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[Phoenixus]

Holy shit. What an absolute piece of work. Hope when all the dust is settled you can use that evidence against her OP. I greatly admire your ability to rise above that load of bullshit, but she absolutely does not deserve to come out of this looking squeaky clean.

 

[[KoRp]Jazzman]

Your parents actually know what happened though right, like you have told them everything yesterday and this afternoon before her sob story?

Because if you let her go on with that story and just took it because you didn't want to get into an argument, that is beyond ridiculous. I'm not saying you had to show your parents the evidence, but clearly you have to stand up for yourself here. And if your parents knew, and allowed her to continue on just to be civil well that is just beyond messed up.

 

[lifa-cobex]

Why the hell didn't you show everyone the chat log and pics!?

I get that you want it all over and done with etc,
But she's getting off completely Scott free by playing the victim and making you out to be a complete toss-pot.

Seriously man, Put your fucking foot down.

 

[Glass]

So OP still hasn't had a conversation with the ex actually talking about what was found on the ipad? I mean what she said to your mum isn't true, but does she actually know why this is happening?

 

[PROh1bited]

Honestly after what she just did, I would post those screen caps on Facebook, tag her in it, and let all of her friends and family see it.

 

[Caderfix]

wtf OP didn't you show them the screenshots to shut her up?

Yeah, it would've been perfect. The nerve of some people... Jesus, what a terrible person.

 

[Blackleg-sanji1]

*reads ops update

Sigh called it man...personal experience told me that outcome was obvious with how you handled it

 

[Ardenyal]

She turned up after work and I locked her out last night so she had nowhere to go, I didn't tell her why I locked her out, I've been really distant with her and it's because I've been seeing people behind her back and I've not been nice to her at all, she just can't deal with it anymore, so she want's to grab her stuff and leave.

Show the pics... You don't want this slimy motherfucker effect how your family views you.

 

[dcelw540]

God damn op... you are a strong man listening to her lies and not doing a thing. If I could I would give you a hug.

 

[Kid Ying]

wtf OP didn't you show them the screenshots to shut her up?

I guess he didn't want the confrontation. It's not like his parents will take his ex story as absolute truth though, so he has plenty of time to sort things up.

 

[TheOohChild]

So...you guys think he should have started throwing dick pics around in front of his mom? I'm sure she already believes him lol

 

[nekkid]

She's grabbed her clothes and the dog and gone to her friends house. I didn't make any objections about the dog, as I didn't want to start something, when this might actually be the smoothest outcome for now. We paid half for the dog, but she always viewed her as more her's. Carrying him in a bag etc.

It's all coming together. Jesus...

 

[Lashley]

OP did the right thing by not acknowledging her desperate attempt to change the course of events. He can talk to his family when she's gone.

fuck that

im a vindictive sob, I'd have shown them right then and there and made her squirm

 

[Pachimari]

wtf OP didn't you show them the screenshots to shut her up?

That would have just escalated the situation. Good he didn't. Now that she is gone, he can tell his parents why they really split.

 

[The Elite]

So OP still hasn't had a conversation with the ex actually talking about what was found on the ipad? I mean what she said to your mum isn't true, but does she actually know why this is happening?

Seems like she continues to hide behind others to avoid confronting what she did.

 

[Daffy Duck]

You're a better man than me, I'd have shown the screenshots to everyone at the stage she started chatting shit.

Has she made no pleas to stay together or anything?

 

[Moff]

So OP still hasn't had a conversation with the ex actually talking about what was found on the ipad? I mean what she said to your mum isn't true, but does she actually know why this is happening?

of course she does, that's why she locked herself up in the bathroom after he confronted her and stormed out of the apartment to her friend.

I wonder if she already told her friend that lie of if the made that up together, I'd say the latter

goddamn, some people, she is a terrible excuse for a human being, you dodged a massive bullet here, OP, made the right calls and I hope this will end well and clean for you.

 

[Mohonky]

Yeah, it would've been perfect. The nerve of some people... Jesus, what a terrible person.

Pretty typical of cheaters though. They get caught out, they outrage at being caught out, then blame their partner, tell all the friends how terrible a person they were blahblahblah.

Its like clockwork.

 

[Ganhyun]

Honestly, it only need come out if she tries to ruin his life after this. As in she tries to ruin his work or such. Then expose her. Otherwise, with how she acts, its easier to let her think she's won and then go on and live happier without her.

 

[Shabadoo69]

It's a double bluff, my dude. Be afraid.

My wife is honest, almost to a fault. One time we were trying to eat healthy and exercise. she called me while I was at work because she felt guilty she ate half a cookie.

 

[Ashhong]

Wait, did you not tell your parents the true story? If yes, why the fuck is your mom comforting her? No offense, but, why?! And paying half her rent? man....

Share the goddamn screenshot on facebook!

 

[Always-honest]

You're a better man than me, I'd have shown the screenshots to everyon at the stage she started chatting shit.

Has she made no pleas to stay together or anything?

She probably knew it was over.
She knows what she did.

Wait, did you not tell your parents the true story? If yes, why the fuck is your mom comforting her? No offense, but, why?! And paying half her rent? man....

As a parent i would do the same. Just to get rid of her and make things easier and faster.

 

[TastyBread]

jesus h christ! the justice boners you would've evoked from the entire thread if you pulled up the screenshots as she was lying - I don't get it though, did she know your parents were round? or were the tears and lies an on the spot thing?

 

[gatisimo]

https://streamable.com/edcz

Now this thread is forever etched into my brain. Bravo!

 

[MrS]

She turned up after work and I locked her out last night so she had nowhere to go, I didn't tell her why I locked her out, I've been really distant with her and it's because I've been seeing people behind her back and I've not been nice to her at all, she just can't deal with it anymore, so she want's to grab her stuff and leave.

This should not have gone unchallenged.

 

[Xamtheking]

OP is probably just really too tired to do much rn

 

[Ferulci]

 

[The Elite]

of course she does, that's why she locked herself up in the bathroom after he confronted her and stormed out of the apartment to her friend.

I wonder if she already told her friend that lie of if the made that up together, I'd say the latter

goddamn, some people, she is a terrible excuse for a human being, you dodged a massive bullet here, OP, made the right calls and I hope this will end well and clean for you.

Her friend apparently called the OP out for violating privacy so she probably knows the real truth.

 

[InfiniteBento]

legit op's ex-girlfriend right now

 

[Zombie James]

Ok so things didn't go the way I thought they would. A very brief summary.

I didn't have anything packed as I was waiting for parents to turn up, once they did, they were asking me how I was etc, and if I was sure I wanted to do this, while we're sitting down talking my ex turned up with her friend in tears.

My mum (or mom for you guys) is quite understanding, so she starts conversating with her to try and find out what's wrong.

She turned up after work and I locked her out last night so she had nowhere to go, I didn't tell her why I locked her out, I've been really distant with her and it's because I've been seeing people behind her back and I've not been nice to her at all, she just can't deal with it anymore, so she want's to grab her stuff and leave.

I'm listening to all this in disbelief, how she can talk this much crap with a straight face, let alone doing it with fake ass tears rolling down her face is something else. Her friend with her arm round her being quiet as a mouse is the icing on the cake.

The conversation moves onto the flat, and obviously the tenancy agreement, so while everyone's in the same room a call is made to the estate agents (or letting agents) to see the best way forward. After speaking to the landlord they're able to do an assignment, this is where they can basically assign the tenancy to me, all that's needed is a deed of assignment which my ex would need to sign, and obviously permission from the landlord.

Long story short but as there's not too long on the agreement my mum will cover the half that my ex was paying, and I'll be staying here for now.

There's obviously paperwork that needs to be done, and I'm hoping that my ex will still be co-operative once things are in motion.

She's grabbed her clothes and the dog and gone to her friends house. I didn't make any objections about the dog, as I didn't want to start something, when this might actually be the smoothest outcome for now. We paid half for the dog, but she always viewed her as more her's. Carrying him in a bag etc.

That's great, you get to keep the place and she leaves. Best outcome. Feel bad for the dog.

 

[SpaceWolf]

Why doesn't the OP have a tag yet? The fact it's taken this long is an outrage!

 

[Moff]

Her friend apparently called the OP out for violating privacy so she probably knows the real truth.

right
makes more sense anyway they made that shit up together

 

[Caderfix]

So...you guys think he should have started throwing dick pics around in front of his mom? I'm sure she already believes him lol

If I was in his place, yes, I would. Not because my mother wouldn't believe me, but to show that no one there was buying the girlfriend's lies.

 

[GreatestHits]

Wait, did you not tell your parents the true story? If yes, why the fuck is your mom comforting her? No offense, but, why?! And paying half her rent? man....

Share the goddamn screenshot on facebook!

OP's ex isn't in a good place, she's a woman herself and probably cares about her, regardless of the damage done. She seems wise, and a saint

 

[D6AMIA6N]

I told everyone at the beginning, revenge was necessary and earned. Now look at all of you clamoring for her head.

 

[Mohonky]

Wait, did you not tell your parents the true story? If yes, why the fuck is your mom comforting her? No offense, but, why?! And paying half her rent? man....

Share the goddamn screenshot on facebook!

this is what I'd have done. if you have the audacity to put the blame on me for that shit, I'm throwing it out there so others can decide for themselves.

 

[Kinitari]

Friend most likely knows the truth, and they worked on this lie together.

She was probably destroying evidence on the iPad in the bathroom too.

But because she refused to talk to OCD... My guess is she probably has no idea about the backups he has.

 

[names2hard4you]

Lmfao wow man. Good riddance. We all knew she was going to pull that card. I too am wondering though, how did your parents react to what she said? Were they on your side?

 

[theaface]

I would at least warn your ex that if she bad mouths you and lies about you to any of your friends or family from this point forward, you'll publish her little chat for all to see. That way you're not doing it just out of spite, but protecting your reputation as you deserve to.

 

[Lys Skygge]

My girlfriend and I have been following this thread for the past couple of days. We feel bad for you OP, but you've created an incredibly entertaining thread. So far it looks like things have been mostly smooth (apart from your gf trying to place blame on you). Hopefully things continue to go smoothly and you can move on.

Anyways, I just wanted to leave my mark on this legendary thread. Someones gonna have to update the first post with a summery of everything that's happened here.

 

[Lashley]

Wait, did you not tell your parents the true story? If yes, why the fuck is your mom comforting her? No offense, but, why?! And paying half her rent? man....

Share the goddamn screenshot on facebook!

No idea if it's just a British thing, but my mum and most of my friends mum's would've done the same tbh

 

[Ashhong]

She probably knew it was over.
She knows what she did.

As a parent i would do the same. Just to get rid of her and make things easier and faster.

Fuck that. If I found out some dude was cheating on my daughter I would kick him the fuck out. Are you kidding? Especially if he was trying to play the victim and lying to me face?

No idea if it's just a British thing, but my mum and most of my friends mum's would've done the same tbh

Are we talking about the comforting or the money.

 

[Loudninja]

People he has the leverage so relax.

 

[Leopard]

My wife is honest, almost to a fault. One time we were trying to eat healthy and exercise. she called me while I was at work because she felt guilty she ate half a cookie.

LOL

 

[D6AMIA6N]

You should have destroyed her reputation when you had the chance, just as she will do to yours now.

 

[Clockwork]

I don't think I could have let her get away with lying like that. I know you wanted to have things go smoothly and avoid confrontation...but I just couldn't stop myself from calling out that kind of bullshit.

 

[Lashley]

Fuck that. If I found out some dude was cheating on my daughter I would kick him the fuck out. Are you kidding? Especially if he was trying to play the victim and lying to me face?



Are we talking about the comforting or the money.

Comforting

My mum would've probably paid half the rent to help ME out though, not her,

Which is why OP's mum has done it too

 

[ArgyleReptile]

OP has the patience of a goddamned Saint.

 

[SugarDave]

My wife is honest, almost to a fault. One time we were trying to eat healthy and exercise. she called me while I was at work because she felt guilty she ate half a cookie.

Haha, that's pretty cute. I was just joking though man, meant nothing by it.

I'm genuinely mad at OP's latest update though. Jesus Christ, what a cunt!

 

[Bloody_Five]

What if?

What if OP is actually the one who did wrong and just made up this thread counting on some mostly male Neogaf unconditional support and is actually the one doing the mental gymnastics?

What if the whole story is completely made up and is just an elaborate experiment to prove how quick men are to back a buddy?

Imagine, the outrage if OP was suddenly saying: "sorry guys but I just fooled you all".

Obviously, I am having a bit of fun here but, looking at this thread from the outside, it's shocking that everybody is following the drama and offering sympathies with only the good word from a total stranger as a basis.

Don't forget: On the Internet, nobody knows you are a dog