What was the point of explaining this? I got a kick out of the "she was really happy to see me / us" as I am not sure why you differentiated yourself from your group of friends who are also regulars.
Well, because primarily talks to me the most and even at times, exclusively. That's why I differentiated.
What did your ex have to do with the rest of the story? Seems like useless filler or some sad attempt to present her as some type of cockblock
Yikes. She's just a fun girl to hang and be with. Some my friends enjoy her company and same goes to her. She usually comes out to events like clubbing and so forth with us. And I would be lying if I didn't say the following; that I was basically trying to tell the waitress, "shit, I'm not desperate so please..."
That's why that was in there. But what really knocked me out out or over the fucking hill was she was wearing the ring I bought her on the finger that implies she's engaged / married / taken. Completely threw me off and I didn't notice, the waitress did.
Oh man, you even grabbed her ass! Dude, I am surprised she didn't bang you right then and there. And grinding? Oh man, I hope you were carrying condoms on you.
It might seem like nothing to you but grabbing her ass when she has a bf....At that point I didn't know better but now I do. But at that time when I did and she let it happen, I'm pretty sure everyone else here would have taken that as a good sign?
Haha, seriously though...you guys were at a party and you were dancing. That is known to happen and doesn't mean anything.
Guess I'll be looking at it this way.
I bet that made the waitress friend soooooo jealous. You sure showed her. The fact that you consciously and intentionally ignored her is hilarious. Never mind the fact that you naturally could have had other stuff to pay attention to since you were there with friends, which would be I don't know.... normal.
Well, at the very least it showed her I could do without her. I didn't purposely ignore her, my ex asked for a dance and like I said, I enjoy dancing. I wasn't going to turn down the chance. So I did it, it just fell within gaf advice, lol. I did pay attention to other things like taking shots with my friends, drinking with them, dancing with them.... Etc... As she wasn't with us most of the night.
She was dancing with a guy she knew for a long time and you equated this to her not being interested?Or how that was going to end up with them dating? In this case it was true, but how was it different than you dancing with other people like your ex? What made you think the bf thing was a lie?
Well, as soon as she saw him, she went straight to him. And she was with him ever since. So I just assumed, it was done. Not to mention, she was really all over him. So I just went with she's going to date this guy because she really likes him and she's not interested in me. In my situation, she know the girl I was dancing with was my ex.
Well, I said she lied about the bf thing because she never talks about him, she always seem to be with her girlfriends all the time. Some guy at the bar that we know tipped us with the fact that she's single and doesn't have a bf.
[quoteIt sounds like you watched them the entire time. Did you give him the stink eye all night too? I bet you did.[/quote]
Nope and nope.
Which is normal if you're in a relationship. At the same time, why does this mean she just wanted a ride? Why would she have to tell anyone if he would be there or not? Sounds like she considers you people friends and wanted to hang out and have a good time. Which is what happened from what it sounds like.
Because she didn't want anyone to think she's only coming with us to actually see her bf there and needed the ride to get there? That's why she didn't mention him.
So how did this 1x1 chat start? What was it even about? I can't imagine anything heading towards a discussion on whether she would have dated you or not had you not instigated it during the conversation. It just seems creepy and uncomfortable.
It basically about the dance, the night in general. Her bf, the whole situation with her bf (yes, I asked her first) and some other chatter. Like I said, she dropped some bombs / hints about us working out. Maybe to me it was, not to anyone else.
