Yes...that's the worst part, we have the house rent payed until october...

I asked her if she have somewhere to move out but she says thar she barely knows anyone and that "the guy" lives with his folks so she can't go there, pathetic.

I think we will spend the two left months barely talking.
 
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Summer Haze

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Whitebison said:
We were almot 24/7 together so I doubt that.

She said to me that today was the third time she hang out with the guy...that she had no excuse blabla... fucking pathetic.

I think I'm going to focus on my work and working out everyday.
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It's good that you have such a positive attitude. Better yourself in those areas and then see the look on her face when she realised what she lost.

All the best in the future. It's gonna hurt for while, but time really is the biggest healer.

Edit: Damn, you still have to live with her? Shit....that fucking sucks.
 
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corduroyCUCK

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Whitebison said:
I asked her if she have somewhere to move out but she says thar she barely knows anyone and that "the guy" lives with his folks so she can't go there, pathetic.
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f*ck that

she can get nice and cozy with his entire family i'm sure, sleep on the couch, maybe watch movies with grandma. it's obviously what she prefers to living with a great guy with his sh*t together like yourself
 
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Interceptor

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Whitebison said:
Yes...that's the worst part, we have the house rent payed until october...

I asked her if she have somewhere to move out but she says thar she barely knows anyone and that "the guy" lives with his folks so she can't go there, pathetic.

I think we will spend the two left months barely talking.
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Not your problem anymore. Kick her out.
 
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The_Poet

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Whitebison said:
Yes...that's the worst part, we have the house rent payed until october...

I asked her if she have somewhere to move out but she says thar she barely knows anyone and that "the guy" lives with his folks so she can't go there, pathetic.

I think we will spend the two left months barely talking.
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FUCK THAT.

I dont think I could handle that, sorry this isn't helping I suppose.
 
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Whitebison said:
Yes...that's the worst part, we have the house rent payed until october...

I asked her if she have somewhere to move out but she says thar she barely knows anyone and that "the guy" lives with his folks so she can't go there, pathetic.

I think we will spend the two left months barely talking.
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Ouch. That will be very awkward.
 
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vicnorris

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f*ck that, there are plenty of girls out there, live your life to the fullest. Living alone can be really satisfying, you just gotta learn to live like that.

As for anything, have fun in that couple of months, time will pass you by.
 
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Tobe

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sucks that you cant kick her out :/ but yeah stay focused on doing stuff not invilving her. work out try to meet new people idk. stay positive and active. godspeed to you mate
 
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jorma

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Whitebison said:
Yes...that's the worst part, we have the house rent payed until october...

I asked her if she have somewhere to move out but she says thar she barely knows anyone and that "the guy" lives with his folks so she can't go there, pathetic.

I think we will spend the two left months barely talking.
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So when you leave in October the only one she knows in Mexico is a dude who still lives with mommy. Yeah, i think she'll be back in Spain not that long after you come home again.
 
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FUME5

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Time to get to know some sexy senoritas over the next few months. Hope you get a few loud ones to really rub it in.
 
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Fred-87

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If i where you i would be adventurous. You say you make some money. So you can afford to rent a car. You have a big dog, so go on a road trip with him in a big car. Stay at campings (is that correct word? in my country campings are places where you can park your car and set up a tent, dogs allowed). And do that for 2 months. I would love it and seriously do that if i was you. That, or kick her out
 
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red731

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Fuck :(

Dump that and find yourself a worthy girl or bacome a butterfly that protects itselft and fuck everything that likes your dog and yourself.
 
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MarkMclovin

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Kick her out. You guys have been together too long for you to just let her stay with you.

Fuck that, I'd pack her bags right now. She knew what she was doing.

EDIT - Also, I don't see the point of people saying "find a worthy girl". As far as he was concerned, he did. And he would still think she was loyal if he didn't take the dog out for a walk and catch them.

Kick her out, change the locks if you can, fuck around until October.
 
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Whitebison said:
Yes...that's the worst part, we have the house rent payed until october...

I asked her if she have somewhere to move out but she says thar she barely knows anyone and that "the guy" lives with his folks so she can't go there, pathetic.

I think we will spend the two left months barely talking.
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Eh.. who payed the rent? If it was only you just kick her out. Give her a week to find some place to stay and then kick her out.
 
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Yaboosh said:
Never understood the desire to beat the guy unless you were friends.
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Yep. Not his fault. Girl is the one to blame. Goo thing OP didn't get chance. Neither the other guy deserves be be beaten up nor the OP deserves all the problems this might have caused.
 
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timetokill

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Did you pay the rent yourself, or did you both pay for it? I'm guessing just you since your previous thread said your girlfriend's salary was terrible.

Also, if you have a cute dog it's a total chick magnet and a great way to start a conversation with some fine Mexican honeys. Go out and live it up dude.
 
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Wickerbasket

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Sucks, but it's better you found out. You don't want to be with someone like that.

Also, she must really not give a shit about you to do this too you when you're stranded in a foreign country with no friends. What a horrible person she is.

Don't let her worm her way back in by apologising.
 
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I've been in a similar situation two years ago and I'm very sorry that happened to you mate. It can crush you, believe me I know. Just take some time and let that wound heal. Do you still have to live with her in Mexico? If so I'd try to kick her out, that's what I did. We lived together and once I found out I just bagged all her stuff and left it in the hall. I know it can sound harsh but think about what she did to you. I think it's really important that you don't have to see her right now and can get over that as quickly as possible. Good luck!
 
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GladiatoR

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I'm sorry but why were you so desperate to beat up the guy?

Most of my anger would be directed towards the person that made an actual commitment to me and was my actual partner tbh.
 
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GladiatoR said:
I'm sorry but why were you so desperate to beat up the guy?

Most of my anger would be directed towards the person that made an actual commitment to me and was my actual partner tbh.
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I doubt he was thinking very rationally at the time, I imagine it was very emotional.

I could see why someone would blame the guy equally, if they assumed he knew she had a boyfriend.
 
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KevinRo

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Leave her in that country with her shit job. You were together for 5 years and you moved there for her and she does that. Make sure she knows she is lower than dirt.
 
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Amir0x

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Don't get into any more trouble over this situation man, not worth it. I used to overreact all the time. Not a good way to be.
 
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Whitebison said:
As I said it was for the heat of the moment...I know it was a bad decision, and the fact that when I came back they were still standing there was not helping...

I asked my ex-gf later and the guy knew she was in a relationship, I know that the first scumbag is my ex-gf but man...you don't date girls in relationships.
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I'm not going to say anything about whether or not it's okay to go after a guy that goes out with a girl that he knows is in a relationship, but before you knew all that, what if he was just some guy that didn't know?
 
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UnblessedSoul said:
You know trying to beat up the guy gets you nowhere right?, if anything you will get charged with assault, your girlfriend was the unfaithful one, get rid of her and find someone better
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Yeah, your girl was at fault not that guy... he's probably the innocent one unless she told him about you.
 
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Maybe you have people back home that could help you get back, October is a long time to be stuck with someone who fucked you over.

Oops, I forgot about the dog.

It really is a shitty situation.
 
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Radec

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Whitebison said:
Yes...that's the worst part, we have the house rent payed until october...

I asked her if she have somewhere to move out but she says thar she barely knows anyone and that "the guy" lives with his folks so she can't go there, pathetic.

I think we will spend the two left months barely talking.
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wtf.. kick her out.

Imagine living with your ex while that dude is still fucking her when she goes out. (or worse when you're not at home and she invites the guy)

In the end you might do things you couldn't imagine.

Or if you can't, then go back to Spain with the dog.
 
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