You're really hinging on anecdotes here. My bottom line is that we acknowledge both sides have people like this, and theists outnumber atheists by quite a bit. That results in domination of the majority. Atheists aren't quite the big bad guy you seem to think. Your perception is skewed. And again the internet in this case isn't the best general reflection of reality. I agree that it's important and will likely only become more important to human interaction. I just don't think that at the moment, it's as vital as you make it out to be. There's still plenty of people out there for example, that don't get their information entirely from the internet, if at all from the internet.
You act like religious fervor is some anomaly. Where do YOU live? It's quite common I assure you, and historically it has had and continues to have a much greater impact on the world, though thankfully, it seems to be decreasing.
What are religious people going to be aggressive towards when they're surrounded by each other?
You don't remember the mosque controversy in NYC? Religious zeal had nothing to do with that? Abortion rallies? Funeral picketing?
This?
I`m not saying the average believer is like that. It just seems that you refuse to see the gargantuan levels of enthusiasm among the religious, instead aiming your crosshairs at atheists, as if you and I are the problem and we just need to stop bullying the faithful.