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[Klocker]

Ok well I was trying to talk to her through the locked bathroom door, she was ignoring me, she came out of the bathroom pushed me out of the way told me to "leave her alone" and has gone out.

So not much I can really do at this stage. Why is it that I now feel like I've done something wrong.

She obviously needs time to come up with a story. But if I was innocent I'd explain it.

Nothing more said

Of course she is not innocent caught her red handed, dick in hand... so she's embarrassed that you caught her, she's guilty, now decide if you're following through on kicking her to curb

 

[psynergylover]

Send back a picture of your cock.

"Check Mate"

I actually think this is a good idea.

 

[Kaako]

I respect the avy change, OCD. Good to have a sense of humor in the midst of this fucking chaos.

 

[Username1198]

He should have just told her:

I don't want to feel like a piece of meat, dooz it sry

But he has to be the whiskey talking, not a boner pic

 

[TAJ]

From the McDonalds burger idea submission thread...
https://postimage.org/app.php

 

[OnionPowder]

God damn you're cute OP

 

[mkenyon]

For an unmarried/no kids couple it is. 4 years. Enough time was wasted with someone you found out couldn't be trusted. Don't waste anymore time trying to fix it with someone like that and move on.

Humans are fallible. If you expect someone to take care of you always and never ever let you down, your life is going to suck.

Trust isn't erased because of a mistake.

 

[johancruijff]

"Fancy seeing some more pictures of people's dicks" is probably the most british way to start a fight

 

[BannedEpisode]

There's pictures of her (and me) on these forums.

I'm surprised detective gaf hasn't already found them on here http://www.neogaf.com/forum/showthread.php?t=1072682

And found my oled and photoshopped a dick on it http://www.neogaf.com/forum/showpost.php?p=164196907&postcount=816

Ok well I was trying to talk to her through the locked bathroom door, she was ignoring me, she came out of the bathroom pushed me out of the way told me to "leave her alone" and has gone out.

So not much I can really do at this stage. Why is it that I now feel like I've done something wrong.

She obviously needs time to come up with a story. But if I was innocent I'd explain it.

Nothing more said

You did nothing wrong, she is going to try to make this into being your fault.

 

[Addi]

OP, I've drawn you a new avatar.

FTFY

 

[Jonneh3003]

There's pictures of her (and me) on these forums.

I'm surprised detective gaf hasn't already found them on here http://www.neogaf.com/forum/showthread.php?t=1072682

And found my oled and photoshopped a dick on it http://www.neogaf.com/forum/showpost.php?p=164196907&postcount=816

Ok well I was trying to talk to her through the locked bathroom door, she was ignoring me, she came out of the bathroom pushed me out of the way told me to "leave her alone" and has gone out.

So not much I can really do at this stage. Why is it that I now feel like I've done something wrong.

She obviously needs time to come up with a story. But if I was innocent I'd explain it.

Nothing more said

Don't take any blame for this

 

[stan423321]

Get ready, she's calling for back up. She ain't coming back alone

Sounds like it. OCD, do you have anyone to keep you company?

 

[Hero_of_the_Day]

I can't decide if OP should pack up and leave now, or if she won't be coming back, so he should just stay.

 

[TalonJH]

i don't understand why people keep bringing this up. why does he need proof? they aren't getting a divorce, he doesn't need evidence for anything.

Because she is going to deny it and blame everything on him. Every person that they have in common is going ask what happened and while you may agree to tell everyone that "it just didn't work out", when someone pries further, she is going to make you out to be the bad guy in some way and in the wrong situation, that can cost you friendships and opportunities.

It doesn't matter if the person is gay, straight, male or female, they are not going to fess up to it and it will all be your fault.

He should keep the copy at least til everything settles even if he never shows it to her.

 

[Ishida]

Why is it that I now feel like I've done something wrong

NO NO NO NO NO NO.

Dude! Don't let her play you like that! This is how you earn a ticket into a full-paid guilt trip.

 

[hughesta]

OCD Guy, this is not your fault. Do not blame yourself. Don't fall for whatever she tells you when she comes back. If you have any friends you can stay with tonight, I'd suggest packing several of your things and going there, though I understand it's late and that may not be feasible.

 

[Idiot]

Honestly dude, you should ignore basically all the advice in here that comes off with "having a plan" and just talk to her honestly. Tell her what happened, what you saw, and ask her to explain yourself. Be an adult about it.

Too late for that, fam. We're in the shit, boys.

 

[BlueTsunami]

Get the fucknout OP, she obviously communicated with the new dick. Get your shit in order. She doesn't want things worked out.

 

[Mr Git]

OP's eventual response is a good example of why some of the advice in this thread just doesn't work - even for someone who's clearly calm and mature about it, emotions just get the better of us. But OP needs more credit for coming out with a zinger in this state. Proud OP.

 

[BokehKing]

She probably went to his house, change the locks.

 

[Anung]

There's pictures of her (and me) on these forums.

I'm surprised detective gaf hasn't already found them on here http://www.neogaf.com/forum/showthread.php?t=1072682

And found my oled and photoshopped a dick on it http://www.neogaf.com/forum/showpost.php?p=164196907&postcount=816

Ok well I was trying to talk to her through the locked bathroom door, she was ignoring me, she came out of the bathroom pushed me out of the way told me to "leave her alone" and has gone out.

So not much I can really do at this stage. Why is it that I now feel like I've done something wrong.

She obviously needs time to come up with a story. But if I was innocent I'd explain it.

Nothing more said

Don't take any bullshit or spin she tries to put on you. You've done nothing wrong except wanting some explanation.

 

[Askherserenity]

Where do you think she went OP?

I would change the locks.

 

[FlashbladeGAF]

Get out now!

She is being way to sketch right now.

And the fact that she isn't even feeling guilty over it makes me feel this girl is "shady."

Like not even one "sorry baby"

 

[ishibear]

FTFY

STAHP AHAHAHAHA

 

[Zukuu]

OP you tried. That's all you could do. She is a 100% at fault. You have done nothing wrong.
Now you are free to go to leave, if you want to. I hope she realized what is at stake here.

Also, you are a handsome dude, so I'm certain you also have a handsome dick. Her loss.

 

[CartridgeBlower]

Man, just bounce now that she basically ignored you. Take your dignity while you still can and leave. Don't wallow in it or keep waiting to talk more about it with her. Leave and let her come to you, if she doesn't, then that's that.

 

[PodcastFips]

There's pictures of her (and me) on these forums.

I'm surprised detective gaf hasn't already found them on here http://www.neogaf.com/forum/showthread.php?t=1072682

And found my oled and photoshopped a dick on it http://www.neogaf.com/forum/showpost.php?p=164196907&postcount=816

Ok well I was trying to talk to her through the locked bathroom door, she was ignoring me, she came out of the bathroom pushed me out of the way told me to "leave her alone" and has gone out.

So not much I can really do at this stage. Why is it that I now feel like I've done something wrong.

She obviously needs time to come up with a story. But if I was innocent I'd explain it.

Nothing more said

What did you try to tell her?

 

[Zoe]

Start packing now. Don't give her a chance to mess with your stuff.

 

[Catvoca]

Sounds like it. OCD, do you have anyone to keep you company?

This is good advice, you're probably better off not being alone now (not that gaf isn't great company of course lol).

 

[Altazor]

Ok well I was trying to talk to her through the locked bathroom door, she was ignoring me, she came out of the bathroom pushed me out of the way told me to "leave her alone" and has gone out.

So not much I can really do at this stage. Why is it that I now feel like I've done something wrong.

She obviously needs time to come up with a story. But if I was innocent I'd explain it.

Nothing more said

she's trying to guilt-trip you. Fuck that - you've done nothing wrong. It's not your fault.

 

[kai3345]

There's pictures of her (and me) on these forums.

I'm surprised detective gaf hasn't already found them on here http://www.neogaf.com/forum/showthread.php?t=1072682

And found my oled and photoshopped a dick on it http://www.neogaf.com/forum/showpost.php?p=164196907&postcount=816

Ok well I was trying to talk to her through the locked bathroom door, she was ignoring me, she came out of the bathroom pushed me out of the way told me to "leave her alone" and has gone out.

So not much I can really do at this stage. Why is it that I now feel like I've done something wrong.

She obviously needs time to come up with a story. But if I was innocent I'd explain it.

Nothing more said

Grab your shit and bounce dude

 

[Username1198]

Man, just bounce. Take your dignity while you still can and leave.

Put up wallpapers of dicks first

Make sure you use glitter as well to really accentuate the curves of the male genetalia

 

[cilonen]

There's pictures of her (and me) on these forums.

I'm surprised detective gaf hasn't already found them on here http://www.neogaf.com/forum/showthread.php?t=1072682

And found my oled and photoshopped a dick on it http://www.neogaf.com/forum/showpost.php?p=164196907&postcount=816

Ok well I was trying to talk to her through the locked bathroom door, she was ignoring me, she came out of the bathroom pushed me out of the way told me to "leave her alone" and has gone out.

So not much I can really do at this stage. Why is it that I now feel like I've done something wrong.

She obviously needs time to come up with a story. But if I was innocent I'd explain it.

Nothing more said

Do you have enough room in your car to get the valuables out and to your parents place?

 

[PrivateWHudson]

I can't decide if OP should pack up and leave now, or if she won't be coming back, so he should just stay.

He should have left. Now she's going to move out and stick him with the full rent payment. She won't give a fuck about the lease.

 

[Sho_Nuff82]

Holy shit at how this went down.

Dying laughing that people thought she was just going to calmly chat this out after being confronted. She probably tried to flush that thing down the drain.

Edit: damn she left? Undoubtedly straight to this dude's house. She ain't coming back guys.

Tell your landlord immediately what went down so he can start the subletting process. If they're cool they'll understand, this type of thing happens all the time.

 

[MrHoot]

I feel like i'm with friends watching a horror movie

JUST LEAVE THE ROOM FAM, GET OUT. SHE GON' GETCHU

 

[Deaf Spacker]

Tell her to fuck off, you don't need this shit.

 

[kmax]

There's pictures of her (and me) on these forums.

I'm surprised detective gaf hasn't already found them on here http://www.neogaf.com/forum/showthread.php?t=1072682

And found my oled and photoshopped a dick on it http://www.neogaf.com/forum/showpost.php?p=164196907&postcount=816

Ok well I was trying to talk to her through the locked bathroom door, she was ignoring me, she came out of the bathroom pushed me out of the way told me to "leave her alone" and has gone out.

So not much I can really do at this stage. Why is it that I now feel like I've done something wrong.

She obviously needs time to come up with a story. But if I was innocent I'd explain it.

Nothing more said

Rest easy. She was the one that fancied other people's dicks. The blame is entirely on her.

love that avatar change, though.

 

[Slayer-33]

She's a pos, tell her to own up to her bullshit. Cheating pos!

Make it so that you leave tomorrow or something.

If she wants to give you shit and still deny it threaten her that you'll send her bullshit to her family and friends to embarrass the shit outta her. Don't put up with her childish bullshit. I wouldn't put up with her little dramatic shit for a second.

 

[siddhu33]

OP, you need to:

Of the relationship. This happened to a friend of mine, he saw texts of his multiple year GF flirting heavily with some dude at her work, he still lived with her as he tried to negotiate a new lease (not easy), and then got the fuck out. You need to do the same as soon as possible.

 

[BibiMaghoo]

There's pictures of her (and me) on these forums.

I'm surprised detective gaf hasn't already found them on here http://www.neogaf.com/forum/showthread.php?t=1072682

And found my oled and photoshopped a dick on it http://www.neogaf.com/forum/showpost.php?p=164196907&postcount=816

Ok well I was trying to talk to her through the locked bathroom door, she was ignoring me, she came out of the bathroom pushed me out of the way told me to "leave her alone" and has gone out.

So not much I can really do at this stage. Why is it that I now feel like I've done something wrong.

She obviously needs time to come up with a story. But if I was innocent I'd explain it.

Nothing more said

Bang on, she only has running away as a defense. Pack your shit man, you are done here. Don't feel bad at all.

 

[Pancake Mix]

OP, grab your shit and leave now before she comes back, grabs her stuff, and sticks you with 100 percent of the lease by running away.

You did nothing wrong.

 

[Zombie James]

There's pictures of her (and me) on these forums.

I'm surprised detective gaf hasn't already found them on here http://www.neogaf.com/forum/showthread.php?t=1072682

And found my oled and photoshopped a dick on it http://www.neogaf.com/forum/showpost.php?p=164196907&postcount=816

Ok well I was trying to talk to her through the locked bathroom door, she was ignoring me, she came out of the bathroom pushed me out of the way told me to "leave her alone" and has gone out.

So not much I can really do at this stage. Why is it that I now feel like I've done something wrong.

She obviously needs time to come up with a story. But if I was innocent I'd explain it.

Nothing more said

You've done nothing wrong. Pack up her stuff and leave them outside the door. She's the one who fucked up, not you.

 

[Spoiled Milk]

There's pictures of her (and me) on these forums.

I'm surprised detective gaf hasn't already found them on here http://www.neogaf.com/forum/showthread.php?t=1072682

And found my oled and photoshopped a dick on it http://www.neogaf.com/forum/showpost.php?p=164196907&postcount=816

Ok well I was trying to talk to her through the locked bathroom door, she was ignoring me, she came out of the bathroom pushed me out of the way told me to "leave her alone" and has gone out.

So not much I can really do at this stage. Why is it that I now feel like I've done something wrong.

She obviously needs time to come up with a story. But if I was innocent I'd explain it.

Nothing more said

Holy shit op, is your name Kane?

 

[dealer-]

FTFY

Perfect.

Try and get a good sleep OP and cover that OLED with bubble wrap. Sort your shit out with a clear head tomorrow.

 

[kai3345]

she's coming back with dick pic boy in tow to trash your shit or something

leave

 

[BeforeU]

Talk to her about it? lol dont overreact to things.

 

[MonkeyMan29]

What did you try to say to her, while she was in the bathroom?

 

[Zukuu]

FTFY

Hahahahaha, I almost spilled my coke. Perfect.

 

[wenis]

She's about to do something OP. Start packing like yesterday, seriously. Maybe even call the Police if she's had the penchant for the dramatics in her life. You'll want witnesses. I've seen these signs before.