Come on in and out yourself as a sociopath before the thread gets locked
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That's happened to me too, it really sucks. Almost 20 year friendship though. Still kind of pissed off about it.
What? This isn't a gender specific thing. Both men and women can be abhorrently cruel.
EstoyBlackWaldo
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The thread seemed past tense, men and woman ain't perfect and they both do petty shit. The real problem is if people in here continue to be petty. Some of these could have been a one and done type situation, people do dumb shit when they're young. I can't speak for everyone else, but I know I learned my lesson when karma bit back real hard.
GifGafIsTheBestGaf
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damn man, respect. people like that in general do you a favor when they leave your life.
-ImaginaryInsider
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That's the best route, unfortunately because of texting and social media it's just too easy for exes to stay in contact and mess with each other's minds long after the fact.
From my experience, the breakup is not why I end up really hating an ex, it's the mind-games after the breakup. Lots of people learn the hardest way why a "no contact" rule is essential.
Strangelove77
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I'm pretty sure more than half of these are made up. There's way too many "I fucked her best friend/sister/mom/dad/etc."
Yeah, I bet you have a 12 inch dick too.
Yeah, I bet you have a 12 inch dick too.
I think "pretending" to be a awful person isn't much better.
CharminUltra
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Damn GAF you scary
Familienoberhauptvogel
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Eh the whole revenge fuck someone close then share the pictures with them is darker honestly.
Messofanego
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Confession Thread came early, hoo boy.
TheSpoiler
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You gotta change your story a bit so nobody will know who you are. Like for mine, I've never had a girlfriend in my life, so there's no way anyone's gonna track me down.
Strangelove77
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Agreed.
Enter the Dragon Punch
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what the FUCK
TheGameshark
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lol appropriate title change
The Sum of Zero
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Cheated on me, so I posted the nudes she sent me on her MySpace (I knew her login because she had me check it for her from time to time).
Obviously this was years and years ago but yeah.
Obviously this was years and years ago but yeah.
Messofanego
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See, that's pretty cool and funny!
Clay Davis
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I try not to think about my ex any more, let alone think about getting revenge or anything of the sort.
I actually had a really bad couple of days when I thought I saw her coming out of the train station a few weeks ago, the person looked like her double, albeit chubbier, the similarity was uncanny but then I saw this person again recently and realised it's not her just someone who looked like her.
I actually had a really bad couple of days when I thought I saw her coming out of the train station a few weeks ago, the person looked like her double, albeit chubbier, the similarity was uncanny but then I saw this person again recently and realised it's not her just someone who looked like her.
Familienoberhauptvogel
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that's 100% revenge porn. Nowadays that could have landed you in jail.
The Sum of Zero
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To be fair it was shadowed.
But yeah, kids do stupid shit (both of us were 20, guess I should mention that) I definitely mellowed out over the years.
"To be fair" and revenge porn never belong in the same sentence, stop trying to act justified.
The Sum of Zero
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It happened 8 years ago. I honestly don't care what you or anyone else thinks about it. Lessons were learned and I definitely wouldn't do it again. That's all that matters to me.
Just outing myself as a sociopath like the new thread title said.
ClosingADoor
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Seems you were both assholes. Why would you ever do stuff like this.
And kids do stupid stuff. At 20. You aren't a kid anymore at 20 dude.
Messofanego
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So you're ok if you ever get arrested for this then, right?
EstoyBlackWaldo
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Not that I condone posting anything private of an ex that was given to or taken for you. How would he now get arrested for it? MySpace profiles were obliterated years ago.
This thread was certainly eye-opening
InfiniteBento
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this thread is a god damn mess
Vicetrailia
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Some of ya'll are crazy.
Like I can't date you because you have the capacity for crazy. Like if you lost control, the real you will come out.
Like I can't date you because you have the capacity for crazy. Like if you lost control, the real you will come out.
The Sum of Zero
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That definitely won't happen. She didn't do it then (just sternly requested their removal). And these days we're on friendly terms, just don't communicate often. It's all water under the bridge to me and her. And those images no longer exist.
So what do you want me to do? I don't appreciate how you sound like I need to be punished for it when you don't know how much shit I went through after that breakup. Even she admitted I'd suffered enough when she talked to me again years later. But this isn't the thread for that story.
I appreciate that.
Enter the Dragon Punch
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Don't let him get to you. You know you fucked up, and you've since made up and are on good terms with her. You're fine.
This didn't actually go through, and even if it did I wouldn't have done it nor came up with the idea. I was with a girl for 5 years, and my best friend (female) had a text drafted to send her after she dumped me via text.
"I wanted to ask how you were doing through all of this, but you are two faced bitch. I'm sleeping with [my real name] now. It's a whole new great experience for him because he isn't getting crushed by a billion pounds of lard. Jesus hates you!"
Just to clarify a few things:
- My ex started getting this ridiculous paranoia in the last year or so that I was cheating on her with my best friend. This wasn't true of course, and the funny thing was that we had been friends for years before this and she knew about it and had no problem with it.
- She had a weight problem. Please keep in mind that none of this was my idea.
- About a year before we broke up I told her I wasn't religious anymore and she acted like she was cool at first, but then started freaking out and telling me things like "If we have kids you can't tell them about your beliefs for their entire lives. I have to raise Christian children. I HAVE to." She started going to Chi Alpha meetings, this large cult-like campus ministry. They would have separate meetings for men and women, and told the women things like how they have to stay away from "ungodly men" (aka men that aren't XA members), and that they needed to start immediately having kids right out of college because it was their duty to God or something, submit to their husbands, be straight, etc.
- I'm about 90% sure she was cheating on me at least a few months before we broke up. I know who the guy was, and he was CA. They got engaged within 3 months after we broke up, and married 3 months after that.
There was a time I think around when her and the other guy got married that she texted my mother asking about substitute teaching at the same school that my mother substitute taught at. My mother showed me the text, and both of us considered replying with a long text that was basically "What the hell are you thinking texting my mother like that?!" We didn't though.
This was all stuff that didn't go through though, for fairly obvious reasons.
"I wanted to ask how you were doing through all of this, but you are two faced bitch. I'm sleeping with [my real name] now. It's a whole new great experience for him because he isn't getting crushed by a billion pounds of lard. Jesus hates you!"
Just to clarify a few things:
- My ex started getting this ridiculous paranoia in the last year or so that I was cheating on her with my best friend. This wasn't true of course, and the funny thing was that we had been friends for years before this and she knew about it and had no problem with it.
- She had a weight problem. Please keep in mind that none of this was my idea.
- About a year before we broke up I told her I wasn't religious anymore and she acted like she was cool at first, but then started freaking out and telling me things like "If we have kids you can't tell them about your beliefs for their entire lives. I have to raise Christian children. I HAVE to." She started going to Chi Alpha meetings, this large cult-like campus ministry. They would have separate meetings for men and women, and told the women things like how they have to stay away from "ungodly men" (aka men that aren't XA members), and that they needed to start immediately having kids right out of college because it was their duty to God or something, submit to their husbands, be straight, etc.
- I'm about 90% sure she was cheating on me at least a few months before we broke up. I know who the guy was, and he was CA. They got engaged within 3 months after we broke up, and married 3 months after that.
There was a time I think around when her and the other guy got married that she texted my mother asking about substitute teaching at the same school that my mother substitute taught at. My mother showed me the text, and both of us considered replying with a long text that was basically "What the hell are you thinking texting my mother like that?!" We didn't though.
This was all stuff that didn't go through though, for fairly obvious reasons.
Strangelove77
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Go back in time and stop your past self from posting those photos, obviously.
Might as well explain to him revenge porn and how in the future that's illegal while you're at it.
PumpkinSpice
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I need to take some time later to add a lot more people to my ignore list.
Messofanego
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Just don't make excuses for it like this post, that's all.
You're not a kid at 20 and at that point, you should know the seriousness of revenge porn. If you didn't make that post, no one would jump at you.
supermarioworldE
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The worst thing I've ever done to an ex was simply ignore her when she tried to contact me again. This was months later, and I had no intention of speaking to her as she treated me very poorly when we were dating.
The Sum of Zero
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That's fair enough.
Same here, damn. Even that made me feel awful.
Worst I ever did was break up with a girlfriend via text when I was 17, then got into another relationship a month later. I felt awful about it, and it turned out to be a pretty terrible relationship in the end. That girlfriend Convinced me to run away from home before I graduated high school and not talk to my parents. A week later, I came to my senses and broke up with her in person, the right way I suppose. She was married and pregnant within 6 months after that. Don't wanna judge, but that wasn't really a life I wanted to live.
How About No
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Oh dear this thread. But if I may ask:
For those who seem to have an easy time with revenge fucking, how do you do it? "X made me so mad, so let's fuck"? Guessing if it was planned out and didn't just happen to happen
For those who seem to have an easy time with revenge fucking, how do you do it? "X made me so mad, so let's fuck"? Guessing if it was planned out and didn't just happen to happen
Spoiled Milk
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No, that's the twist. The prettiest thing he did is that he killed them.
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