To be entirely fair, I find Zaptruder's comments easy to sympathize with. My experience with Revolutionary Girl Utena has been a lot like a High School English class. Regulus and Hito are the professor, and I'm the poor student trying to wrap his brain around why a giant white rose is spinning or what could possibly be so significant about an increasing number of black cats who are decreasing in size and what relationship this has with getting NTRd by a guy who looks like a guy who might be a girl and looks like another girl and in spite of that other girl being his sister and both sharing incredible physical similarities with the other guy, are apparently not related to him since he's related to the lady who was being used in the aforementioned NTR scheme who does not look like this guy. And all of these people, said lady excluded, look like a Prince that a girl met when she was small.
And they all look like a Brazilian woman who died during an attack by a clone of a little boy from a far away planetary system in an effort to recapture the machine necessary to save said system.
THIS IS BARELY SCRATCHING THE SURFACE OF UTENA. Not even talking about the balloons and stop watches and hilts and suggestive unsheathing and goodness knows what else.
When like, everything is symbolic in the show you kind of begin to wonder what, if anything, is real in the show.