This also happened when Nairo won Apex Brawl last year. Except the community was smaller back then, and the situation, while the same, wasn't given the attention it needed. Now we're on round two.
I'd lie to you if I told you it didn't bother me.
I've been wanting to win an Apex for many, many years. I've dreamed of the moment where I can finally hold that trophy, and just smile. But when the crowd was cheering it wasn't for me, it was for the fact that the game was over and they can now see melee. It wasn't cool and my heart was crushed, but I was only annoyed at the individuals who went ahead with it. I'm not saying all Melee players do this, but this is to those who did.
Let's make things different.
Don't apologize to me. That's not important. What's important is fixing an issue within the community. Generalizing isn't cool, but the friction between Melee and other Smash games has always been there. It's at events, in forums and chats. I've seen disrespect, and I've been disrespected in many different ways.
Who draws the line? How do we fix it?
This issue is old. It's a part of the scene, regardless of how some feel about it.
I personally think that if we collectively bring light to the fact that this is a critical issue then we are one step closer to fixing the problem. The thing is that, while this is an issue, there's still people that find these type of things 'okay' or 'fine'. But if this type of attitude is actively punished and scolded then we just might see a change. Until eventually it becomes a very rare issue.
You can't really understand how's it being on the other side of this topic. To be honest, I didn't understand until I was on that stage. When Nairo got the same treatment I didn't think much of it. But we dedicate our lives to being good at smash, to put on a show of high level display for you, and when you finally get the validation of winning something as big as apex... when you are looking to your smash family for support you just...
I've seen top players in different Smash games feel not as important to the community because they don't play Melee. And that's not okay. This shouldn't be the Melee Community or the Smash 4 community, but rather just the Smash community
I get it, fine. You don't like the other game. That's fine. But it really sucks to see more disrespect from people inside our community, than the people outside. Do you really have to be so vocal about it? So public to show it? Does it really have to? That's really my point,
If anything, we have work to do as a community. We're growing, and we're doing great things. This past Apex was a milestone in many, many ways for our wonderful community. I really hope this one issue at some point can be resolved. But I believe we can do it. It would take time, but it's possible.
At the end of the day no matter what game you play the person behind the controller is a part of this smash family. We all share the same passions, and that's Smash. It's amazing how many times we forget that.