Because that isn't what I was talking about. I don't see what the big deal is with tabbing between two windows. This is 2013, right?
On top of that how many multiplayer games let you change your loadout while the server is loading the next map? In my experience I can recall exactly ZERO games that do so. From where I'm sitting BF4 seems to have the most flexible loadout editing of any game, ever. In-game, in battlelog, on mobile, everywhere.
If you want to say it is annoying to have to connect to a server before changing your graphics settings I can agree with that being a minor annoyance that you have to deal with once or twice.