Girlfriend emotionally cheated on me

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Tag fishing? there shall be no support group for you, the dream is dead.

I know. ;(

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My native Spanish speaking girlfriend (of 7+ years) read the message he sent to the wife. For what it's worth, she absolutely thinks the wife has a right to know, and she went so far as to say it's chauvinistic to act like the woman may not want to know or is better off left ignorant. Not telling her in the dark and allowing her to be treated like an idiot, and deprives her of her right to make her own decision about who she's with.

Her words, not mine. I don't disagree though.

She's absolutely right.
 

hipbabboom

Huh? What did I say? Did I screw up again? :(
My native Spanish speaking girlfriend (of 7+ years) read the message he sent to the wife. For what it's worth, she absolutely thinks the wife has a right to know, and she went so far as to say it's chauvinistic to act like the woman may not want to know or is better off left ignorant. Not telling her in the dark and allowing her to be treated like an idiot, and deprives her of her right to make her own decision about who she's with.

Her words, not mine. I don't disagree though.

Generally, I would want to know and I think many people who had it together would but I've actually seen people get angry at people who've told them and would call them liars... it gets pretty ugly; enough so that it makes ME really wonder if some people are better off not knowing.
 

Hagi

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Don't worry, I'm here.
I'm laughing at the GIFs actually

Anyways, she's on her way.

set up a stream so we can see what happens, might as well embrace this digital future now you're single you'll be interacting a lot with webcams
 

Principate

Saint Titanfall
Generally, I would want to know and I think many people who had it together would but I've actually seen people get angry at people who've told them and would call them liars... it gets pretty ugly; enough so that it makes ME really wonder if some people are better off not knowing.

Eh people are people, everyone not gong to react the same way doesn't mean you shouldn't attempt to do what you think is right regardless of the response.
 

Dunkley

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My native Spanish speaking girlfriend (of 7+ years) read the message he sent to the wife. For what it's worth, she absolutely thinks the wife has a right to know, and she went so far as to say it's chauvinistic to act like the woman may not want to know or is better off left ignorant. Not telling her in the dark and allowing her to be treated like an idiot, and deprives her of her right to make her own decision about who she's with.

Her words, not mine. I don't disagree though.

That's a good way to see things. She's totally right that his wife deserves to know and make the choice then.

Don't worry, I'm here.
I'm laughing at the GIFs actually

Anyways, she's on her way.

Good luck with everything!
 

Dugna

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Wait, So the response from people is to dig up a thread the OP made bout a year or so ago talking about his sexual parts and his worries. The response to that is for some of you to just post "#REKT #DAMN, 'Ohh now we know why she left you weren't good enough' " shit like that that.

Wtf is wrong with some of you?
 

Ties

Banned
Wait, So the response from people is to dig up a thread the OP made bout a year or so ago talking about his sexual parts and his worries. The response to that is for all of you to just post "#REKT #DAMN, 'Ohh now we know why she left you weren't good enough' " shit like that that.

Wtf is wrong with some of you?
expose their trifling asses
 

dustyherb

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Wait, So the response from people is to dig up a thread the OP made bout a year or so ago talking about his sexual parts and his worries. The response to that is for all of you to just post "#REKT #DAMN, 'Ohh now we know why she left you weren't good enough' " shit like that that.

Wtf is wrong with some of you?
Seriously. The dude is obviously having trouble with his relationship and people have to make it worse. Come on now.
 

Principate

Saint Titanfall
Wait, So the response from people is to dig up a thread the OP made bout a year or so ago talking about his sexual parts and his worries. The response to that is for all of you to just post "#REKT #DAMN, 'Ohh now we know why she left you weren't good enough' " shit like that that.

Wtf is wrong with some of you?

Pretty much, I don't think most people here actually care about the dude they just want some entertainment.

Sad situation all around.
 

ItIsOkBro

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well see, it sounds like (and someone correct me if i'm wrong) op's girlfriend got back together with op, and met 'guy', at pretty much the same time. in my opinion, that calls for a completely different reaction compared to if i was with a girl for 10 months straight and she started up with someone else.
 

Bboy AJ

My dog was murdered by a 3.5mm audio port and I will not rest until the standard is dead
Wait, So the response from people is to dig up a thread the OP made bout a year or so ago talking about his sexual parts and his worries. The response to that is for all of you to just post "#REKT #DAMN, 'Ohh now we know why she left you weren't good enough' " shit like that that.

Wtf is wrong with some of you?
Exactly. OP gets cheated on and GAF's reaction is to go through his post history and hold his insecurities against him. So fucked up. Yeah, he left out the kid but he wasn't going to screw with gf's job, I hope. He was just venting.
 

Zozz

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This fucking thread, wow it has turned into gold.

I hope you get better OP, nobody deserves that, just don't do anything you'll regret.
 

VanWinkle

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Wait, So the response from people is to dig up a thread the OP made bout a year or so ago talking about his sexual parts and his worries. The response to that is for some of you to just post "#REKT #DAMN, 'Ohh now we know why she left you weren't good enough' " shit like that that.

Wtf is wrong with some of you?

Very strange, indeed.
 

Anjelus_

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OH THANK GOD, the reasonable people are back in the thread. I missed you, reasonable people. Please, drive away the crazies.
 

dustyherb

Member
Exactly. OP gets cheated on and GAF's reaction is to go through his post history and hold his insecurities against him. So fucked up. Yeah, he left out the kid but he wasn't going to screw with gf's job, I hope. He was just venting.
Ya he never was going to screw with his gf's job. He even said so himself. He was venting and need to get this shit off his chest who can blame him. I've said worse when I've been treated like shit and mad beyond belief.
 

Tadaima

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Wait, So the response from people is to dig up a thread the OP made bout a year or so ago talking about his sexual parts and his worries. The response to that is for some of you to just post "#REKT #DAMN, 'Ohh now we know why she left you weren't good enough' " shit like that that.

Wtf is wrong with some of you?

A Mandrake post will really help fill in the gaps. Besides, the GIFs (which OP found humorous - likely what he needs right now) helped to mask the doubts that started around page 10 or so and return the thread to the topic at hand.
 

FuturusX

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Wait, So the response from people is to dig up a thread the OP made bout a year or so ago talking about his sexual parts and his worries. The response to that is for all of you to just post "#REKT #DAMN, 'Ohh now we know why she left you weren't good enough' " shit like that that.

Wtf is wrong with some of you?

To be fair...time and time again..GAF has proven itself to be no place to ask for objective relationship advice. You know the fable about the scorpion and the tortoise?..GAF is the scorpion...it will sting you without two fucks given, that's its nature. OP should know better.

Anyway if his story is true...then a few jibes on the net is the least of his problems...
 

Ties

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OH THANK GOD, the reasonable people are back in the thread. I missed you, reasonable people. Please, drive away the crazies.
the fact some people here want to make an example by being faux "detectives" just to get a laugh. its a completely inappropriate thread for that like
 

Kieli

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Wait, So the response from people is to dig up a thread the OP made bout a year or so ago talking about his sexual parts and his worries. The response to that is for some of you to just post "#REKT #DAMN, 'Ohh now we know why she left you weren't good enough' " shit like that that.

Wtf is wrong with some of you?

Par for the course. I don't expect any better.
 

kIdMuScLe

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she started working at a new job 4 months ago in a new field for her, so she is always excited talking about the things she learns every day and so on, but something clicked when she started talking about a guy she works with (The guy has one brother who also works with him)

So let's go 4 months back...

9/25/14
I broke up with my girlfriend for good yesterday.
I'll be honest... I didn't see a future with her.

Now let's go forward a few weeks from 9/25/14

10/10/14
asked a girl out and took her out to dinner, we had a great time and at the end of the night I went for the kiss and she rejected me.
We went out again and had another great time but I didn't go for the kiss because I didn't want to be shut down again (I actually said her this, in a funny way), she kissed me on the cheeks and we called a night

Reading more at the OP post let's see what he says...

But a few weeks later I notice they started talking on FB, Twitter, Whatsapp, pretty much everywhere. I never said anything to her but I noticed she was more possesive of her cellphone, she even changed her lock pattern (which I didn't knew) to a pin code and obviously that triggered something in me. What is she hiding? She knows I don't fuck around with other girls, I've told her several times my iPhone code and she can look at it whenever she wants.
I could sense she was hiding something.
At this point I let things be. That was 3 months ago.

So let's put this on a timeline, no?

Revoh breaks up on 9/25/14 (4 months ago from today) --> OP claims GF has new job and meets the new sausage around this time period according to OP.

On 10/10/14 (approx. 3 months ago from today) Revoh said he went out to a couple of dates but yet on the OP he claims that he doesn't fuck around with other girls plus her GF starts acting suspicious around this time period...

So from what i gather from all this is that OP broke up with her, she started a new job and met this new guy which she caught feels for, OP went out on dates but realized that he still had feels for GF he went back to her and laid out his feels to GF. GF probably felt sorry for OP and took OP back while still talking to the other guy. GF probably was waiting for the other guy to leave wife so she could finally end relationship with OP but OP found out first before the GF could tell OP that is over and she found a new man a while ago. Do i have everything correct right?
 

kehs

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Exactly. OP gets cheated on and GAF's reaction is to go through his post history and hold his insecurities against him. So fucked up. Yeah, he left out the kid but he wasn't going to screw with gf's job, I hope. He was just venting.

Yea he was, but "fuckedup gaf" pulled him from the brink.
 

Bboy AJ

My dog was murdered by a 3.5mm audio port and I will not rest until the standard is dead
the fact some people here want to make an example by being faux "detectives" just to get a laugh. its a completely inappropriate thread for that like
I like post history but then you see it being used in situations like this one and I want it disabled. OP, stay strong. And record the confrontation with gf for us.

Like this post above. Wtf. Are GAF posts some kind of deposition now?
 

akira28

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edit: oh she's a single mom? just drop her out of your life. girlfriend will forever be looking for a better man, even when she has one. that's just the way it go, sometimes. if you fucked up in the past, she's thinking about that kid and stability and making their lives easier and all that stuff...

But yo seriously. wreck dude's marriage. Completely. He married, gaming your girl, with his bro, and got his straws in everyone's kool-aid? fuck THAT dude.


edit: oh the kid is the married dudes? get the fuck out of here GAF. get the fuck. OUT. of here.
 

dustyherb

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Also the wife has every right to now what the husband was doing no matter what. Even if they have a kid it's no reason no to tell because you might "screw up the kids life" my parents got divorced because of this exact reason. My dad cheated on my mom and it would have been a hell of a lot better if she would have found out sooner. It's only going to hurt the kid more if they were to stay together and the husband keeps going off cheating and never learning a lesson.
 

karasu

Member
No fuck that. Fuck that guy. Destroy his marriage. He deserves it. He wrecked your shit, wreck his further.
 

SwampFox

Neo Member
Your girlfriend didn't emotionally cheat on you, she did more than that. If you didn't dump her, you would be a fool.
 

Ties

Banned
Also the wife has every right to now what the husband was doing no matter what. Even if they have a kid it's no reason no to tell because you might "screw up the kids life" my parents got divorced because of this exact reason. My dad cheated on my mom and it would have been a hell of a lot better if she would have found out sooner. It's only going to hurt the kid more if they were to stay together and the husband keeps going off cheating and never learning a lesson.
mmmhm and can you imagine if the child found out on his or her own devices

like smh
 

Hex

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So let's go 4 months back...

9/25/14


Now let's go forward a few weeks from 9/25/14

10/10/14


Reading more at the OP post let's see what he says...



So let's put this on a timeline, no?

Revoh breaks up on 9/25/14 (4 months ago from today) --> OP claims GF has new job and meets the new sausage around this time period according to OP.

On 10/10/14 (approx. 3 months ago from today) Revoh said he went out to a couple of dates but yet on the OP he claims that he doesn't fuck around with other girls plus her GF starts acting suspicious around this time period...

So from what i gather from all this is that OP broke up with her, she started a new job and met this new guy which she caught feels for, OP went out on dates but realized that he still had feels for GF he went back to her and laid out his feels to GF. GF probably felt sorry for OP and took OP back while still talking to the other guy. GF probably was waiting for the other guy to leave wife so she could finally end relationship with OP but OP found out first before the GF could tell OP that is over and she found a new man a while ago. Do i have everything correct right?

Evidence kind of points to getting back with her because apparently he kept getting shot down and getting the "there there" treatment.
But the rest could apply.
Just for clarity.
But if she was not fully into it she should have left it as it was and stayed away.
 

Bboy AJ

My dog was murdered by a 3.5mm audio port and I will not rest until the standard is dead
Thread either dies with OP as the hero, or lives long enough to make the OP the villain.
Best post in thread.

OP, please don't forget to record the confrontation. It might be happening now, in fact.
 
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