I must say, after the third or so area it wasn't an issue for me anymore. Maybe it will return, but the beginning seems to be the most unforgiving.
At first I sort of regret buying this as I just wrapped up BB and this felt pedestrian to it and even DaS1, but once I got used to DaS2 I think its really, really good. And i'm pretty much a Demon's Souls fanboy.
This game does quite a number on BB in a lot of regards actually. The PvP and summoning are a few. But also the framerate and load times. And the builds. BB only has like one build for Bloodtinge and Arcane. DaS2 is so much more diversive. And I heard there is respec.
I won't say this game is better than BB (its different), as BB is very raw like Demon's was which I love. But give Dark Souls 2 a proper chance. I am completely sucked in right now. But perhaps start with Dark Souls 1, its even better.