So I just went on my girlfriends ipad....

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Last I checked OP was waiting on his parents to start moving his stuff out, has he started moving out?

Probably still in process. I can imagine shit hitting the fan if his ex and her mate Vicki Pollard turn up during the packing/moving. Fingers crossed for the guy.
 
He said a few pages back that he keeps receipts for everything.

Remember "OCD Guy".



No. But similarly....he did make this bitch famous.

so, unless there's some shitty law that makes him fork over his possessions, it sounds like he's home free

Take all his furniture and belongings (bed, tv, couches, the all important PS4, PC?), get off the lease (how does he do this, how much would he have to pay to cut clean?), and stay with his parents?

Also, no shame in staying with your parents OP. Not sure why you would consider that to be a "pussy" thing.

he even manages to avoid the trap of his gf inviting her bitch ass friend who seems incredibly violent and dangerous. I absolutely love that he didnt give in to this person and simply ignored them.

I really hope OP doesnt fuck anything up. I wonder if he can get into trouble for locking his gf out, but it sounds like having her friend there is a good cause to not let her in.

Should OP be recording these scenarios? I mean, I can see him getting in trouble for not letting her in, but a threatening and mouthy friend like that seems good justification to keep her out. His ex-gf is such a coward.
 
Threads like these remind me it's not so bad that I'm single.

Jeez. Rough stuff all around.
I don't know man, reading some of the stuff in this thread makes me wonder why some people would date these psychos. Seems so absurd to me reading how so many people almost seem afraid of their crazy girls friends. Guess try not to date crazy chick's.
 
Well don't feel bad I found a secret cell phone with the screen broken, and downloaded the files to my computer, of my husband getting pounded by random guys (this was before our wedding last August) but I know he has been cheating on me like the whole time.

So good luck to you!

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Guess try not to date crazy chick's.

That's everyone's objective, but it's a matter of how deep things get before you figure it out. Same goes for girls dating crazy guys too, I'd guess.

Getting out unscathed has a lot to do with how far along it gets before it's all out in the open.
 
I followed this thread all day yesterday and it kept me very entertained. I feel for sure for the OP. That is just shitty, sorry man.
I went home last night and told my wife all about it and showed her the funny comments and memes and even that video someone made. fast forward to this morning, I was making my lunch and she was getting ready in the bathroom. I went to tell her bye and give her a kiss. I commented on her dress she was wearing and how good she looked. she looked at me and said "Well I fancy a dick today."
I almost lost it. That's why I love my wife.

It's a double bluff, my dude. Be afraid.
 
Any updates OP? I'm so invested in this I feel like I'm OP.
Probably busy packing up his stuff. His parents are at his place now, I assume.

Shit, anything happen in the past 8 hours?
His ex and her friend showed up at his place at 11am and since the friend was being an obnoxious loudmouth he was only willing to let the ex in. They waited outside for 30mins and left. Last we heard his parents were arriving shortly (should be there now) to help him pack up and leave.
 
Probably busy packing up his stuff. His parents are at his place now, I assume.


His ex and her friend showed up at his place at 11am and since the friend was being an obnoxious loudmouth he was only willing to let the ex in. They waited outside for 30mins and left. Last we heard his parents were arriving shortly (should be there now) to help him pack up and leave.

Women like this piss me off. You fucked up, have the decency to at least take responsibility. At this point, I would not waste a single breath trying to do anything for her. Fuck her over with the lease, take anything I want from the apartment, etc. Fuck her.
 
Women like this piss me off. You fucked up, have the decency to at least take responsibility. At this point, I would not waste a single breath trying to do anything for her. Fuck her over with the lease, take anything I want from the apartment, etc. Fuck her.

Yep, total cunt move. At least OP is better off without her.
 
Fucking whoa. What a thread. I've been trying to get through it since yesterday. Some FUCKED up stories in here man. Chin up OCD, life goes on and you seem to be taking it well so cheers to you!
 
The lease is where things can get ugly, if she doesn't care about her credit and stops paying it will fuck the OP over pretty bad
 
Ok so things didn't go the way I thought they would. A very brief summary.

I didn't have anything packed as I was waiting for parents to turn up, once they did, they were asking me how I was etc, and if I was sure I wanted to do this, while we're sitting down talking my ex turned up with her friend in tears.

My mum (or mom for you guys) is quite understanding, so she starts conversating with her to try and find out what's wrong.

She turned up after work and I locked her out last night so she had nowhere to go, I didn't tell her why I locked her out, I've been really distant with her and it's because I've been seeing people behind her back and I've not been nice to her at all, she just can't deal with it anymore, so she want's to grab her stuff and leave.

I'm listening to all this in disbelief, how she can talk this much crap with a straight face, let alone doing it with fake ass tears rolling down her face is something else. Her friend with her arm round her being quiet as a mouse is the icing on the cake.

The conversation moves onto the flat, and obviously the tenancy agreement, so while everyone's in the same room a call is made to the estate agents (or letting agents) to see the best way forward. After speaking to the landlord they're able to do an assignment, this is where they can basically assign the tenancy to me, all that's needed is a deed of assignment which my ex would need to sign, and obviously permission from the landlord.

Long story short but as there's not too long on the agreement my mum will cover the half that my ex was paying, and I'll be staying here for now.

There's obviously paperwork that needs to be done, and I'm hoping that my ex will still be co-operative once things are in motion.

She's grabbed her clothes and the dog and gone to her friends house. I didn't make any objections about the dog, as I didn't want to start something, when this might actually be the smoothest outcome for now. We paid half for the dog, but she always viewed her as more her's. Carrying him in a bag etc.
 
Whelp, just checking in after yesterday's activity. Can someone, anyone just reply with a post # so that I can catch up? If not, I'll just start plodding backwards from here.
 
Dude. I feel like I could've written this. My ex stated it was for attention. She enjoyed the attention she was getting from the guy...(and then she went to the Dominican republic on valentine's weekend and had sex with him) Once trust is broken, I think the only way to make it work is if the person who cheated is VERY OPEN about their life. It also means you gotta work with them. I stayed with her afterwards for 3 months. It was so stressful on me and I couldn't sleep because I couldn't get over what happened.

But through my experience I find that if there's one event of cheating or E-cheating...then likely there are plenty more. The other cheating events are just waiting to be concealed.

Gdamn, wtf is wrong is with people? Going all the way to Dominican Republic to fuck some guy while she's with you? And on Valentines?! If that isn't insane, I don't know what is

Sometimes I wonder whether my gf would do some shit like that
 
Ok so things didn't go the way I thought they would. A very brief summary.

I didn't have anything packed as I was waiting for parents to turn up, once they did, they were asking me how I was etc, and if I was sure I wanted to do this, while we're sitting down talking my ex turned up with her friend in tears.

My mum (or mom for you guys) is quite understanding, so she starts conversating with her to try and find out what's wrong.

She turned up after work and I locked her out last night so she had nowhere to go, I didn't tell her why I locked her out, I've been really distant with her and it's because I've been seeing people behind her back and I've not been nice to her at all, she just can't deal with it anymore, so she want's to grab her stuff and leave.

I'm listening to all this in disbelief, how she can talk this much crap with a straight face, let alone doing it with fake ass tears rolling down her face is something else. Her friend with her arm round her being quiet as a mouse is the icing on the cake.

The conversation moves onto the flat, and obviously the tenancy agreement, so while everyone's in the same room a call is made to the estate agents (or letting agents) to see the best way forward. After speaking to the landlord they're able to do an assignment, this is where they can basically assign the tenancy to me, all that's needed is a deed of assignment which my ex would need to sign, and obviously permission from the landlord.

Long story short but as there's not too long on the agreement my mum will cover the half that my ex was paying, and I'll be staying here for now.

There's obviously paperwork that needs to be done, and I'm hoping that my ex will still be co-operative once things are in motion.

She's grabbed her clothes and the dog and gone to her friends house. I didn't make any objections about the dog, as I didn't want to start something, when this might actually be the smoothest outcome for now. We paid half for the dog, but she always viewed her as more her's. Carrying him in a bag etc.
My god.

Good thing you did end it really.
 
She turned up after work and I locked her out last night so she had nowhere to go, I didn't tell her why I locked her out, I've been really distant with her and it's because I've been seeing people behind her back and I've not been nice to her at all, she just can't deal with it anymore, so she want's to grab her stuff and leave.

You're a cool cat. I would have gone into rage mode.
 
Ok so things didn't go the way I thought they would. A very brief summary.

I didn't have anything packed as I was waiting for parents to turn up, once they did, they were asking me how I was etc, and if I was sure I wanted to do this, while we're sitting down talking my ex turned up with her friend in tears.

My mum (or mom for you guys) is quite understanding, so she starts conversating with her to try and find out what's wrong.

She turned up after work and I locked her out last night so she had nowhere to go, I didn't tell her why I locked her out, I've been really distant with her and it's because I've been seeing people behind her back and I've not been nice to her at all, she just can't deal with it anymore, so she want's to grab her stuff and leave.

I'm listening to all this in disbelief, how she can talk this much crap with a straight face, let alone doing it with fake ass tears rolling down her face is something else. Her friend with her arm round her being quiet as a mouse is the icing on the cake.

The conversation moves onto the flat, and obviously the tenancy agreement, so while everyone's in the same room a call is made to the estate agents (or letting agents) to see the best way forward. After speaking to the landlord they're able to do an assignment, this is where they can basically assign the tenancy to me, all that's needed is a deed of assignment which my ex would need to sign, and obviously permission from the landlord.

Long story short but as there's not too long on the agreement my mum will cover the half that my ex was paying, and I'll be staying here for now.

There's obviously paperwork that needs to be done, and I'm hoping that my ex will still be co-operative once things are in motion.

She's grabbed her clothes and the dog and gone to her friends house. I didn't make any objections about the dog, as I didn't want to start something, when this might actually be the smoothest outcome for now. We paid half for the dog, but she always viewed her as more her's. Carrying him in a bag etc.


You're a heartless bastard OP. Heartless I say.
 
Ok so things didn't go the way I thought they would. A very brief summary.

I didn't have anything packed as I was waiting for parents to turn up, once they did, they were asking me how I was etc, and if I was sure I wanted to do this, while we're sitting down talking my ex turned up with her friend in tears.

My mum (or mom for you guys) is quite understanding, so she starts conversating with her to try and find out what's wrong.

She turned up after work and I locked her out last night so she had nowhere to go, I didn't tell her why I locked her out, I've been really distant with her and it's because I've been seeing people behind her back and I've not been nice to her at all, she just can't deal with it anymore, so she want's to grab her stuff and leave.

I'm listening to all this in disbelief, how she can talk this much crap with a straight face, let alone doing it with fake ass tears rolling down her face is something else. Her friend with her arm round her being quiet as a mouse is the icing on the cake.

The conversation moves onto the flat, and obviously the tenancy agreement, so while everyone's in the same room a call is made to the estate agents (or letting agents) to see the best way forward. After speaking to the landlord they're able to do an assignment, this is where they can basically assign the tenancy to me, all that's needed is a deed of assignment which my ex would need to sign, and obviously permission from the landlord.

Long story short but as there's not too long on the agreement my mum will cover the half that my ex was paying, and I'll be staying here for now.

There's obviously paperwork that needs to be done, and I'm hoping that my ex will still be co-operative once things are in motion.

She's grabbed her clothes and the dog and gone to her friends house. I didn't make any objections about the dog, as I didn't want to start something, when this might actually be the smoothest outcome for now. We paid half for the dog, but she always viewed her as more her's. Carrying him in a bag etc.

Holy shit. She's blaming you, fuck her. At least you have her messages saved.
 
Ok so things didn't go the way I thought they would. A very brief summary.

I didn't have anything packed as I was waiting for parents to turn up, once they did, they were asking me how I was etc, and if I was sure I wanted to do this, while we're sitting down talking my ex turned up with her friend in tears.

My mum (or mom for you guys) is quite understanding, so she starts conversating with her to try and find out what's wrong.

She turned up after work and I locked her out last night so she had nowhere to go, I didn't tell her why I locked her out, I've been really distant with her and it's because I've been seeing people behind her back and I've not been nice to her at all, she just can't deal with it anymore, so she want's to grab her stuff and leave.

I'm listening to all this in disbelief, how she can talk this much crap with a straight face, let alone doing it with fake ass tears rolling down her face is something else. Her friend with her arm round her being quiet as a mouse is the icing on the cake.

The conversation moves onto the flat, and obviously the tenancy agreement, so while everyone's in the same room a call is made to the estate agents (or letting agents) to see the best way forward. After speaking to the landlord they're able to do an assignment, this is where they can basically assign the tenancy to me, all that's needed is a deed of assignment which my ex would need to sign, and obviously permission from the landlord.

Long story short but as there's not too long on the agreement my mum will cover the half that my ex was paying, and I'll be staying here for now.

There's obviously paperwork that needs to be done, and I'm hoping that my ex will still be co-operative once things are in motion.

She's grabbed her clothes and the dog and gone to her friends house. I didn't make any objections about the dog, as I didn't want to start something, when this might actually be the smoothest outcome for now. We paid half for the dog, but she always viewed her as more her's. Carrying him in a bag etc.

I know you wanted to leave the memories of the apartment behind but still... all told you get to keep your place, your stuff, you don't have to live with your parents and bother moving, you don't have to pay extra, and most importantly you'll have that relationship out of your life. Seems like a pretty good outcome considering the possibilities.

Ignore her lies. They don't matter to you anymore.
 
Ok so things didn't go the way I thought they would. A very brief summary.

I didn't have anything packed as I was waiting for parents to turn up, once they did, they were asking me how I was etc, and if I was sure I wanted to do this, while we're sitting down talking my ex turned up with her friend in tears.

My mum (or mom for you guys) is quite understanding, so she starts conversating with her to try and find out what's wrong.

She turned up after work and I locked her out last night so she had nowhere to go, I didn't tell her why I locked her out, I've been really distant with her and it's because I've been seeing people behind her back and I've not been nice to her at all, she just can't deal with it anymore, so she want's to grab her stuff and leave.

I'm listening to all this in disbelief, how she can talk this much crap with a straight face, let alone doing it with fake ass tears rolling down her face is something else. Her friend with her arm round her being quiet as a mouse is the icing on the cake.

The conversation moves onto the flat, and obviously the tenancy agreement, so while everyone's in the same room a call is made to the estate agents (or letting agents) to see the best way forward. After speaking to the landlord they're able to do an assignment, this is where they can basically assign the tenancy to me, all that's needed is a deed of assignment which my ex would need to sign, and obviously permission from the landlord.

Long story short but as there's not too long on the agreement my mum will cover the half that my ex was paying, and I'll be staying here for now.

There's obviously paperwork that needs to be done, and I'm hoping that my ex will still be co-operative once things are in motion.

She's grabbed her clothes and the dog and gone to her friends house. I didn't make any objections about the dog, as I didn't want to start something, when this might actually be the smoothest outcome for now. We paid half for the dog, but she always viewed her as more her's. Carrying him in a bag etc.

yep, she went the "im the actual victim" card.

Well, feel free to show your parents the proof it was her if you like, but I say take this as a win, and move on with life and find another flat you can afford by yourself once this lease is up since your mom is covering the other part (which is BS to me but it gets you away from the girl).
 
She turned up after work and I locked her out last night so she had nowhere to go, I didn't tell her why I locked her out, I've been really distant with her and it's because I've been seeing people behind her back and I've not been nice to her at all, she just can't deal with it anymore, so she want's to grab her stuff and leave.

I'm listening to all this in disbelief, how she can talk this much crap with a straight face, let alone doing it with fake ass tears rolling down her face is something else. Her friend with her arm round her being quiet as a mouse is the icing on the cake.

Dunno how you manage OP, but many people wouldn't be able to keep their calm in that situation.
 
I hope to all hell that your parents didn't believe an ounce of the bullshit your ex was spewing. Congrats on a relatively clean break at least. You're well rid. She sounds like a total c*nt.
 
Gdamn, wtf is wrong is with people? Going all the way to Dominican Republic to fuck some guy while she's with you? And on Valentines?! If that isn't insane, I don't know what is

Sometimes I wonder whether my gf would do some shit like that

Didn't this guy make a thread about this one? Saying his GF was going away for 2 weeks and people were suspect on it?
 
Ok so things didn't go the way I thought they would. A very brief summary.

I didn't have anything packed as I was waiting for parents to turn up, once they did, they were asking me how I was etc, and if I was sure I wanted to do this, while we're sitting down talking my ex turned up with her friend in tears.

My mum (or mom for you guys) is quite understanding, so she starts conversating with her to try and find out what's wrong.

She turned up after work and I locked her out last night so she had nowhere to go, I didn't tell her why I locked her out, I've been really distant with her and it's because I've been seeing people behind her back and I've not been nice to her at all, she just can't deal with it anymore, so she want's to grab her stuff and leave.

I'm listening to all this in disbelief, how she can talk this much crap with a straight face, let alone doing it with fake ass tears rolling down her face is something else. Her friend with her arm round her being quiet as a mouse is the icing on the cake.

The conversation moves onto the flat, and obviously the tenancy agreement, so while everyone's in the same room a call is made to the estate agents (or letting agents) to see the best way forward. After speaking to the landlord they're able to do an assignment, this is where they can basically assign the tenancy to me, all that's needed is a deed of assignment which my ex would need to sign, and obviously permission from the landlord.

Long story short but as there's not too long on the agreement my mum will cover the half that my ex was paying, and I'll be staying here for now.

There's obviously paperwork that needs to be done, and I'm hoping that my ex will still be co-operative once things are in motion.

She's grabbed her clothes and the dog and gone to her friends house. I didn't make any objections about the dog, as I didn't want to start something, when this might actually be the smoothest outcome for now. We paid half for the dog, but she always viewed her as more her's. Carrying him in a bag etc.


Wait.. so thats what she was telling your parents right? Did you not tell your parents about the ipad sized dong?

but she always viewed her as more her's. Carrying him in a bag etc.

I would have left her for this alone..
 
My mum (or mom for you guys) is quite understanding, so she starts conversating with her to try and find out what's wrong.

She turned up after work and I locked her out last night so she had nowhere to go, I didn't tell her why I locked her out, I've been really distant with her and it's because I've been seeing people behind her back and I've not been nice to her at all, she just can't deal with it anymore, so she want's to grab her stuff and leave.

Sounds like you made the right call right from the start of this thread.
 
She turned up after work and I locked her out last night so she had nowhere to go, I didn't tell her why I locked her out, I've been really distant with her and it's because I've been seeing people behind her back and I've not been nice to her at all, she just can't deal with it anymore, so she want's to grab her stuff and leave.

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luckily you made those screenshots if anyone ever calls you an asshole or a liar
 
wtf OP didn't you show them the screenshots to shut her up?

Yeah I would have busted out the dick pics for everyone to see. OP should be so glad to be rid of this nonsense now instead of later. It would have taken a lot of restraint to NOT blow this up in her face.
 
Ok so things didn't go the way I thought they would. A very brief summary.

I didn't have anything packed as I was waiting for parents to turn up, once they did, they were asking me how I was etc, and if I was sure I wanted to do this, while we're sitting down talking my ex turned up with her friend in tears.

My mum (or mom for you guys) is quite understanding, so she starts conversating with her to try and find out what's wrong.

She turned up after work and I locked her out last night so she had nowhere to go, I didn't tell her why I locked her out, I've been really distant with her and it's because I've been seeing people behind her back and I've not been nice to her at all, she just can't deal with it anymore, so she want's to grab her stuff and leave.

I'm listening to all this in disbelief, how she can talk this much crap with a straight face, let alone doing it with fake ass tears rolling down her face is something else. Her friend with her arm round her being quiet as a mouse is the icing on the cake.

The conversation moves onto the flat, and obviously the tenancy agreement, so while everyone's in the same room a call is made to the estate agents (or letting agents) to see the best way forward. After speaking to the landlord they're able to do an assignment, this is where they can basically assign the tenancy to me, all that's needed is a deed of assignment which my ex would need to sign, and obviously permission from the landlord.

Long story short but as there's not too long on the agreement my mum will cover the half that my ex was paying, and I'll be staying here for now.

There's obviously paperwork that needs to be done, and I'm hoping that my ex will still be co-operative once things are in motion.

She's grabbed her clothes and the dog and gone to her friends house. I didn't make any objections about the dog, as I didn't want to start something, when this might actually be the smoothest outcome for now. We paid half for the dog, but she always viewed her as more her's. Carrying him in a bag etc.

Woah dude. Have you told your parents your side? I honestly don't think I could have kept my cool at that point. I'd have been showing everyone I knew what she'd been up to.
 
Ok so things didn't go the way I thought they would. A very brief summary.

I didn't have anything packed as I was waiting for parents to turn up, once they did, they were asking me how I was etc, and if I was sure I wanted to do this, while we're sitting down talking my ex turned up with her friend in tears.

My mum (or mom for you guys) is quite understanding, so she starts conversating with her to try and find out what's wrong.

She turned up after work and I locked her out last night so she had nowhere to go, I didn't tell her why I locked her out, I've been really distant with her and it's because I've been seeing people behind her back and I've not been nice to her at all, she just can't deal with it anymore, so she want's to grab her stuff and leave.

I'm listening to all this in disbelief, how she can talk this much crap with a straight face, let alone doing it with fake ass tears rolling down her face is something else. Her friend with her arm round her being quiet as a mouse is the icing on the cake.

The conversation moves onto the flat, and obviously the tenancy agreement, so while everyone's in the same room a call is made to the estate agents (or letting agents) to see the best way forward. After speaking to the landlord they're able to do an assignment, this is where they can basically assign the tenancy to me, all that's needed is a deed of assignment which my ex would need to sign, and obviously permission from the landlord.

Long story short but as there's not too long on the agreement my mum will cover the half that my ex was paying, and I'll be staying here for now.

There's obviously paperwork that needs to be done, and I'm hoping that my ex will still be co-operative once things are in motion.

She's grabbed her clothes and the dog and gone to her friends house. I didn't make any objections about the dog, as I didn't want to start something, when this might actually be the smoothest outcome for now. We paid half for the dog, but she always viewed her as more her's. Carrying him in a bag etc.

How you didn't use that opportunity to totally humiliate her and her friends I don't know... you're a better man than me.
 
She seems super mentally unstable. Not surprised at all that she basically labeled you as a cheater and will try to tell everyone who asks about the situation that it's all your fault. The mental gymnastics are real.

And it seems like she told that story to your parents? That is so pathetic. Hopefully they know the real deal.
 
Ok so things didn't go the way I thought they would. A very brief summary.

I didn't have anything packed as I was waiting for parents to turn up, once they did, they were asking me how I was etc, and if I was sure I wanted to do this, while we're sitting down talking my ex turned up with her friend in tears.

My mum (or mom for you guys) is quite understanding, so she starts conversating with her to try and find out what's wrong.

She turned up after work and I locked her out last night so she had nowhere to go, I didn't tell her why I locked her out, I've been really distant with her and it's because I've been seeing people behind her back and I've not been nice to her at all, she just can't deal with it anymore, so she want's to grab her stuff and leave.

I'm listening to all this in disbelief, how she can talk this much crap with a straight face, let alone doing it with fake ass tears rolling down her face is something else. Her friend with her arm round her being quiet as a mouse is the icing on the cake.

The conversation moves onto the flat, and obviously the tenancy agreement, so while everyone's in the same room a call is made to the estate agents (or letting agents) to see the best way forward. After speaking to the landlord they're able to do an assignment, this is where they can basically assign the tenancy to me, all that's needed is a deed of assignment which my ex would need to sign, and obviously permission from the landlord.

Long story short but as there's not too long on the agreement my mum will cover the half that my ex was paying, and I'll be staying here for now.

There's obviously paperwork that needs to be done, and I'm hoping that my ex will still be co-operative once things are in motion.

She's grabbed her clothes and the dog and gone to her friends house. I didn't make any objections about the dog, as I didn't want to start something, when this might actually be the smoothest outcome for now. We paid half for the dog, but she always viewed her as more her's. Carrying him in a bag etc.
Holy crap! You didn't get mad for talking this fucking shit??
It's amazing what some people will lie when in this position. A friend of mine had the same thing. He found out she was cheating on him and when all was done he heard stories about HIM being the one who cheated. Can't believe how low people wil go sometimes
 
Good on you, OP, for not losing your shit while she fake wept in front of your parents and pulled that victim card.

I would have flipped the fuck out, honestly.
 
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