My girlfriend is looking up strap ons
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What the hell.
Twilight Gap
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Tesseract
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IceDoesntHelp
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I don't want to be fucked.
davepoobond
you can't put a price on sparks
she wants it in both holes at the same time
nailbombxx
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A strap-on is unnecessary for that though.
Well, maybe he didn't mean her's.
You do not like it. So you say. Try it! Try it! And you may. Try it and you may, I say.
Tesseract
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I'm confused. Aren't you transitioning to a woman?
Is liking it in the ass a prerequisite for being a woman?
If you went to my highschool, apparently.
IceDoesntHelp
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Who says it is?
But if OP is transitioning, they might as well get the experience of being fucked out of the way? One way or another an artificial dick is gonna be let in, bro?
Quid pro anal quo - kinda hard to say no if you want the other party to reciprocate later.
So, she isn't purchasing for you to wear to pleasure her with when you're post-op?
Is the physical bit of that transition something you're doing soon? Maybe she's prepping the backup plan because she still wants the D? Have you talked to her about it? Was it specifically mentioned that she is going to use it on you? How do you make a thread like this and provide no further information?
IceDoesntHelp
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Femmeworth
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If you don't want to be penetrated, then tell her so?
Scratch the above, the relationship is not worth saving. Bail out now.
Uh. Ice, that's not her choice and if she really loves you she'd support you. You need to think about your own long term happiness.
This. Hate to say it, but this is the biggest red flag. Like, ever.
Dunedain_Ranger
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Black anaconda 9000 !!!!!
That's a pretty big assumption. Not all lesbians enjoy penetration, kinda like not every gay guy wants it up the ass.
Then you are wasting her time and yours (and therefore, by extension, ours).
You have far bigger problems than
Nappuccino
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Yeah. I can understand her reaction (Hell, if I were in her shoes, I might have the same one), but you can't be in a relationship with someone who isn't with you 100% (esp if that involves you doing something as life-changing as transitioning).
Find someone who's willing to be there with you through the whole thing (or, at the very least, after)
Nappuccino
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There are all sorts of situations. Does she really need a definitive identifier?
She probably thinks you are a gay dude with problems.
BAIL OUT
Gender is what you feel as. You can say that it is the sex of your brain.
Sexual Atraction is who you are atracted to.
TOTALY unrelated stuff.
Transgender people have the same chance to be gay, lesbian, bi, pan, asexual or any other sexual orientation than any other people of the same gender they are.
And yes, OP is at least a lesbian
davepoobond
you can't put a price on sparks
wait, i thought this changing gender thing was a joke.
you want to remove your penis? but she doesnt want you to? so in case you do it anyway she's getting a strap on so you can at least do her with a "dick" anyway?
you want to remove your penis? but she doesnt want you to? so in case you do it anyway she's getting a strap on so you can at least do her with a "dick" anyway?
too many words trying to classify shit here.. OP's a human having intimacy troubs with another human.
^ that oughta be enough to understand
^ that oughta be enough to understand
Only two ways around to resolve issue
1. Bring it up and talk it out
2. Wait for her to bring it up
Obviously there is the appearance of two important opposing expectations here. Either sort it out soon in a calm, rational manner (considering sensitivity could be a major point for both people, best be aware of highly emotive reactions) or by not saying anything, it could lead to resentment from one or both people.
Orrrrr ... she might just have been sent a link by a friend and wasn't seriously contemplating buying/using any of them. Who knows.
1. Bring it up and talk it out
2. Wait for her to bring it up
Obviously there is the appearance of two important opposing expectations here. Either sort it out soon in a calm, rational manner (considering sensitivity could be a major point for both people, best be aware of highly emotive reactions) or by not saying anything, it could lead to resentment from one or both people.
Orrrrr ... she might just have been sent a link by a friend and wasn't seriously contemplating buying/using any of them. Who knows.
Technically... it doesn't get removed, at least not in the way you might be thinking. The process is far more interesting than that. *evil grin*
Why?
ElbowRocket
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Just let her in bro
Idk, just looking at his thread and post history.
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but I am a sheep
Talk to her about it and explain it is not something you want to try.
She should understand, hopefully.
She should understand, hopefully.
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