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Never heard about this... I need to read up on it now!
Here's a good article on the whole thing.
The whole #CancelColbert thing probably hurt her cause way more then it helped.
Never heard about this... I need to read up on it now!
I feel the same way. When I was younger, it was like, okay, we're a minority here, so I'm not seeing many Asians--whatever. But then, as I grow older, I'm starting to recognize more how we are portrayed not as a minority but as either non-existent at best or a joke at worst. It's really irksome when Asian characters get played by white people for no other reason than to just have a white person play the role. It's also annoying when they concede by casting half-Asian, half-white actors. Also annoying how westernized Asian men don't actually exist in media. Westernized Asians, with unaccented English, are almost always women, and they almost always end up romantically attached to a white character on their respective shows. The older I get, the more I recognize all this, and the more I recognize this, the more it annoys me.On Hollywood's representation of asians: Used to not care but the older I get the more grating its become. I grew up in the 90s so casual racism was the norm- but now I cant stand coons like Ken Jeong. Shits not funny. Thank god for people like Eddie Huang fighting the good fight.
I feel the same way. When I was younger, it was like, okay, we're a minority here, so I'm not seeing many Asians--whatever. But then, as I grow older, I'm starting to recognize more how we are portrayed not as a minority but as either non-existent at best or a joke at worst. It's really irksome when Asian characters get played by white people for no other reason than to just have a white person play the role. It's also annoying when they concede by casting half-Asian, half-white actors. Also annoying how westernized Asian men don't actually exist in media. Westernized Asians, with unaccented English, are almost always women, and they almost always end up romantically attached to a white character on their respective shows. The older I get, the more I recognize all this, and the more I recognize this, the more it annoys me.
YES. This annoys the shit out of me.
Of course, I'm probably being equally bad because I find westernized Asian men to be so goddamn attractive that pretty much everyone else is nonexistent on my romantic radar. Sometimes I wonder if it's partially because I'm subconsciously rebelling against how Asians are treated in America.
I can't wait for a normal Asian couple to pop up on TV and not be either parents & fobs. I never see normal younger Asian couples anywhere in the media.
I'm tired of my ethnicity being portrayed like some "other", something that doesn't fit quite right. Asians are always seen from a Western perspective, and frankly, this is tiresome. I'm tired of the lack of proper multicultural representation. I want Westernized Asians, Asians living in Asia, and fobs in the West to be more prominent in Western media, and presented such that the viewer can truly relate to these characters. Among other reasons, I stay away from a lot of Western media because I'm sick of having my ethnicity being ignored, stereotyped, or treated as a joke.I feel the same way. When I was younger, it was like, okay, we're a minority here, so I'm not seeing many Asians--whatever. But then, as I grow older, I'm starting to recognize more how we are portrayed not as a minority but as either non-existent at best or a joke at worst. It's really irksome when Asian characters get played by white people for no other reason than to just have a white person play the role. It's also annoying when they concede by casting half-Asian, half-white actors. Also annoying how westernized Asian men don't actually exist in media. Westernized Asians, with unaccented English, are almost always women, and they almost always end up romantically attached to a white character on their respective shows. The older I get, the more I recognize all this, and the more I recognize this, the more it annoys me.
Right, but that's the problem. It should be the norm, but it's not. For example, Grey's Anatomy is set in Seattle. How many Asian couples do you see on the show? Hell, how many Asian doctors do you see at that hospital? Now that Sandra Oh left, there are zero. And even when she was there, she was the only one.Saw the pilot; FOB is awesome.
Set a show in LA or the west coast in general and I feel like random asian couples would be almost the norm.
I'm a little more laid back about the portrayal aspect in terms of representation; while we are a higher percentage than ever before - we are concentrated in specific areas for the most part. So a show set in a random suburb in the Midwest? Not expecting that many asians. Show set in LA or Seattle? Should have some.
Personally, I believe these problems are linked. Asian men are not perceived to be attractive because we are portrayed by media to be unattractive.Unfortunately, I think a large part of the reason asian males tend to not be found in Hollywood is that non asian women really, really don't like dating asian men. (http://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/race-attraction-2009-2014/). (Hilariously; those stats imply that black men might be the least racist by a wide margin). The media is merely reflecting how women already act towards asian men. I wonder if your rebelling may be more tied to how asian men are treated by the majority of non-asian women (hence the attraction part).
Right, but that's the problem. It should be the norm, but it's not. For example, Grey's Anatomy is set in Seattle. How many Asian couples do you see on the show? Hell, how many Asian doctors do you see at that hospital? Now that Sandra Oh left, there are zero. And even when she was there, she was the only one.
And guess what? Asian woman married to a white man (albeit dating a black guy toward the end, which I suppose is kind of progressive). Surprise, surprise.
Personally, I believe these problems are linked. Asian men are not perceived to be attractive because we are portrayed by media to be unattractive.
Personally, I believe these problems are linked. Asian men are not perceived to be attractive because we are portrayed by media to be unattractive.
I agree in principle, but I honestly think it's also more due to the short time spans of the studies. These beliefs are entrenched and aren't going to change anytime soon, which is why we need to take baby steps like FOB and Black-ish to correct media portrayals of minorities. I really see change happening at a generational time scale, so a study of the last few years of OK Cupid isn't going to show much.I disagree with the last bit; that feels like we are looking to blame media for our biases rather than owning them. Media can influence to some extent; but there is a very real point in that never has it been anything more than a correlation - and never been a causation. Hell, black men never got better after the Cosby show, or the massive popularity boom of sports intermingling with pop culture. Hell, black men got way worse from 2009 to 2014.
Using the OK Cupid data; Black women are rated at a negative 59% across all races of men in 2009. In 2014 (post Beyonce, post Kim Kardashian)? -54%. Out of that increase of 5%, 80% of it (so 4%) is from black men - which ties to the overarching trend of all non-white races liking their own race more positively in that time frame (Latinos and Asians both gaining 4%, the same amount as Blacks).
Unpopular Opinion Alert: The main reason society bags on media about representation and "influence" is rooted in denial. The denial that media reflects what we actually want rather than "influencing" us. Because admitting that media merely reflects popular society and gives people what they ultimately want would mean that we'd have to admit that we're the issue, not some nebulous thing we can blame our personal problems on. Violent video games became popular because violence is popular. But no one wanted to admit that, so they instead blamed violent video games for glorifying violence. This was the undisputed prevailing thought...until years later, when people noticed that violent crimes had been continuously dropping during the rise of violent video games. Oops. Hell, if that were the case, all of us that watched Looney Tunes as kids would be hella racist. Media can amplify pre-existing beliefs; but it is very poor (unless presented as a documentary or historical fact) of creating beliefs.
That OKCupid article proves that to a related extent; as people claimed they are more post racial in polls, etc, we ACT more racist and more territorial than ever before.
I'm tired of my ethnicity being portrayed like some "other", something that doesn't fit quite right. Asians are always seen from a Western perspective, and frankly, this is tiresome. I'm tired of the lack of proper multicultural representation. I want Westernized Asians, Asians living in Asia, and fobs in the West to be more prominent in Western media, and presented such that the viewer can truly relate to these characters. Among other reasons, I stay away from a lot of Western media because I'm sick of having my ethnicity being ignored, stereotyped, or treated as a joke.
Right, but that's the problem. It should be the norm, but it's not. For example, Grey's Anatomy is set in Seattle. How many Asian couples do you see on the show? Hell, how many Asian doctors do you see at that hospital? Now that Sandra Oh left, there are zero. And even when she was there, she was the only one.
And guess what? Asian woman married to a white man (albeit dating a black guy toward the end, which I suppose is kind of progressive). Surprise, surprise.
Personally, I believe these problems are linked. Asian men are not perceived to be attractive because we are portrayed by media to be unattractive.
Sorry to break the flow, but I just wanted to rage.
http://www.neogaf.com/forum/showthread.php?t=985730
I won't name names, but some fucking idiotic shit in there. Racist posts about Asians go unchecked, because LOLOLOLOLOL PENIS IT'S SO FUNNY IT'S NOT RACIST.
Like, get the fuck out with that shit and grow up, or go back to 4th grade where you belong.
Little microaggressions like those. Ugh. Seriously, those people can go fuck themselves.
At this point, it's like arguing the chicken and the egg, no? Either way, regardless of what came first-- now it's a cycle.
Ugh. That kind of caricature is like a black man playing blackface. The token Asian man in media is usually some sort of William Hung. Even Psy, as talented as he is, basically plays that role. UGH.
-The next Terminator movie stars Lee Byung-hun as the T-1000, but I'm not sure how well his character will be remembered as well as Robert Patrick's character.
I agree in principle, but I honestly think it's also more due to the short time spans of the studies. These beliefs are entrenched and aren't going to change anytime soon, which is why we need to take baby steps like FOB and Black-ish to correct media portrayals of minorities. I really see change happening at a generational time scale, so a study of the last few years of OK Cupid isn't going to show much.
To use your Looney Tunes example, compare those to the cartoons today, and then look at our generation, which grew up with those but are still young enough to be exposed to the newer, more progressive stuff. Then compare our generation to that of our parents, where racist/exclusionary media were the only media available.
First off, thank you both to Septimus Prime and backslashbunny for letting me actually have a decent conversation about this on GAF. I rarely get to have this kind of conversation, especially with other asians, on GAF. I know I have a super weird perspective because I grew up in small-town cornfield Midwest; as opposed to most first generation immigrants.
Also, everyone in this damn thread should give a shoutout to backslashbunny; without her, this thread would not exist.
I find it super interesting that no one wants to do a long time span study of the influence of media - I sort of believe they don't want to know the answer to that question. (Also, media is far more pervasive in the last 15-20 years, so there is that part too).
I definitely agree on the generational time scale changes - its why I don't get too upset over the lack of asian leads in shows; hell, we arrived in any significant numbers basically a generation ago. Hell; 70 years ago, this country found it perfectly logical to lock up every Japanese / Japanese descended American in the country in internment camps. That's in someone's lifetime. I'm willing to be patient, and even realize that I may not see the fruits of that progress. But by existing, hopefully this first (big) generation of Asian-Americans can influence the following generation into a level of normalization. Asians will be part of their lives in a much bigger way (both in terms of peers and adults); and I think our generation, as it gets older and gets more influence, will be able to make shows starring asians that speak to everyone.
FOB I think is really good (or at least the pilot is); because the show is about being a fish out of water - something everyone can understand - but with an asian twist. Black-ish is about Americana and the conflict between generational beliefs with an black twist. I think the roles that take very broadly appealing concepts that everyone can identify with and just give them a slight flavoring change is not only the best way to do it, but the most accurate way to do it. If there's one thing the internet has taught me; it is that we are all far, far more alike than we would like to admit. Unify us in our commonalities, rather than targeting us by our differences, would be my plea to modern media representation.
I definitely agree on the generational time scale changes - its why I don't get too upset over the lack of asian leads in shows; hell, we arrived in any significant numbers basically a generation ago. Hell; 70 years ago, this country found it perfectly logical to lock up every Japanese / Japanese descended American in the country in internment camps. That's in someone's lifetime. I'm willing to be patient, and even realize that I may not see the fruits of that progress. But by existing, hopefully this first (big) generation of Asian-Americans can influence the following generation into a level of normalization. Asians will be part of their lives in a much bigger way (both in terms of peers and adults); and I think our generation, as it gets older and gets more influence, will be able to make shows starring asians that speak to everyone.
FOB I think is really good (or at least the pilot is); because the show is about being a fish out of water - something everyone can understand - but with an asian twist. Black-ish is about Americana and the conflict between generational beliefs with an black twist. I think the roles that take very broadly appealing concepts that everyone can identify with and just give them a slight flavoring change is not only the best way to do it, but the most accurate way to do it. If there's one thing the internet has taught me; it is that we are all far, far more alike than we would like to admit. Unify us in our commonalities, rather than targeting us by our differences, would be my plea to modern media representation.
I can't wait for a normal Asian couple to pop up on TV and not be either parents & fobs. I never see normal younger Asian couples anywhere in the media.
To be fair they LOST spoilers:andeventually became parents. But yes, they were definitely a refreshing couple. That episode in the first season when Sun confessed everything in English was amazing.were on their way to America (making them first of planes?) when the show started
Thank you for this thread, Cybit and BSB. I tend to stay away from more serious topics on GAF, but sometimes it's nice to be able to actually discuss things that I feel matter.First off, thank you both to Septimus Prime and backslashbunny for letting me actually have a decent conversation about this on GAF. I rarely get to have this kind of conversation, especially with other asians, on GAF. I know I have a super weird perspective because I grew up in small-town cornfield Midwest; as opposed to most first generation immigrants.
Also, everyone in this damn thread should give a shoutout to backslashbunny; without her, this thread would not exist.
One of the largest internment camps, Santa Anita Racetrack, is just up the street from my house. One of my favorite restaurants is a steakhouse that's been around that area since the 20s, and I can only imagine what it must have been like to eat there during the WWII era, with the internment camp just two blocks away. Ironically, now the same city is mostly populated by Asians (it was 60:40 white:Asian when I was in high school, but the white folk tended to be older and rarely seen. I don't know what the split is now, but I'm sure it's tilted the other way).I definitely agree on the generational time scale changes - its why I don't get too upset over the lack of asian leads in shows; hell, we arrived in any significant numbers basically a generation ago. Hell; 70 years ago, this country found it perfectly logical to lock up every Japanese / Japanese descended American in the country in internment camps. That's in someone's lifetime. I'm willing to be patient, and even realize that I may not see the fruits of that progress. But by existing, hopefully this first (big) generation of Asian-Americans can influence the following generation into a level of normalization. Asians will be part of their lives in a much bigger way (both in terms of peers and adults); and I think our generation, as it gets older and gets more influence, will be able to make shows starring asians that speak to everyone.
I think that's just a male thing, in general. In retrospect, I can see so many potentially romantic opportunities that I passed up because I was too stupid to recognize them. My favorite: I was at this girl's place, at 4 AM. We made heart-shaped pancakes together. And then she asked me to stay over. "Oh, it's okay. I'm just going to go home." FUCK. What the fuck was I (not) thinking!?I also used to think only Asian women would find me attractive. One of my exes basically propositioned me at a party after we had spent a summer working together and I still had no clue. I don't know if this feeling arose from lack of sex-positive masculine male role models in popular media, or from my own thoughts about being unattractive to women with the few exceptions being Asian.
I know Jin and Sun didn't fit the criteria but I say they're an exception. As much crap people give LOST, I enjoyed how they embraced stereotypes and worked with it. Jin and Sun are definitely the most well written couple in the show. I ended up watching their final scene again. THE FEELS.
I think that's just a male thing, in general. In retrospect, I can see so many potentially romantic opportunities that I passed up because I was too stupid to recognize them. My favorite: I was at this girl's place, at 4 AM. We made heart-shaped pancakes together. And then she asked me to stay over. "Oh, it's okay. I'm just going to go home." FUCK. What the fuck was I (not) thinking!?
I also used to think only Asian women would find me attractive. One of my exes basically propositioned me at a party after we had spent a summer working together and I still had no clue. I don't know if this feeling arose from lack of sex-positive masculine male role models in popular media, or from my own thoughts about being unattractive to women with the few exceptions being Asian.
Fuuuuuuuuuck I know this feel.
Although back then I thought no one would find me attractive.
A lot of stereotypes are based on real things, it's just that depth and background are tossed aside for the sake of brevity and/or laziness. LOST was pretty good about avoiding that. And yeah, that final scene...
It happens to all of us. I always thought I was pretty good at reading women until that girl. It turns out I was only good at reading women I was already into (because I think I have a shot).
But now you've learned that secretly every person you've ever met really wanted you to love them long time.
Bunny is full with goodness <3
And if she wasn't already taken I'd be totally claiming ownership >
THANKS BUNBUNS
It happens to all of us. I always thought I was pretty good at reading women until that girl. It turns out I was only good at reading women I was already into (because I think I have a shot).
Flirt with everyone you want until one gives in! Winner!
It was so bad that I would unconsciously sabotage my own dates. Like, I would be out on a date at a nice restaurant with someone and be subconsciously thinking "There's no way she finds me attractive, I need to be one hell of a charmer".
Fucking hell, I was dumb.
That'd be super hot.
But yeah, this thread is really great so thanks to all that have made it interesting to read through.
You're right. Early on in college, I totally missed all the cues. I went to a school with not a large Asian-American community and almost all of my romantic liaisons were with non-Asians and almost entirely initiated by the girl.
Of course, after about 4 years of that in college, I turned things around.
This is my mantrathat I whispered quietly to myself and never actually did.
Hey, you were me in my 20s! Spend dates trying to be effortlessly charming only to break down in confession overload at the end. Luckily I found someone who actually did find that charming.
Hey, these four years sure have been terrible, what with these non-Asian women throwing themselves at me! I better turn things around and start throwing myself at them! =)
I've finally got the confidence to start talking with people. I think it's how a person presents themselves especially when it comes to dating. I've been turned off by people writing in their profile using lines like this:
"If you can't handle me at my worst, you certainly don't deserve to get me at my best,"
It's a valid reason that there are different things that people like, but I can understand how that kind of sentence can put a lot of people off.
-The next Terminator movie stars Lee Byung-hun as the T-1000, but I'm not sure how well his character will be remembered as well as Robert Patrick's character.
I find it really hard to be assertive sometimes in real.
:x
My friend is always telling me that I apologise for everything ever, even things that are not my fault. She's like, "It's sooooooooooooo Asian of you!"
Do you guys sometimes get this? Or is it just my friend?
There's no denying we're not well represented in the mainstream media. How and why's already discussed here. Anyone notice anything strange on youtube?
Do you guys feel like some Asian youtube channels tend to force Asian-ness down people's throats? I can't say I've seen all or know all the Asian youtube channels, but the few I bumped into gets really in your face about being Asian. There's nothing wrong with being Asian, but I just don't need it shoved in my face.
Huang: Yeah, but that’s the thing. There had to be a zombie apocalypse for an Asian dude to get some p*ssy. That dude had to be the last motherfucker.
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Rogan: [Shitty things about how white men want to bang Cohan because she’s the hottest character on The Walking Dead] … That’s a big win for Asian culture.
Huang: Yeah, we caught one there.
There's no denying we're not well represented in the mainstream media. How and why's already discussed here. Anyone notice anything strange on youtube?
Do you guys feel like some Asian youtube channels tend to force Asian-ness down people's throats? I can't say I've seen all or know all the Asian youtube channels, but the few I bumped into gets really in your face about being Asian. There's nothing wrong with being Asian, but I just don't need it shoved in my face.
These guys are really guilty of that. Their entire shtick is that their Asian. I've seen a few other Asian channels like that. I don't know how pervasive this really is on youtube. It's true the amount of channels guilty of this can be counted on one hand, but it's just that they bash that fact that their Asian into my face that all I got from the videos is that "we're asian!!!!!!11111"
I never wave the fact that I'm Asian on youtube. People can see I'm Asian within seconds of starting my videos. Being Asian has nothing to do with what I have to talk about.
But I try to live and let live. If that's what makes them happy, let them post their videos of AZN POWER. Just don't expect me to watch them.
Sorry, I never apologize.
This is oddly related to both things we've been talking about: http://www.pajiba.com/trade_news/ra...t-laid-in-hollywood.php#.VNJzC8hU-pw.facebook
Obviously, I do apologize.
Sorry. Not following you here. What do you mean?But, sometimes I feel there's spheres. Like, i've been watching Kdramas and stuff, and so I feel like in my sphere, it FEELS like there are Asian representations, cuz I consume that type of media? If you know what i mean?
Sorry. Not following you here. What do you mean?
I see what you're saying, but I don't know if I agree, if for no other reason than that I think most westernized Asians don't watch much Asian media and would have to go out of their way to do it. On top of this, westerners consume almost no Asian media (aside from weaboos and their anime), so this wouldn't do anything to help western society accept Asians citizens.Like, if you want Asian representations in your media, just consume Asian channels. There's loads of them.
:x
In Asian dramas, and movies, lots of good representations of Asian people. We dont really have to push for Western / Hollywood media to include us... I think I'm explaining it badly, maybe
I just feel like I have access to good Asian representations. ... It's just that they are in Asian media. Ugh. Can someone help me articulate my own thoughts pls :<<<<<<<
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Arrow? Yeah, it sucks that I have to bail out of show threads at 5 PM. By the time I get to it after it airs here, I'll have missed several pages of posts. The Legend of Korra was the worst. I felt like I would be missing a whole thread's worth of conversation by the time I got to it.Tuning out of this thread, not on for another 3 hours on the Best Coast. Will post my thoughts afterward.
I see what you're saying, but I don't know if I agree, if for no other reason than that I think most westernized Asians don't watch much Asian media and would have to go out of their way to do it. On top of this, westerners consume almost no Asian media (aside from weaboos and their anime), so this wouldn't do anything to help western society accept Asians citizens.
I see what you're saying, but I don't know if I agree, if for no other reason than that I think most westernized Asians don't watch much Asian media and would have to go out of their way to do it. On top of this, westerners consume almost no Asian media (aside from weaboos and their anime), so this wouldn't do anything to help western society accept Asians citizens.