So...I caught my girlfriend cheating on me.
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Triggerhappytel
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While I agree with you, it's just the rage of the moment. The red mist descends and rationality goes out of the window.
Snkfanatic
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Oh boy...
My man. That's exactly it.
GrotesqueBeauty
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She dug her own grave. I would give her a week to figure out her own living situation and then tell her not to let the door hit her ass on the way out. If you live together for two more months you can expect her to express "heartfelt" remorse and guilt (you know, the kind you get after you're caught) and try to be sweet and caring and weasel her way back into your heart. She doesn't deserve the chance to subject you to further confusion. I'm of the opinion that you should draw a line in the sand, not out of spite but out of self respect. If she didn't want to be put in a bad position she shouldn't have played that game. Where she goes next is her problem, not yours.
friskykillface
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Bummer man but at least you know and are out of the relationship
I agree. Not everybody is the perfect person in the world. Everyone does -- kills people, murders people, steals from you, steals from me
FullMetaltech
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I have to say OP you are the better person for keeping your cool. I can imagine it would of been worse getting into a brawl an getting locked up in a foreign place. Not worth the trouble. Like everyone said keeping busy and focusing on your work and fellow canine much more valuable.
Sorry to hear, OP. But I can't sympathise with the feeling of wanting to beat the other guy. He might not even know she was your girlfriend, and even if he did he probably never swore he would be faithful to you, so...
Good thing you controlled yourself. Violence leads to nothing and could even put you in trouble, when you gain absolutely nothing from it.
Other thing, if she was cheating on you then maybe it is a good thing you two are no longer together. Blessings in disguise and all that.
Good thing you controlled yourself. Violence leads to nothing and could even put you in trouble, when you gain absolutely nothing from it.
Other thing, if she was cheating on you then maybe it is a good thing you two are no longer together. Blessings in disguise and all that.
You can't unless they are not that smart and you are good at making their life hell. Problem is, that takes too much energy so unless you are in a position to do so financially, it is best for the guy to leave the apartment instead but leave the girl with a nice house bill that they would have to fork out for.
Back to the OP. Fuck. That really is a fucked up situation to be in but honestly, all is not lost. If I were you, start planning your days and try to enjoy your time there. Get girls, put some effort in to have fun and enjoy yourself until it is time for you to go home. You never know, you might end up being with a super hot mexican girl that may put in the effort to see you back in your home and make the relationship work with you. You might as well because doing that sure beats depression even though I know you are suffering... Hold yourself strong, dude.
BladeoftheImmortal
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Bimbo is actually a pastry company. lol
Bakery...they make all sorts of stuff other than pastries.
BladeoftheImmortal
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close enough.
Freakinchair
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My thoughts as well. Good luck OP!
This.
Lo siento por tu situación actual. Intenta unas vacaciones a Jalisco donde las mujeres bellas fluyen como el agua
, y dado tu acento se te será más fácil.Anyways, let her go and find someone else.
Man, someone is taking a lawnmower to the posters in here. I wonder if we'd have the same result if the roles were reversed and we were calling the cheating party a "dick" or "asshole". Really bizarre it's not like there's women hating going on in here.
Anyway I feel for you OP. If you have to spend the next couple of months in the same house, go out and try to meet people. Don't let a shitty person ruin your time there.
Anyway I feel for you OP. If you have to spend the next couple of months in the same house, go out and try to meet people. Don't let a shitty person ruin your time there.
Shotgun Kiss
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Unless you neglected to mention something in your OP, you were about to go and physically attack somebody who may not even have known the girl he was seeing was actually seeing somebody else. That's a bit risky. :-/
zephervack
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OP, what happened the next time you talked to her after the incident? Was she crying, telling you to take her back, that it was a mistake, that she was confused, bla bla balb al?
Or was she cool about it and just said sorry?
Regardless, living with her for now is a huge mistake, and one night you will be sad, tired and lonely and you will have make-up sex and it will feel amazing but it will never-the-less be a huge mistake.
Dont do it, she will cheat on you again if you let this one go...
Or was she cool about it and just said sorry?
Regardless, living with her for now is a huge mistake, and one night you will be sad, tired and lonely and you will have make-up sex and it will feel amazing but it will never-the-less be a huge mistake.
Dont do it, she will cheat on you again if you let this one go...
WhereAreMahDragonz
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You did the right thing, OP. Take these next few months to figure out your own life and focus on yourself.
Best of luck.
Best of luck.
daninthemix
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Sorry man, humans are pretty foul, generally.
Indeed, once a cheater, always a cheater.
Fool me once, etc. I agree, only let her break your heart once. Also this thread is quite the graveyard.
A whole bunch, the first time you catch someone is never the first time. She'd gotten comfortable enough with it to not even bother going inside.
Omegasquash
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Damn, OP. You did right by controlling yourself here, but do yourself a solid and stand your ground. Focusing on work and working out is a really healthy thing to do, but if you're not comfortable, then tell her that she's got to GTFO.
At the very least, she can shack up at a hotel, contact home to get money needed to buy a ticket back and be out of your life, if you don't want her around. It's up to her to figure it all out...she screwed up, so she's got to deal with the consequences. We all have to sleep in the beds we make, you know?
At the very least, she can shack up at a hotel, contact home to get money needed to buy a ticket back and be out of your life, if you don't want her around. It's up to her to figure it all out...she screwed up, so she's got to deal with the consequences. We all have to sleep in the beds we make, you know?
samus i am
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Tell her to pack her bags for Spain. Do not keep living with her.
HI. BILLY MAYS HERE
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Sorry to hear OP I know it hurts
Keep us updated on what you're gonna do about the EX you shouldn't have to be miserable for 3 months.
Keep us updated on what you're gonna do about the EX you shouldn't have to be miserable for 3 months.
Aizu_Itsuko
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You are looking it the wrong way.
You just got rid of a cheating girlfriend and are enjoying some vacation time in another country. You are free to meet new people, have fun and go wild because why the fuck not? The sooner you start looking at it this way, the sooner you will be having a blast.
Oh, and tell her she has to leave, of course.
PjotrStroganov
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I guess it's a blessing in disguise as she was the one unwilling to go back to spain. Now you can go without feeling remorseful. Sucks that you can't go right away.
Until the mexicans start laughing at his accent
we mexicans dudes will do...
but mexican girls wet their panties with foreign accents.
OP, where are you living?. If you live in Monterrey, we can get some beers tomorrow.
sonikokaruto
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Que el perro no te detenga, si tu lo rescataste, lo mas seguro es que alguien lo pueda querer.
Es hora de regresar a casa
Es hora de regresar a casa
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