Please do. Here are my requirements:
- if it is a series, that it is short with no filler
- should not be built around fighting or combat
- should not contain robots
- should look good, with smooth animation rather than choppy stuff
- should treat women like human beings with dignity, equity, and rich inner lives and should ideally have female characters that are not merely love interests for male characters
- should engage with human, social, and political themes and preferably in a real rather than fantasy world
- should be targeted to adults
- character's eyes should be appropriately sized for their head
- if it has a theme song, the theme song should not overly earnest desperate generic Japanese pop
- should not be described as anyone ever as "badass"
- should not contain a young female character who is rude and abusive to everyone played for laughs
- should not contain a young female character that makes shrill, high pitched noises as a stand-in for actually expressing themselves with words
- should not contain soft focus shots where characters gaze longingly into each other's eyes
- should not contain that dumb blushing reaction where there's a sweat drop and the person screws up their eyes
- should not contain uguu or waifu or whatever other babble people use to express how they want to surround themselves with shrill excitable cute girls
- should not have extended details about how a male character is a pervert
- should be available legally for a reasonable price in North America, preferably dubbed. If it's subbed, the subtitles should be professional and localized, not merely translated
I've asked this before and got a few solid recommendations that I have enjoyed, but in almost every case people remind me that I'm really rubbing up major tropes and approaches used in Anime.
Edit: for example, without knowing anything about the shows, the summaries in the Anime of the Year 2014 results thread exclude most of those shows that made the cut. Not all, mind you.
man, i used to be into anime when i was a teenager. it was about the same time i was really into rpgs. and then as i got into college i just stopped caring. there was a show called eureka 7 that kind of ticks every single box of yours and pretty much turned me off to it as a whole. i'm slowly starting to watch some stuff again, based solely off the concept that good entertainment should be good entertainment.
if you have never seen it, this is not an anime, but the style is similar and that is what initially put me off. despite a lot of anime leanings, i really recommend
avatar: the last airbender. it's an american-made show influenced heavily by all kinds of different asian cultures. they build it into the architecture, they work it into the fighting moves. the music is great, the fight scenes are inventive, and the way it treats the characters is wonderful. everyone is a person, even the psychotic villains, and it gives time to them to develop motivation so that you could at least understand where they're coming from or why they're having such a breakdown or why they're so power-hungry. the two biggest marks against it are that it's basically a martial arts show and it's in a fantasy setting, but if you like good characters i recommend it. it was originally aired on nickelodeon, but it gained a large following from older folks because of the writing and the acting and the attention to detail. i cannot stress enough how much i was surprised by it not being a 'kid's show', despite
everything about it indicating it would be generic and y'know, bad.
i'm trying to think back of anime i watched and might fit everything here. they all get pretty weird and creepy, but in an intentional way that's not supposed to be fun for some people.
serial experiments lain:
Serial Experiments Lain is an avant-garde anime influenced by philosophical subjects such as reality, identity, and communication. The series focuses on Lain Iwakura, an adolescent girl living in suburban Japan, and her introduction to the Wired, a global communications network similar to the Internet. Lain lives with her middle-class family, which consists of her inexpressive older sister Mika, her cold mother, and her computer-obsessed father. The first ripple on the pond of Lain's lonely life appears when she learns that girls from her school have received an e-mail from Chisa Yomoda, a schoolmate who had committed suicide. When Lain receives the message at home, Chisa tells her (in real time) that she is not dead, but has merely "abandoned her physical body and flesh", and is alive deep within the virtual reality-world of the Wired itself and that she has found the almighty and divine god there. From then on, Lain is bound to a path which will take her ever deeper into both the network and her own subconscious thoughts and sensations.
i watched this when i was a teenager and like you, i really only watched dubs. it's an unsettling show and honestly pretty weird. it's not about real life, but it is set within the real world. i will say that the dub for this happened about 15 years ago and it kinda shows.
paranoia agent:
Tsukiko Sagi, a shy character designer who created the immensely popular pink dog Maromi, finds herself under pressure to repeat her success. As she walks home that night, she is attacked by an elementary school boy on inline skates. Two police detectives, Keiichi Ikari and Mitsuhiro Maniwa, are assigned to the case. They suspect that Tsukiko is lying about the attack, until they receive word of a second victim.
Soon the attacker, dubbed Lil' Slugger (Shōnen Bat in Japanese, meaning "Bat Boy") is blamed for a series of street assaults in Tokyo. None of the victims can recall the boy's face and only three distinct details are left in their memories: golden inline skates, a baseball cap, and the weapon: a bent golden baseball bat.
this show can really push the envelope in making you feel uncomfortable. it's essentially about people in the real world who don't take responsibilities for their actions and the hell they create for themselves. some episodes are basically dark comedy, others are simply dark. it's by the creator of perfect blue, which i see has already been recommended. however while also psychological, this show does extend a bit out of our reality, but only towards the end of the show. for the most part, it's an interesting mystery with many self-contained stories.
ghost in the shell stand alone complex and
ghost in the shell stand alone complex 2nd gig
the police procedural descriptor is a really good fit. the theme songs are really really deceptive in that really neither season is about action or fighting. about the worst thing in these shows are the tachikomas, which you can see in the openings of both. they're the giant spidery robots and good god are they annoying.
that said they don't really do much so you won't have much face time with them outside of only a couple episodes. both seasons get into the philosophy of the self and identity.
any four of these are the best i can think up. they all don't miss every single checkmark, but i think they're all of a fairly high quality. serial experiments lain is probably the weakest one, and that's based on me not having seen it in ten years.
i also really love princess mononoke. it's straight-up fantasy, but it deals with politics and reality of man vs. nature. strong female characters, no real fighting to speak of outside the opening and the ending (to show the effects of war, really). plus it's a movie, so it's the smallest investment of time and money out of any of these.