So I just went on my girlfriends ipad....

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OCD Guy said:
They're Essex girls, so you can probably imagine the accent.

I don't talk like that, I've got more of a London accent (not posh).

When they talk they're like "You alright babe *mwah*" (say that in the Essex accent and you can imagine how annoying it is)
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Oh..now I'm reading your texts with a brit accent...

Is a chav like the UK trailer trash of America or someone from Baston?
 
OCD Guy said:
I'd love to but it's actually impossible.

It's currently 11:30pm here, and I've got nowhere to go, and no way of transporting my stuff. I drive a tiny 2 seater, so couldn't even fit my clothes in there, let alone furniture, pc, consoles etc
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Have you taken pictures of everything valuable? Also, make sure to take screen shots of texts & such.
 
Sorry mate.

You are in a tough situation, can you move back with your folks or some friends for the next 6 months?

Paying for the half the rent for six months is not ideal, but would be worth it to get out of this relationship.
 
OCD Guy said:
They're Essex girls, so you can probably imagine the accent.

I don't talk like that, I've got more of a London accent (not posh).

When they talk they're like "You alright babe *mwah*" (say that in the Essex accent and you can imagine how annoying it is)
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A cheater and a chav. You lucked out bro.

Be free.
 
OK, thanks to all the recap posts, it sounds like your girlfriend really didn't expect to be caught flirting with some other guy and acted accordingly when you passively aggressively informed her. I understand that's gotta hurt, and you're feeling a bunch of things right now. But dude, listen-- don't just up and leave like ReactiveGAF is prodding you to. Talk. Talktalktalktalk talk. Even if she doesn't want to, at least put in some effort unless or until she shuts you down. Ask her what she wants, and tell her what you want. Make a decision from there.

God, I can't believe I'm adding even more posts to this thread.
 
i knew she got backup.

I mean it was very obvious, but i still called it first :p

Don't let them get you OP. Call a friend if needed. (Although its going to be akward to explain that you took advice from strangers in the internet up until now )
 
OCD Guy said:
Charming text I have just received from her friend.

So no prizes for guessing where she is.
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Her and her friends sound delightful. How have you been with her for 4 years? It's not just the cheating (again, not saying it's ok but it can be worked through) it's everything you've said. She storms off in the bathroom when you confront her? She then goes to her friend's place and has her send you absurd (borderline intelligible) texts? You're afraid of property damage? Hope you can look back and feel relief one day. Bullet dodged.
 
Is this the part where a posse shows up at the OP's door? Has the girl left the bathroom yet? OP, do you have a posse of your own? Because as a poster said a couple pages back, you're gonna need some support one way or another.
 
OCD Guy said:
I'd love to but it's actually impossible.

It's currently 11:30pm here, and I've got nowhere to go, and no way of transporting my stuff. I drive a tiny 2 seater, so couldn't even fit my clothes in there, let alone furniture, pc, consoles etc
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I'm sure there are some UK gaffers reading this thread. Help him out guys!
 
OCD Guy said:
I'd love to but it's actually impossible.

It's currently 11:30pm here, and I've got nowhere to go, and no way of transporting my stuff. I drive a tiny 2 seater, so couldn't even fit my clothes in there, let alone furniture, pc, consoles etc
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Of course you can't take furniture, and you probably can't fit your TV in there, but game consoles? I don't see how you can't stash it in your boot for safekeeping.

But in case the suggestion was lost in the thread (man, is it moving fast), get photos of everything now in case property damage happens when she comes back.
 
OCD Guy said:
This is her mate that lives locally (not whatsapp bike dick)

She's really loud and mouthy (not sure if you use that description in America). I'm not even going to reply to it.
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So presumably she's over there to play the victim card to someone who is willing to accept her side of the story as gospel. Which reinforces the mindset she wants to be in, and presumably she'll try and surround herself with those kinds of people. She'll basically paint you as something you're not, until she starts actually believing it herself.
 
OCD Guy said:
I'd love to but it's actually impossible.

It's currently 11:30pm here, and I've got nowhere to go, and no way of transporting my stuff. I drive a tiny 2 seater, so couldn't even fit my clothes in there, let alone furniture, pc, consoles etc
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Any good friends nearby with a bigger car or a van perhaps?
 
OCD Guy said:
I'd love to but it's actually impossible.

It's currently 11:30pm here, and I've got nowhere to go, and no way of transporting my stuff. I drive a tiny 2 seater, so couldn't even fit my clothes in there, let alone furniture, pc, consoles etc
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Well take what you can. Photograph what you can. Documents maybe if there's room. Drive somewhere. Clear your thoughts. Then just camp out in your car till the morrow. The only reasonable thing to do here. You can't stay there, you said so yourself.
 
OCD Guy said:
I'd love to but it's actually impossible.

It's currently 11:30pm here, and I've got nowhere to go, and no way of transporting my stuff. I drive a tiny 2 seater, so couldn't even fit my clothes in there, let alone furniture, pc, consoles etc
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I'm in Acton, I could drive over with my saloon. Be there in half an hour?

(I'm not actually going to do this, I need to go to bed, but it's the thought that counts)

Oh well, hopefully, she will stay at the friend's, go straight to work, you can take the day off, hire a streetvan and GTFO.
 
OCD Guy said:
I'd love to but it's actually impossible.

It's currently 11:30pm here, and I've got nowhere to go, and no way of transporting my stuff. I drive a tiny 2 seater, so couldn't even fit my clothes in there, let alone furniture, pc, consoles etc
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Then call the authorities if you can and see if they can help keep your shit safe
 
OCD Guy said:
I'd love to but it's actually impossible.

It's currently 11:30pm here, and I've got nowhere to go, and no way of transporting my stuff. I drive a tiny 2 seater, so couldn't even fit my clothes in there, let alone furniture, pc, consoles etc
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if you are lucky you have a 6 months break clause in your lease, if you dont maybe they will make allowances as its not like you have been in the flat a month.
 
SchrodingerC said:
Wait, she actually ran off to the strange dick? What a bitchhhhh.
Time to officially cut ties with her, OP.
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No she's with her friend locally.

The reason I think this is because her friend that lives down the road ( a few blocks) is the one that text me.

She's got a loud mouth on her, and always interferes though. I don't really like her, but have always tolerated her because she's her friend.

But she's got no respect, like I ask people to take shoes off, she never would, and she'd do things like touch my tv (yeah first world problems) but I don't want paw prints on it, there's no reason to touch it.

And when she'd stay round the white sheets would be brown the next day.
 
OCD Guy said:
I'd love to but it's actually impossible.

It's currently 11:30pm here, and I've got nowhere to go, and no way of transporting my stuff. I drive a tiny 2 seater, so couldn't even fit my clothes in there, let alone furniture, pc, consoles etc
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Can't you rent a U-Haul truck or something and throw all your stuff in there? You'd have to wait until the morning, but still.

maxiell said:
Why should OP move his stuff? She should leave.
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"You wanna fuck with my stuff? Then I'll fuck with your stuff!" *breaks everything*
 
OCD Guy said:
They're Essex girls, so you can probably imagine the accent.

I don't talk like that, I've got more of a London accent (not posh).

When they talk they're like "You alright babe *mwah*" (say that in the Essex accent and you can imagine how annoying it is)
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I know EXACTLY what you mean. You're so well rid. Crack open a beer or similar and revel in your unlucky lucky escape.

Maybe you should look to move out soon, I don't know. But I wouldn't agree with people saying get out now. It's late and you've had a shitty day so rest first.
 
OCD Guy said:
Charming text I have just received from her friend.

So no prizes for guessing where she is.
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OCD Guy said:
They're Essex girls, so you can probably imagine the accent.

I don't talk like that, I've got more of a London accent (not posh).

When they talk they're like "You alright babe *mwah*" (say that in the Essex accent and you can imagine how annoying it is)
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Essex girl. You should have specified earlier.

Nothing worth salvaging, move on. Probably vote Leaver as well.
 
OCD Guy said:
No she's with her friend locally.

The reason I think this is because her friend that lives down the road ( a few blocks) is the one that text me.

She's got a loud mouth on her, and always interferes though. I don't really like her, but have always tolerated her because she's her friend.

But she's got no respect, like I ask people to take shoes off, she never would, and she'd do things like touch my tv (yeah first world problems) but I don't want paw prints on it, there's no reason to touch it.

And when she'd stay round the white sheets would be brown the next day.
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She was probably encouraging your GF btw

Single girls (I'm assuming she is) love nothing more than stirring shit between their friends and their boyfriends
 
OCD Guy said:
No she's with her friend locally.

The reason I think this is because her friend that lives down the road ( a few blocks) is the one that text me.

She's got a loud mouth on her, and always interferes though. I don't really like her, but have always tolerated her because she's her friend.

But she's got no respect, like I ask people to take shoes off, she never would, and she'd do things like touch my tv (yeah first world problems) but I don't want paw prints on it, there's no reason to touch it.

And when she'd stay round the white sheets would be brown the next day.
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Wait...why are the sheets brown?!
 
MrToughPants said:
Oh..now I'm reading your texts with a brit accent...

Is a chav like the UK trailer trash of America or someone from Baston?
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Chav is British for "scary wannabe-gangsta working class person". She's an Essex girl, though, which would be somewhat similar to a stereotypical Valley girl.
 
OCD Guy said:
I'd love to but it's actually impossible.

It's currently 11:30pm here, and I've got nowhere to go, and no way of transporting my stuff. I drive a tiny 2 seater, so couldn't even fit my clothes in there, let alone furniture, pc, consoles etc
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You might want to take off of work tomorrow to deal with all of this.
 
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