This is directly referenced in the part about fantasy.
- We can have huge inventories in minute backpacks.
- We can have an incredible resilience and healing abilities.
- Sometimes we can bend time, and space.
- We can make societies in the clouds, under water, in space.
- But we will always have violence against women because realism.
She argues it's a cheap shot basically. I'd say its the same reason women don't get a more varied representation: Lazy design, which in the end goes up as being sexist.
Before you say "but there's also a lot of violence in games" lemme say: There's also quite a bit of excess of violence in mainstream gaming, don't deny it. Think about the last game where you didn't have to kill something. Sure, there's a reason for it, but its still undeniable.
However, only one of those two targets a specific gender. What were the last three games were you saw sexual violence against a guy?
EDIT: Hell, think of SLAVERY in videogames. Most of the times slavery makes an appearence it is denounced as a horrible event and most of the times there's a quest to abolish it or you can see people fighting against that. On the other hand, violence against women is "shit that happens that'll always happen."