Which is all good by me. I'm not as good a player as you, but when I'm not stuck with 4 scrubs on my team, I can do pretty well. I think the TDM accommodates both our playstyles. I'm not going to sit in a room, and hopefully, I pick up more than a meager 3 kills. But, on the other hand, if I'm armed with my most used weapon, the M16, I'm not going to rush and engage people that are spraying the FAMAS by the hip.
Sometimes I'll rush for a change of pace, but I have my most fun playing support for the rushers on my team. Let them get their thirty kills. Often times, I find myself killing the high-scoring players by picking them off on the flanks, while the rushers on my team round up all the scrubs to get their air support and dogs, which in turn helps me.