So you don't care if your girlfriend cheats on you? I mean good for you if true but that is a minority opinion and takes some big logical leaps...
I dont see it as cheating or not cheating. I just see it for what it is, I don't put a lot of emphasis on it. I think people are really missing the deep rooted reasons as to why you, I or anyone feels the way they do beyond "it's my feeling"
I am not trying to ruffle any feathers here for sure and I am simply stating anyone can do as they want (leave, stay, cheat, not cheat) and that is fine for me. Your thoughts are powerful and I too have my thoughts that I have and feeling but a lot of them I have changed over the years.. I'm sure I would still have initial reactions to a cheater or something but I'd soon tone those down an not worry about it to be fair.
So yes, I would have the same initial feeling as a lot of you but I'd lose it eventually.
I use to be super obessive over people lying and not wanting people to lie to me, being honest and simple to people in the idea that I would get that back. Over time I noticed almost every person lies and has deep rooted thoughts, I just changed my feeling over the years to not caring
The idea I got after thinking and seeing it over the last 12 or so years is that people are very rotobitc and predictable. I stated being able to understand people from their emotions, their smile or non smiles. I can guess some of the things of how people grow up (loud parent, strong bonds, weak bonds etc)
So, I sort of got my self taught psychological things going on that I sometimes poke into these threads and one of the reasons I delete 80 percent of my replies before I even enter them in these threads, cause I simply get people are going to simply stay in tune wit what they feel.