Girlfriend emotionally cheated on me
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-duskdoll-
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Doesn't change the fact that she almost had sex with a married man while in a relationship with the OP. Just because the relationship wasn't perfect doesn't mean the OP can't feel betrayed.
kitchenmotors
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You mean where I said people wouldn't be bringing up his LIES? Yeah I thought maybe it was a bit hyperbole but the truth is, he left out shit and I honestly don't believe the stuff he says now.
My problem is people like you who will defend those that are obviously called out on their bs.
Also, I have nothing to hide like you're making it seem with my edit, so don't even try it SIS.
exmachina64
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Or the Serial podcast.
really feel the 'relationship' was one-sided at the point of the logreading tbqh
LabouredSubterfuge
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Man, you're right. I wouldn't want that shit to happen to me if I ever needed to vent and only had GAF to turn to.
I'm sorry OP, hope you can sort this shit out and be done with it.
Goddamn, that mean man. Why'd you have to go an call him out like that?
Sorry man, we can't help what kind of dick we are born with.
But fuck, that was the call-out of the year right there
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-duskdoll-
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Still, there was an understanding between them that they were in a monogamous relationship. He has every right to be upset.
GOD DAMN I say. This is more meta than Brazil.
giancarlo123x
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Jesus fuck!
Howard Ballou
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Goddamn. I gotta implement a policy of looking at the OP's post history when I go into threads like this.
OP thinks so. But like I said, I think its one-sided.
Wait, what? So, previously you lacked control over it? Did your tongue justy ly dow in your mouth, all sleepy like? Honestly, good if you have gotten over it.
Move on. There is nothing left for you in that old relationship.
Baldwin_the_First
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Called out on his BS? When has it been said that it was actual bullshit, or been proven to be? I'm not defending, I'm trying to make sense of why you're acting like such a cunt and refusing to see that you're just being one for the sake of being one.
Plus honestly, I just want to see the continuity of this story and dont want some killjoy messing with it.
kitchenmotors
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It is one-sided.
The fact that he left out the 8 year old kid in the picture but wanted to get her fired with his vengeful shit when all he could've done was said "see ya" tells all.
Whiskeymatt
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kitchenmotors
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hipbabboom
Huh? What did I say? Did I screw up again? :(
Gemüsepizza;144959023 said:
It's a tough call man. He's relationship is not as developed as a marriage and look how much pain this is causing him. He would be dealing an even greater pain to another innocent party by informing the cheater's wife. It's hard to gauge if people want to know even when you know them and when you do decide to do such a thing, its soul-destroying when its not from a place of love or, at the very least, genuine concern; can OP be sure its not an act of revenge? I'm not sure letting the other victim know is his place... I'm just not sure.
Broder Salsa
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Actually I don't find small penis funny. It's a serious problem.
HarryDemeanor
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He was rightfully angry, but wasn't actually going to do it (going from his posts).
hipbabboom
Huh? What did I say? Did I screw up again? :(
I just read the last page. GAF can be a disgusting cesspool at times 
I'm really sorry OP.
I'm really sorry OP.Dhruv_hanom
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I think you should calmly call it quits. Say that we're over because things aren't working out, you're just not into her anymore, don't want a one sided relationship and that being together just won't be fair for the both of you.
There's no need to indicate that you know whats really up. I'd refrain from telling the wife because the guilt would eat me up. It'll happen on its own, the wife is bound to find out or maybe she already knows and chooses to ignore it for the sake of their child but personally I wouldn't want to be the initiator of a schism between a married couple( or even an unmarried one).
And sorry for all the shit you've been receiving.
There's no need to indicate that you know whats really up. I'd refrain from telling the wife because the guilt would eat me up. It'll happen on its own, the wife is bound to find out or maybe she already knows and chooses to ignore it for the sake of their child but personally I wouldn't want to be the initiator of a schism between a married couple( or even an unmarried one).
And sorry for all the shit you've been receiving.
Seriously. That's huge
along with the fact that he's reading through weeks of logs on skype and whatnot and somehow keeps a straight face with her on the day to day
just doesn't 'flow'
I think they were tight once but after that big break up in the past she just cashed out
but i still think there's more to this or more that the OP doesn't know himself
kitchenmotors
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-duskdoll-
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He said he wasn't going to do it, and the kid has nothing to do with this.
Yasss, make cuntmotors relevant
petition to change your username to cuntmotors
I think what you're saying is that OP should fight the Husband in gladiatorial combat?
kitchenmotors
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I would be ok with that being my tag tbqh.
My native Spanish speaking girlfriend (of 7+ years) read the message he sent to the wife. For what it's worth, she absolutely thinks the wife has a right to know, and she went so far as to say it's chauvinistic to act like the woman may not want to know or is better off left ignorant. Not telling her in the dark and allowing her to be treated like an idiot, and deprives her of her right to make her own decision about who she's with.
Her words, not mine. I don't disagree though.
EDIT: "not telling her would be keeping her in the dark." iPad typing is hard.
I see you.
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