Need some help BCT. 
Let me preface by saying my girlfriends mother is a very loving woman that has raised a daughter I admire more than anyone I've encountered thus far in my life. If it weren't for this woman and by proxy her mother I wouldn't uphold some of the values in life I was shying away from before I met her. 
Anyways not to sound completely biased, but my girlfriends mom is a traditional helicopter parent. If she passed away she'd be trying to direct my girlfriends every move from the grave. When we first started seeing each other mom literally forbade my girlfriend from driving to see me (we live 40 minutes away from each other) and since she pays for and owns the car my girlfriend drives my girlfriend doesn't fight back because she's got school and work. My girlfriend kind of disobeyed moms wishes and came to see me, got her car taken away for a while and had to ride the bus to work and school for a month. They didn't talk and they made up on he condition that girlfriend never drives herself to see me and that a tracker be placed on her car (oh also the tracker monitors speed and she can't go above 65mph). There's a lot more to this story and how my girlfriend is treated by her mother but I just wanted you guys to understand what we're dealing with here. 
Now it's not secret that I've been unemployed and if anyone cares enough to notice I've mentioned moving in with my girl. I told my dad like the week I asked my girl to move in (very supportive, in fact we wouldn't have gotten the apartment If not for him). So everything is going perfect: apartment lined up, job lined up smooth sailing. *charlie Murphy voice* Wrong, wrong. Mom gets girlfriends credit card statement in he mail, opens it and sees that my girl has been helping me out here and there as well as noticing payments for a rental application. Shits currently blowing up in our face. Girlfriend wanted to tell mom about the move in this weekend even though we move in August first. Unfortunately this nuke went off ahead of schedule. Call it divine intervention or whatever but this is why I didn't want to tell mom about the move in at all.
Edit: btw we're both 24