So I just went on my girlfriends ipad....

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OP I am disappoint

Now you are back where you started, in an awkward stalemate.

You still have time to exact your revenge, post her picture here, GAF will do the rest.
 
Just stay calm. This isn't the worst thing in the world. If people expect their partner to be 100% loyal, not even flirtatious chat ever, then they're setting themselves up for disappointment.

Successful relationships aren't ones where these things don't happen. Successful relationships are ones where people acknowledge the issue, deal with it, move on, and make your relationship better.

If she isn't worth that kind of effort, then bail.
 
D6AMIA6N said:
OP I am disappoint

Now you are back where you started, in an awkward stalemate.

You still have time to exact your revenge, post her picture here, GAF will do the rest.
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Whether she is wrong or not, that isn't good advice. Heck, she finds out and he can be brought to court
 
17 Seconds said:
well adjusted adults don't need screenshots of dicks to prove who they should be friends with.
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But it doesn't hoit!

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Man, this is some rough shit. Sorry to hear it, OP. I think you could have handled that last exchange a bit better, though. Still, now that the cat's out of the bag, time to kick her out. You're not the one that should be leaving.
 
I genuinely wonder if right now he's in the middle of an argument, and all the while he's thinking that the top of his list of things to do is to update GAF.
 
Zukuu said:
I already commented on that. "Come out and talk if you value our relationship or I will go and don't come back". If she doesn't want to talk, fine - then you can leave all you want. YOU tried to talk about it - like an adult.
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See, this is where I disagree, but that was sort of my point. Adults are fucking complicated. Giving the OP a hard time because you or me would handle it differently isn't really helping anyone.

From my perspective, he doesn't own her any more of his precious time, especially after what is going down right now, but maybe I am wrong as well, it's just that in such cases at least from my experiences (not just personal, but from other people obviously), the victim will get blamed really quickly by the perpetrator a lot of times.

Obviously OP didn't follow anyones advice as the reaction was neither being adult, or playing it cool.
 
MarkMclovin said:
OP, I said she might try to flip it on you.

It's a sad indication that she has panicked due to fucking up and she doesn't know how yet, hence why she ran into the bathroom with the iPAD.

Don't get angry or do anything stupid. Remain calm. Don't even shout. Don;t bother trying to get any answers because all you'll try to do, is find a way to stay in this relationship.

The relationship is over. I doubt she has much respect for you.

Sleep as best as you can in your room tonight, tell her she can stay but she aint sleeping with you. IF you talk tonight, or tomorrow (call in sick) talk about moving out and how are you going to sort the flat.

Call some friends, leave facebook alone. Call your parents.
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For real though take this advice. Don't try to talk to her while she's in there. Don't even bother knocking on the door. Just go about your business. Either play some PS4 or pack some stuff. Let her have to sheepishly come out of there wondering if you're still even there like a child that just realized how dumb their tantrum looked.
 
Brazil said:
Can't get over how funny it is to have a 1300 posts-thread filled with advice only for it to end with "fancy seeing some dicks".
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Yea, I have to admit, despite trying to give reasonable responses earlier, now I'm just sitting back and laughing at how it devolved so quickly.
 
After the dust is settled OP and you guys are officially done, link her cheating ass this thread. And please ignore the obvious dumb advice of posting her pic here. You already are the better human in this situation so I trust you'll handle your shit properly.
 
TheOfficeMut said:
...okay, so closure is from the onset of the initial act for you. That's fine.

That's not true for some others. Why take what I said and act like I made a sweeping generalization for how everyone receives closure? Because never did I suggest that everyone gets over everything in the same manner.

Also, to expand and reiterate what I already said, if I have looming questions that are eating at me, whether or not my significant other hurt me, then that is quite literally the opposite of having closure. You may not have questions after your girlfriend cheats on you, but I most likely would. I may emotionally check out of the relationship and be done with it, but I can't control my curiosity. I would probably still have questions that I'd want answers to.
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This was my first response to you so maybe you have me confused with the guy you called a prick? I was just explaining why I react the way I do. I'm not saying I wouldn't have the same thoughts as you (bolded), because I certainly would, and have. I'm just saying I now know, at least for me, I'm not going to get any information from them that would make me feel better no matter what they say, so I choose not to keep torturing myself trying. (Especially when it's someone who's been dishonest and probably on the defensive about being questioned after already being busted)

Brazil said:
Can't get over how funny it is to have a 1300 posts-thread filled with advice only for it to end with "fancy seeing some dicks".
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lmao To be fair he held out way longer than most of us would have

I don't really expect an update for a while now since it's pretty much on now
 
MrHoot said:
I feel like we're all Speedwagon in this thread, giving dramatic exclamations about what is happening

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GOOD PLAN, OCD GUY!
BY SNEAKING A PICTURE OF THE DICK INTO HER BATHROOM, SHE'LL HAVE NO OTHER OPTION BUT TO ADMIT HER MISTAKES
SHE'LL NEVER SEE IT COMING
except maybe after you leave
 
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